Anonymous #1 said:

to fucking crush my ex girlfriend's soul.

she cheated on me, then decided a week later she really loved me and wasn't in love with the other guy.  also she lied about it continously till i pointed out the proof.

so i did what i had to do and i told her how much i love her and of course i forgive her and we're going to get married someday and all that fucking bullshit.

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Anonymous #6 said:

Just tell her she lost one of the best things that will ever happen to her and bounce. 

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Anonymous #8 said: As long as she doesn't bring home any diseases or get knocked up, and she comes home to you at the end of the day, like, who really gives a fuck if she plays around a little?

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Anonymous #5 said:

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Anonymous #8 said: As long as she doesn't bring home any diseases or get knocked up, and she comes home to you at the end of the day, like, who really gives a fuck if she plays around a little?

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I do.

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Anonymous #1 said:

i've never done anything like this before, and i need your support guys.  tell me to stay cool headed and think about the big picture, not just get mad and lose my head.

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Anonymous #1 said:

lol i'm just looking for support, not to be pursuaded.

all of my girlfriends have cheated on me in a similar way.  this girl is the most honest person i've ever known, and was a virgin when we started dating.  she is a total upright, uptight, prudish, christian, moral girl.  thats why i started dating her, because i was tired of women that eventually turned into evil skanks.

now that she has failed me i really see no salvation for whatever romanticism i had left, and the only thing i can do is take control of situation.  and its not because i was super in love with her, just because i obviously can not trust any woman.  so if thats how i'm going to be treated, thats how i'm going to treat people.

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Spite is not going to get you anywhere better man.  It will make you bitter and less attractive to other women.  Save yourself the trouble and just learn what you can here and move on.  No offense, but the common thread between all your girlfriends is you.  This is a personal question, but how do you feel about yourself?  Honestly... confident?  Not so great? 

I've known several people who get cheated on repeatedly and the reason is obvious to me:  they are insecure and worry about losing their girlfriend.  It makes the women feel like they're not so lucky to be with them, and they stray.  Once they decide women can't be trusted, they unknowingly give up ANY chance of landing a decent woman, because they've chosen to be sore and bitter.

I'd spend some time getting more comfortable in your own skin.  Fear and spite are surefire signs of insecurity.  Work on getting to a place where you don't need them.  Self assuredness is an irresistible quality.  You have to spend some time being single to do improve that.

Good luck, just don't go to the dark side here, it will only attract more problems.

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