Anonymous said:
^^^Well thank you for that^^^
It just makes me sound like more of a headcase... I dont drink EVER!!! I cant stand the smell, taste, burning, nothing. I dont care at all to be around drunk people! So I dont go to bars, Restaurants with bars EVER!!! I love concerts and go all the time, Actually just went to see Megadeth, InFlames, Children of Bodom, Job for a Cowboy and somebody else i cant remember just the other night. AWESOME SHOW!!! BTW.
But anyway, I find myself literally and completely unable to make eye contact with ANY woman be it an attractive or non-attractive one, Old or young one, But I can make conversation about almost anything with just about any Guy out there... so usually i talk to plenty of guys but no women ever.
I am not Gay, the thought of it makes me want to puke, but also the thought of how long it has actually been since i had even just a hug... it makes me want to puke.
I have self confidence in every single aspect of my life except this one, I.e. I went to college 2yrs Graduated "Cum Laude" and am now Certified in Auto Mechanics, Im a very accomplished Tattoo artist by self teaching, I can do ANYTHING I put my mind to, learn anything in a short peroid of time, have an IQ of 137, But I Can Not Do This... Why?
Ill toss in my 2 cents here.
#1) Learn to read body language, the discovery channel had a great series on human mating and body language. But ill give you a few hints.
1.1) under most instances, if a woman walks over to you or sits down next to you, she is interested. This is not the case of the place is full and the only seat is the one next to you.
1.2) always scan the room looking at eyes, when you see a woman that you think is looking at you. Just put on a little smile. If she smiles back or plays with her hair, it is a GREAT sign. If you see this, walk over and introduce your self. (See section 2)
1.3) Ok, this is a secret, so women reading this should stop here!  When a woman ovulates (A point when the egg is moving to the utiris) she gets horny. it is biological. There are many outward ways they show it. The biggest is that they select clothing that shows more skin and more cleavage. This is subcutaneous and means that you can scan a room for woman that are likely to want more.
#2) Striking up a conversation:
2.1) Say "Hello, Im YOUR_NAME_HERE. Hows it going." This may sound funny but that line has gotten me more than you could imagine. You will know quickly if she is not interested. Most women, when not interested, will tell you there name and then say something like "I am just getting a drink for my friend." or what ever they can come up with to get away.
2.2) Always ask open ended questions. Like "So what do you do for a living?" Now here is the hard part, once you ask the question SHUT UP AND LISTEN! Always listen to what they have to say, never minimize there issues, and use what the talk about to ask more open ended questions. This keeps the conversation going, requires the least amount of input from you, and makes them feel that you care about them and are interested in there life. When they ask you a question, make the answer as short as possible and always through the ball back into there court.
2.3) Always make eye contact when taking to them, if you are looking away you are not listening and if you are looking at there chest you are a pervert.
#3) The close:
3.1) Never walk away with out at least asking for a phone number. You insult her by doing this and women talk to there friends.
3.2) Never ask he if she would like to go screw, fuck, etc. Never ask her back to your place after just meeting her. She will let you know if she wants to go back to your place.
3.3) If you are leaving, ask if she would like to go to get some coffee or go down the street and grab something at the local after hours hangout (Around here it is Denies or the Waffle House.)
#4) The date:
4.1) call her in no less than 2 days, tell her who you are and where you met. Ask if she would like to go out this Friday (Give her some warning.) If you have gotten this far, there is a 90% chance she will say yes.
4.2) Plan the date, dinner and a movie, out to see a band, etc.
4.2.1) Another secret, if you are going out to eat, eat something before you go. This is why women just pick at the meal. Dinner to them is not the food, it is the conversation!
Now for an extra hint, good looking women (10+) do not go out alone, they will have several women with them. None of them will be as good looking as the 10 but they will be good looking none the less. To get the 10, ignore here. Talk to and engage with her friends. When she asks you questions, give one word short answers and go back to chatting up her friends. Women that are 10's are not used to having men ignore them and they will do ANYTHING to be the center of attention!
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