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Post-Orgasm change of feelings?
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Over the last year or two of my life I have noticed a marked change in my mood after getting off. It used to be that I would just feel nice and relaxed but around last spring I started getting depressed feelings. I was suprised that I could feel anything but good after ejactulation.

More recently I find myself in the situation where I am with a women, and after I come I feel WAY different and scares me. It's like all of a sudden I get really anxious and fearful of being trapped, or have doubts as to whether I was attracted to the person in the first place. Not only do the sexual feelings go away, but alot of other more gentle ones too.

This even happens if I am on my own. I can think about the girl I am dating for hours, and not even in a really sexual way, but then if I masturbate all of a sudden I don't want to think about her for 2-3 hours. I find it is not so bad if I can orgasm without ejaculating, which I recently learned to do. I guess in the past I've never had to own up to those kind of impulses because you can always just put the porn away and move onto something else, but when you are there with another person who cares about you it is freaky. It's so weird to see your emotional state fluctuating so much with just hormones and such.

I feel pretty nieve, but is this pretty common, or is it a sign that a) I am discontented with my partner but clouded by hormones, or some weird repressed feelings are emerging?


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Re: Post-Orgasm change of feelings? [Re: Divided_Sky]
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well it could be an imabalance of the sacral chakra....

how often are you orgasming? Maybe you are running out of energy and taking it from other places to compensate?


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Re: Post-Orgasm change of feelings? [Re: Divided_Sky]
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It is common but I think its different with different people. It is pretty bad for me.

I will be sooo into a girl before sex, caressing her, whispering sweet nothings into her ear lol..but then right after I finish, I feel that I didn't mean all the shit that I just said and I hate that feeling. Its like you momentarily disconnect and slip away from that person while she is still totally into you. Maybe its about finding girls that we emotionally connect with more than just physically or something, i dunno.

edit: Now that I think of it, it might help to be more physically attracted to them than emotionally. Shit, now im confused.

Edited by Catalysis (06/06/06 06:28 PM)

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Re: Post-Orgasm change of feelings? [Re: Divided_Sky]
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Romantic love = hormones. Life is giving you a reality check. Pay attention. :wink:


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Re: Post-Orgasm change of feelings? [Re: Icelander]
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:lol: :thumbup:


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Re: Post-Orgasm change of feelings? [Re: Catalysis]
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Catalysis said:
edit: Now that I think of it, it might help to be more physically attracted to them than emotionally. Shit, now im confused.


Yeah, that's the same thing I've been wondering.


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Re: Post-Orgasm change of feelings? [Re: Divided_Sky]
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same shit happens to me

after i orgasm, i really dont want to be next to the girl if im not really sexually attracted to her, though honestly i havent felt anything emotional or physical for any girls in a long time other than the i want to fuck you only feelings.
i think its a body/mind conflict of some kind

maybe its a feeling that occurs because im lacking love in my relationships, and possibly the presence of close relationships that help to validate my sense of self - so im taking out this kind of sexual aggression with women because i cannot find one that makes me feel complete.

dunno...
i would rather be alone atm unless i can find love - yet i keep having sex with these girls who mean nothing to me, its depressing in reflection


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Re: Post-Orgasm change of feelings? [Re: Mickalopagus]
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"some weird repressed feelings are emerging?"

correct assumption. but i dont know about "repressed."

consider them "temporarily unimportant" instead...


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