Quote: Anonymous #2 said:.
its not necessarily 'fucking with people in the head to get in their pants' either, i think that is a common misconception. my goal in expanding my PUA abilities is not to be a player/pimp, and i dont want to hurt any of the girls i pick up.
90% of my interaction with said females is genuinely me.
ultimately, i want to make sure that the next time i meet a girl that i really like, i will be able to get her.
dude i feel the exact same way i can agree with all of this
especially about the changing part. i have a friend who has become somewhat of an asshole due to PUA. its not his fault, his personality was set up for it. he went from being a guy who never had a girlfriend in his life and just fucked some random chicks to having a really nice young pretty girl who actually wanted a relationship. now he is bored and wants to go sarge other women. 
now i want to share with you my own personal success of late. she was a nice 8, latina, that i met through a female friend. i didn't cube her or anything like that but built rapport and trust through zodiac conversation. girls , even though they may not buy it, are all somewhat interested in astrology. you can use your knowledge of it to skip several layers of trust. i looked up her star chart both for fun (and to satisfy my own curiosity) she was really into it and got the IOIs that i needed. i waited two days, then i caught her and my friend on their way out going to a basketball game. we chilled, smoked a bowl and i told them i was going to a movie later on and they could come with after the game. very important: i did not ask, i told her what i was doing. essentially i gave her permission and that builds value. if she was interested she would comply. if not she would ditch me.
My friend called me way too close to the movie time and i was like "fuck, we only have 10 minutes". she told me they would go with me tomorrow, that they were tired. this is where i took control of the situation and i said " look i think im just gonna go to the drum circle instead, you guys can do whatever." they complied and showed up at my house 10 minutes later. the 8 pulled up in her car with my friend. i offered to drive her car since she didn't know the way and she let me. this let me know i was already high up on the trust tier.
we got to the venue and i immediately started kino. old friends rushed up and i hugged them and introduced them to the 8 and my friend. surprisingly enough, the 8 knew one of my friends, the most dreaded out hippie dude in the place selling trinkets and handbags. he was her sisters ex boyfriend. turns out her older sister is a total hippie. +1 for the 8 . i moved the focus of the kino to the 8 and i unlocked the lower three levels of kino by starting off in a higher tier. the only way she could hear me through the drumming was by talking to her with my face pressed against hers. it may not seem like it but this is high level kino, if you can do that several times you are set for a kiss close.
we left and she kept telling me how much fun she had. we got back to my house and i let my friend in to use the bathroom. during this time i isolated the 8 and number closed. i said "so who were you texting all night?" she laughed and insisted that she was trying to get ahold of her sister to tell her to come out. i said "so why don't you text me your number?" thats when she offered to just give me her number. very key is to make them give you the number. that was followed immediately by some brief tongue action. not too much though, just enough to get her hooked. . the end!
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