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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: Doctor Sponge]
#22020595 - 07/30/15 04:11 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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What are "zo's"?
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madmodder
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22020635 - 07/30/15 04:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss
Mdmazing



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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: madmodder]
#22020644 - 07/30/15 04:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Oh! Fo sho
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burningstar06
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22020794 - 07/30/15 04:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Webster10 said: Did he used to pay more attention to you or has he always been like this?
Yes we used to do it like twice a day when we first started dating but we been together for four years on August 8th.
He didn't turn down the bj at all he just didn't pleasure me at all wich I found annoying. We hadn't had sex in weeks and I figured he'd be all over me but he barely touched me. It made me sad like he doesn't likeme or something. He got a handjob a bj and came and I got nothing from it,
Also I wasn't slurring my speech talking to him because we don't talk much during sex and me playing with his waist band is like a tease for him because I'm close but not quite there yet it's like a light tickle type thing. anyways I'm annoyed that he doesn't pay any attention to me in bed
Last night he was goi g to take a shower so he said to me while I'm in the shower can you put on some Nicole music fix up the bed and turn off the lights. I was assuming a nice romantic night ahead. Instead he wanted to talk about basketball and crap >: /
We used to do it all the time but hen there was a medical reSon where we couldn't do it for like 6 months and everything just spchanged after that.
He says he's depressed latley but this has been happening I mean he used to pay attention to me. I'm also going through a lot of crap right now too so sex gets put on the back burner a lot so you think that whe it gets on the front burner he would be all over it but no 
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: burningstar06]
#22020824 - 07/30/15 04:49 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Did you communicate everything to him you said here? What was his response?
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: burningstar06]
#22020825 - 07/30/15 04:49 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well you been together 4 years, he probably cares about you as much as you care about him, it might just be a phase. There's always going to be hurdles to overcome in any relationship, you really should try explaining to him how you feel and why and hear his side of it, and then try to work it out together. Keeping annoyances bottled in makes them build up until the bottle burst, na mean?
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#22021528 - 07/30/15 06:57 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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He clearly doesn't realize what an awesome girlfriend he has
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: nicechrisman]
#22021557 - 07/30/15 07:03 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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nicechrisman said: Has your boyfriend been taking mushrooms?
why do you ask.
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: burningstar06]
#22021647 - 07/30/15 07:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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You should talk to him about it. I know it probably makes you embarrassed to talk about it and you're probably nervous about it but if you don't discuss it you both won't know what the other is thinking!
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: Lucis]
#22021658 - 07/30/15 07:25 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Fennario said:
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nicechrisman said: Has your boyfriend been taking mushrooms?
why do you ask.

shrooms are gay
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: burningstar06]
#22021671 - 07/30/15 07:28 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well all I can tell you is if you ever come out to Cali, I'll take care of you
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#22021721 - 07/30/15 07:40 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sirshroomsalot You always have great advice il try and talk to him tonight and see what he has to say about it
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: burningstar06]
#22021733 - 07/30/15 07:42 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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nicechrisman said: Well all I can tell you is if you ever come out to Cali, I'll take care of you
Doesn't look like it's happening man Quote:
burningstar06 said: Sirshroomsalot You always have great advice il try and talk to him tonight and see what he has to say about it
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22021737 - 07/30/15 07:43 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm still saving myself for her in case things turn around
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: Lucis]
#22022289 - 07/30/15 09:58 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Fennario said:
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Crystal G said: It would be different if it were a stranger, or if her boyfriend just shoved it in her while she was not ready at all.
Yes that would be different because what you just said is rape.
Anyway, OP how long have you guys been together? I hate to say this but maybe he is bored with you, some couples get this way it's only natural, best thing is to separate if that's the case. Sure you can try to spice things up, but you might only be prolonging the inevitable.
Yes, that is basically what I was implying, because the poster I was responding to was insinuating that eating a girl out and getting her wet when she isn't into the sex is a double standard that would constitute "rape." But it depends on each individual situation. Sometimes it is rape (or at the very least sexual coercion or sexual assault), but many times it isn't.
Most couples out there don't explicitly say "Yes honey I want to bang you right now," they instead give what is called 'implied consent.' And it's very easy to tell when somebody is giving implied consent, because it is written all over in their body language, facial expression, how passionately they kiss, etc.
You don't even have to say a word to let somebody know you want to be fucked. All you have to do is give a look--everybody knows that look.
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: Crystal G] 1
#22022369 - 07/30/15 10:16 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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oh I know that look alright
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: moonrockmushy]
#22022855 - 07/31/15 01:39 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I thought it was this one:

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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: GoldenEye]
#22022865 - 07/31/15 01:47 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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OP have you seen Realm of the Senses? there your answer lies.
ie cut the dick off, then he's yours forever. just don't strangle him and yourself with silk bedding.
PS: i don't have a real answer for you. i'd honestly go and tickle his butthole with a dildo and insist that it's either him or you.
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: GoldenEye]
#22022871 - 07/31/15 01:53 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: How to get my boyfriend to pay more attention to me in bed? / romance [Re: Soulidarity]
#22023021 - 07/31/15 03:31 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Do mushrooms together. Or get drunk, whatever, as long as you're both too intoxicated to hide anything from eachother, you should be fine.
It sounds like a crazy plan, but it has always worked well for me in the past.
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Edited by Turtletotem (07/31/15 03:32 AM)
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