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How to deal?
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alright there is this guy i know whom whenever is near me seems to enjoy making remarks but he does it under his breathe and i sometimes mistake it as being one of my thoughts and i think he knows it and that is why he is doing it, he'll curse out load ill look over with my head phones and ask What? then he says nothing then i shoot the shit and lo and behold even later he's gargling spit sniffing the air and just making these animal grunts

not only but hes a pathological liar and a manipulator i mean he's mostly on his one but when he wants something he acts really nice

please help

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Stop hanging out with him?

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Punch his dumb ass in the nose , but don't tell him why.  Just do it and walk away.

But you better hit him hard or he might think you are a pussy.  If he thinks that, he might hit you back, so hit him hard enough to make him see his own blood. 

But trust me.....DO NOT SAY A WORD TO HIM AFTER YOU HIT HIM.  Just walk away calmly.

Your welcome 4 the awesome advice:)

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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whenever is near me seems to enjoy making remarks but he does it under his breathe and i sometimes mistake it as being one of my thoughts and i think he knows it and that is why he is doing it



The way you tell it I can't rule out that you're hearing things. Mistake his voice for your thoughts, how does that work?

You have to be certain he does in fact do that. When you are certain, then you can decide what to do.

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hes a pathological liar and a manipulator (..) when he wants something he acts really nice


If his niceness is an act, he's not nice. The way you describe it, its not a guy I'd like to be around.

Respect is a BIG thing for me. If people don't respect me -boom- I'm outta there. If you know somebody some time and they don't respect you, they weigh your words from the :rolleyes: point of view. Nothing is to be gained in hanging with em.

There has been a period in my life I had no friends, but it was to be preferred to the false friends I had before.

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Good advice anon 4.

When you are sure, then hit him in the nose.

Hold a bic lighter or a roll of quarters when you do it though.

The fastest way to kill a bully is to bully them when they least expect it.  It short circuits their brain, they doubt themselves, and a few seconds later they become your bitch, and will never stop being a bitch until they get respect from you.  Never give a bully his respect back.  He will stab you in the balls if you do.

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #3]
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I'm glad I can differentiate my own thoughts from noises around me.
Sounds like you've got a problem, and not the dumb fuck you should ditch.

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #5]
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i can honestly say ive experienced similar things. i went through a period where everyone thought iwas gay. they would critique everything i did and took adavantage of my add and bad ears for their amusement. i finally said to hell with it and confronted the one person i thought would be straight up with me and lo n behold, i wasnt crazy. they were doing the things i suspected.

years down the road i layed off most the drugs only partaking on special occasions and started going to a shrink. after a few years of being on ritilin, klonopin, hydroxyzine, ambien and zoloft i feel like my brain has been rewired and works properly again.

there are a host of reasons things got so out of hand in my life but the bottom line is i didnt stick up for myself. i was to caught up in my own head to do something about the things going on around me that were causing great stress. if someone tried doing that now, id knock their teeth out.

people prey on the weak and if you have victim tattooed on your forhead people know. its easier said then done but you need your confidence back (it took me years of faithfully trying to get better). once people know youre not going to sit and take it, they will stop and move on to the next easy target. good luck op.


also, as of now, if i were you op, i would take wait till theres not a lot of people around except you and him,  grab him by the shirt and slam him into the wall. tell him that youve heard hes had some stuff to say behind your back and that if hes got something to say to say it loud and clear like a man right here and now. tell him if he wants to make a move that nows the time to do it while nobodys around because if you get wind of him pulling some shit like this again you will put his punk ass into the ground before he knows what hit him infront of whoevers around to let them know just what a candy ass bitch he truely is. you dont have to let him know specifics or suspicions. he just needs to understand the seriousness of your intentions. and you need to follow through with your actions if you want this to stop.

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Great advice anon 6


except for all of the talking.  Talking leads to rationalizing, justifying, arguing, and then he will just manipulate you like a buddy until he sees your anger is gone.

Pretend you cannot speak.  Do what you gotta do to this guy to get your respect out of him, but do not waste your fury with your tongue.

Talking before a fight will always make you look weak no matter what you have to say.

A punch in the nose will cause his eyes to water, and then you can let his bloody nose and crying eyes humiliate him without words.

Plus I can tell you from experience, getting hit by someone with no words has much more of a SHOCK AND AWE effect.  The second you speak, you give him your power.  Talk to him later after if you need to put him in check, but bust his ass, then walk away, and do not even look him in the eyes if you don't have to.  He will think you flipped out, when psycho, and that will ad to his fear of you even more.

You need to come off a little bit like a sociopath if you can.

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #3]
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i believe in a fair warning before the shit hits the proverbial fan no matter who or what. when done properly it lies squarely on his shoulders if he wants to find out what the next level is. especially since the op is considering the possibility that this "might" be all in his head. besides a an assult charge never really helps, ya know. and if he is the kinda scumbag to play mindgames hes prolly bitch enough to call the piggies. he now has the choice to change his ways before he gets a beatdown.

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Anon 6

Someone is victimizing you, over and over, and you beleive in warning them?

What a pussy way to handle it.  I mean obviously this guy has sized you up as a punk, what exactly do you think a warning is gonna do?  Scare him into stopping his constant assults on you?

During the cold war with russia,  do you think that if we had launched a nuclear strike, we would have called russia first to warn them? 

If someone is fucking with you, plenty of time to talk before it gets out of hand.  But once it is out of hand, and you need to deal with the situation, trying to talk or warn is just making you look completely impotent. 

Some people are just weak by nature...  They bring it on themselves.

Historically in all cultures once the decision is made to go to war, there is no more talk.  And the few that do try to talk their way out of a situation in battle times often get killed without even getting the oportunity to fight.

You have 3 choices here dude.

1.  Ignore him, and keep putting up with his bullshit.

2.  Quit the job, and go somewhere else.

3.  Stand up for yourself, take back your respect, and nuetralize your enemy with the same fear they use against you.

I have been a little guy all my life.  As a kid I got beat up after school, and during school for years before I got fed up with the shame and humiliation, and started fighting back.

after you make that choice and people see you stand up for yourself, the amount of fights you have to deal with is few to none.

How do you think talking your way through a fight in prison would work for you?  Do think anybody would respect your words?  You would just be advertising the fact that you are a easy mark pussy, and you would then be preyed upon by big and small alike.

Time for talk is over.  Make up your mind on how you want to handle this, and do it.  I have told you what I would tell my own son, and it will work.

However, if you take that pussy advice from anon 6 you will not be able to intimidate the bully even with 5 rolls of quarters in your punch.  You gotta show him a side that he has never seen in you.  If you keep acting like a little bitch when he bully's you around, or fucks with you for fun, eventually he will know that there is no other side of you, and then you will be helpless.  Do you really want that?

Diplomacy in the face of an attacker is shear utter weakness, and deserves what it gets.

Anon 6 this guy needs help, quit acting like a fucking politician, and tell him what you would tell your own son if you had one in his situation.

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #3]
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i completely agree, action needs to be taken. however, the op is still questioning the validity of what hes hearing. it is possible that drugs are causing him the paranoia. it is possible the op is in the early stages of scitzo. these reasons are why i believe a firm acknowledgement of awareness is needed. what will be gained IF the op is hearing things that arent there and he just goes out a decks someone in a crowd for no "appearent" reason. Hes gonna go to jail. and when the judge asks why he did it, whats he gonna say, "i think the guys was teasing me but im not positive." all you guys saying an ass whoopin is the first thing that needs to be done are a little younger then me i would imagine.    the idea is to think before you react, not think about why you acted the way you did. should a cop shoot you first then ask why you were holding that ham sammich when he told you to put your hands up? think like a man.....not a victim looking for retribution.

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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OK,

WELL OP....aRE YOU FUCKING CRAZY OR NOT?


mIGHT BE A GOOD IDEA TO TAKE OFF THE HEADPHONES.

yOUR RIGHT #6  MY BAD......

bE SURE FIRST......bUT THEN HANDLE YOUR BUSINESS WITHOUT WORDS:)

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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Anonymous #6 said:
also, as of now, if i were you op, i would take wait till theres not a lot of people around except you and him,  grab him by the shirt and slam him into the wall. tell him that youve heard hes had some stuff to say behind your back and that if hes got something to say to say it loud and clear like a man right here and now. tell him if he wants to make a move that nows the time to do it while nobodys around because if you get wind of him pulling some shit like this again you will put his punk ass into the ground before he knows what hit him infront of whoevers around to let them know just what a candy ass bitch he truely is. you dont have to let him know specifics or suspicions. he just needs to understand the seriousness of your intentions. and you need to follow through with your actions if you want this to stop.


Great advice until the guy in question pulls out a knife and shanks the OP in the throat. LOL

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #7]
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if hes the kinda jit to sit and play mind games, do you really think hes gonna be tough enough to stab someone in the throat? and even if he does, everone wins......kinda. if the op lives, the shithead will go to prison.....no longer around. if the op dies, well, the shithead still goes to prison. passive aggressive people are just that.....passive aggressive. the passive try to pass off agression to avoid aggressive situations. put that person in a volitile situation and they WILL think about what happened, why it happened, and what to do to prevent it from happening again. they are to scared to deal with things head on which is why they display the behaviour they do. just a taste of things to come will be enough.

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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meh if anything ill figure out a way to drive myself crazier lol maybe start talking to myself or take enough drugs to go all terets and shit, then when I leap at him he won't be all fu snickens

its just seeing myself punch him in the face sounds to good to be true

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #1]
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that is why u should do it.

We create our own reality.

Don't you wanna be a cool headed independent guy with a big self esteem and respected by everyone?

You will feel great when its over.  Try reliving painful memories for a while before you do it.  If you make yourself angry it will be a whole lot easier to pull off.

Don't use this guy to work yourself up, use him to vent all of the shit you have been through unjustly in life.

Then go have a beer after you do it, and be proud of yourself for being strong in spirit.

Good Luck dude!!

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #3]
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this was one of the better anon threads I've read in a while.

Keep us updated if you do anything OP

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #8]
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i can tell you first hand that if you dont like them calling you by your last name, tell them!!! next time someone says it say "thats not your name, this is." its perfect to get the momentum going in the direction YOU want it. its such a harmless little thing though it gets irritating and it seems people instantly lose respect for you. hell a nickname can. if you tell them to stop calling you that and they start giving you shit it opens up the whole "how old are you, grow up" (type of) conversation. trust me they WILL start calling you by your first name. tell them till they do. this will show that you arent backing down. that you are your own man and deserve some respect whether they think you do or not. they will respect you for having the backbone to stand up for yourself......like a man.

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #6]
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I like turtles

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Re: How to deal? [Re: Anonymous #9]
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who gives a fuck? if the man doesn't have the balls to say it to your face, you have no reason (as an honorable man) to even worry about it. it is beneath you

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