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Love triangle
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So a while ago I made a thread askin how I could stop crushing on my best friend because she is already with someone..

Link:

http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/11031425#11031425

Anyway, turns out that the whole time she'd fallen for me too.. Shes already in a relationship but she isnt happy. The guy is a real prick, and she told me theres no spark or passion left.

Today things got really steamy and we were just holding each other for ages.. We almost kissed but we resisted cos we knew we'd feel too guilty. Anyway she kinda freaked out after that, sayin she feels really bad about it, and I do too.

She feels like she owes her boyfriend a chance to change (for like the 10th fucken time now), but I don't think he can.

What should I do here? should I back off? I've never clicked with a girl before like this, so I don't really wanna let her go.. I ended up tellin her that maybe we shouldn't see each other until she sorts her shit out.. Hope that wasn't the wrong move, but I just don't think its fair on the guy, even if he is a prick.

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Re: Love triangle [Re: Apocalypso]
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Depends on your goals.  If you back off she probably won't get her shit together and will stay with the ass cause she's used to it and it's easy.  The time for an ultimatum is not when you've just held each other for awhile.

If you want her to get away from him, get her away from him, but make sure you bring your A-game.  Always have some cool interesting shit thought out to do, and be sure to slyly mention all the ways that you're so cool and shit.

I'm kinda in the same boat, only this girl I didn't tell to fuck off till she got her shit together, I just got it together for her :lol:

Next time things get a little steamy, kiss her.  She'll have a beaming smile on her face.

I realize I may come off like a total douche-nugget in this post, but I can't really help it.  It seems like these days the only girls attracted to me have boyfriends already :shrug:


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For well you know that its a fool who plays it cool
By making his world a little colder.

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Re: Love triangle [Re: circularvortex]
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Hmmm. Maybe I shouldnt back off, I dunno. I'm hoping she'll have the balls to do things on her own. If I got this girl, I'd wanna stay with her.

I only came clean about how I felt about her last night. Her reaction was the opposite of what I expected. Turns out shes liked me for longer than I liked her. I think shes just clinging to her relationship becuas he's her first bf, and they've been together for 4 years (I've known her for 3) and shes scared of change.

Edited by Apocalypso (09/21/09 10:27 AM)

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Re: Love triangle [Re: circularvortex]
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Wow, you guys are digging way too deep. Don't get caught in playing emotional tag with women. THATS WHAT THEY dO! Chicks dig the dude that can be emotionally turned off at the first sight of emotional turbulence. Thats why she IS with the douche andfeels bad about spooning with YOU. She fucks a guy who is an asshole and has little negative feelings while shes all broke up about being hugged up with you. Fuck the mind games. If she was into you she woulda gobbled your dick or at least bent the fuck over. Fuck the nice guy shit. BE AN ANIMAL! Chicks respond to it.

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Re: Love triangle [Re: joshisstoned]
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nice guys finish last is not a common euphemism for nothing!

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Re: Love triangle [Re: joshisstoned]
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It wasn't just spooing, I was kissing her neck and shit, we touched lips etc. She was trembling... said I gave her feelings she never felt before, so I know I made a good impression. The boyfriend is clueless in that department. Trust me, I know girls don't dig the nice guy.  :wink:

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Re: Love triangle [Re: Apocalypso]
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Im usually a smartass around her, flirting etc. Its just gone on for so long now thats its more than just a crush. Thats why my post sounds abit chummy.

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Re: Love triangle [Re: Apocalypso]
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I wasn't trying to demasculate you cousin! I was just saying, it sounds like you are becoming and allowing things to become very emotional before any real commitment. Guys typically don't do that. If the emotions were so deep and on point, then you'd be together right now in a full blown relationship, which is what people do when they are deeply emotionally entangled. It sounded like fun, but i woulda tried to put the tongue to her ass... works every time,lol!

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Re: Love triangle [Re: joshisstoned]
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Its grimey in america. Girls just FUCK! You gotta be callus around this mother fucker, and strap up or your shit will fall off. maybe ohio girls are just sluts. Maybe myspace and facebook are to blame

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Re: Love triangle [Re: joshisstoned]
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Chance to change? I don't understand why people do this, It's better to move on and find someone new rather than to hang on to false hope and feelings.


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Re: Love triangle [Re: Apocalypso]
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joshisstoned said:
BE AN ANIMAL! Chicks respond to it.



QFT!
Be aggressive, the fact that she's letting you kiss her neck and hug up with her means that she is ready and willing. You just gotta dive in and go for it. Prove to her that you are the better choice.


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Re: Love triangle [Re: highdroponics]
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highdroponics said:
Chance to change? I don't understand why people do this, It's better to move on and find someone new rather than to hang on to false hope and feelings.


My thoughts exactly.

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Re: Love triangle [Re: Apocalypso]
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not worth it.
find someone else.


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Re: Love triangle [Re: igwna]
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Go for it!

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Re: Love triangle [Re: Apocalypso]
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Bizarre Love Triangle


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Re: Love triangle [Re: igwna]
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theMERRYiguana said:
not worth it.
find someone else.


Exactly.

If she got bored of her bf and cheated on him with you, who's to say she won't pull that same shit on you after a few months.

Keep talking to her and be supportive over her negative feelings towards her bf if you wanna get laid, but don't bring up the fact that he's a loser or whatever. Just say, "Yeah, I can't believe he ditched you. I'd never do something like that to you." Something to that effect.

Do not get in a relationship with her though. It will end bad.


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Re: Love triangle [Re: Apocalypso]
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Just let it go man; I was in a very similar situation before, and while we had some good times together, in the end it was just a headache & by the time it was over, so was the friendship. It's not worth it. :shrug:


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Re: Love triangle [Re: Apocalypso]
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Quote:
She was trembling... said I gave her feelings she never felt before, so I know I made a good impression.


Yep, that sounds familiar. :rolleyes:


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Re: Love triangle [Re: tokingnome]
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tokingnome said:
theMERRYiguana said:
not worth it.
find someone else.


Exactly.

If she got bored of her bf and cheated on him with you, who's to say she won't pull that same shit on you after a few months.

Keep talking to her and be supportive over her negative feelings towards her bf if you wanna get laid, but don't bring up the fact that he's a loser or whatever. Just say, "Yeah, I can't believe he ditched you. I'd never do something like that to you." Something to that effect.

Do not get in a relationship with her though. It will end bad.


Shes never even kissed another guy or anything though (thats not to say that shes frigid).. Its why we felt bad and decided not to go further.

You don't know what the guy was like (I say "was" becuase they broke up today), always coming home late n lying about where he was, he was aggressive etc... It's like he didnt wanna be in it either.. I mean they wouldnt even kiss anymore, thats how cold it got.

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Re: Love triangle [Re: Apocalypso]
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Apocalypso said:
tokingnome said:
theMERRYiguana said:
not worth it.
find someone else.


Exactly.

If she got bored of her bf and cheated on him with you, who's to say she won't pull that same shit on you after a few months.

Keep talking to her and be supportive over her negative feelings towards her bf if you wanna get laid, but don't bring up the fact that he's a loser or whatever. Just say, "Yeah, I can't believe he ditched you. I'd never do something like that to you." Something to that effect.

Do not get in a relationship with her though. It will end bad.


Shes never even kissed another guy or anything though (thats not to say that shes frigid).. Its why we felt bad and decided not to go further.

You don't know what the guy was like (I say "was" becuase they broke up today), always coming home late n lying about where he was, he was aggressive etc... It's like he didnt wanna be in it either.. I mean they wouldnt even kiss anymore, thats how cold it got.



any girl that has too complex a thing going on that being with YOU, the one she "truly digs", is difficult isn't worth the trouble.


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I don't believe in cops, bosses, or politicians. Some call that anarchism. I call it having a fucking heart that beats.


Edited by igwna (09/23/09 01:49 PM)

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