Home | Community | Message Board
You are not signed in.
Sign In New Account
Forum Index Search Posts Trusted Vendors Highlights Galleries FAQ User List Chat Store Random Growery

MagicBag Grow Bags
This site includes paid links. Please support our sponsors.

Community > Physical and Mental Well-Being
Threaded Mode Threaded  Previous topic Previous  View all topics Index  Next topic Next 

Welcome to the Shroomery Message Board! You are experiencing a small sample of what the site has to offer. Please login or register to post messages and view our exclusive members-only content. You'll gain access to additional forums, file attachments, board customizations, encrypted private messages, and much more!

Jump to first unread post Pages: | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5  [ show all ]
Re: Being Gay [Re: Boppity604]
    #1670702 -

I work in an office w/ 6 gay guys. They're really touchy feely and although that crosses my comfort zone a bit at times, I realize it's harmless. They're all great co workers and friends...we're all different in many ways. I wish you didn't feel so badly.

I don't know your age, but if you have the opportunity to move to a gay friendly city when you're older...I'd recommend it. My friend did that. He moved from central Illinois to Chicago and the difference for him was as dramatic as day and night. He's happily openly gay and so are all of his many gay friends that I've met over the course of the past 2 years.


--------------------
_Shrew_

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Re: Being Gay [Re: _Shrew_]
    #1670872 -

Hmm...this is a wonderful thread.  I thought I would contribute to it with my own situation.  I have been with a truly darling man for 1 year and 8 months now, and there is no doubt that I want to spend the rest of my life with him.  Thinking of how much I love him makes me want to cry.  We have great sex and a very passionate intellectual connection.  I cherish him so much.  He supports me in everything. 

My issue is that I am very fervently sexually attracted to women.  I adore them.  I like the fierce vixens, the shy homely girls...all of them are attractive to me.  I don't know why.  I have sexual thoughts about them all the time, even, I admit, when I am having sex with my boyfriend.  :blush:  But I have never even been sexual with a woman, so I wonder how I would feel if I actually 'did it'.  I've just kissed my best friends and minor touching and stuff. 

I asked Kev, my boyfriend, if we could have a threesome with another woman, and he said we could if I really wanted to.  I don't think I would willingly want to betray my boyfriend though that way...cause thats how I would feel.  I think my attraction for women is purely sexual, as I could never imagine myself having a relationship with one, since I am with Kev. 

So anyway, I am rather convinced I am bisexual and I am almost to the point where I want to tell my parents about it.  When I turn 21 (in a few months) I will start venturing to gay bars with my boyfriend and check out the scene and see how I feel about it.  It is great to know that there are many other people at the Shroomery who are going through sort of the same thing.  So, thanks!  :smile:

When it comes to homophobes, I feel pretty belligerant to them.  It is one thing about not sharing an attraction, and quite another when you condemn it, IMO.  I feel really defiant towards them in fact.  I'm so grateful that Kev is open to my various sexual attractions.  I love him so much... :heart: :heart: :heart:

Anyway, good luck to all the people still struggling to deal with their sexuality, or pondering on whether or not to come out.  Just remember to have faith.  :smile: 

truly,
Shade

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Re: Being Gay [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
    #1686723 -

AS is smart :thumbup:

It's not your job to pretend you're not gay. What others think of that is not your problem, and of course not your fault. It isn't important. Please don't worry this much about that


--------------------
Namaste

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Re: Being Gay [Re: RedNucleus]
    #1687901 -

yes ...




no, i'm not. i was talking out of my ass; i tend to do that a lot.


--------------------
-- Accept my heart warming gift of TREE SCRATCHIES!!! I absolve thee!! --

JaP: 30,000 lines of gay, cock, and fag can't be wrong
Ped: only in #shroomery is "smuggle opium in her ass" followed by "i don't want shitty opium" which is followed by " *** Joins: PENISSQUAD"
--
JaP: What would this place be without random sluts?
JaP: Nothing, I tell you.

:heart: :todcasil: :heart:

Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Jump to top Pages: | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5  [ show all ]

Community > Physical and Mental Well-Being
Threaded Mode Threaded  Previous topic Previous  View all topics Index  Next topic Next 

Similar ThreadsPosterViewsRepliesLast post
* Scars from homophobia Anonymous 1,400 11 12/24/08 04:36 AM
by moonrockmushy
* Help me understand/cope with my homosexual thoughts.. *not graphic*
( 1 2 all )		 PuzzledMind 3,724 23 03/17/09 09:46 AM
by TaxCollector
* Can't accept myself.
( 1 2 all )		 Anonymous 5,870 31 05/12/08 02:48 PM
by Chronic7
* How do I deal with my mother that wont accept me for my beliefs? LayYouIn 2,863 19 07/31/08 02:14 PM
by Icelander
* It's commonly accepted that drugs and pregnancy don't mix, right?
( 1 2 all )		 Visionary Tools 3,537 26 09/27/08 09:42 PM
by esencias
* seeking acceptance skoomaguitarist 849 2 02/23/04 08:34 PM
by shaggy101
* Possibly gay friend is impossible to trip with
( 1 2 all )		 Adden 6,066 20 09/09/03 06:41 PM
by JuggaJoe
* Gayness in men a chem. imbalance?
( 1 2 all )		 EmbracingShadows 3,362 22 07/27/05 03:44 PM
by crunchytoast

Extra information
You cannot start new topics / You cannot reply to topics
HTML is disabled / BBCode is enabled
Moderator: CherryBom, Asante, Rose, mndfreeze, yogabunny, feevers, CookieCrumbs, Northerner
16,127 topic views. 0 members, 4 guests and 19 web crawlers are browsing this forum.
[ Show Images Only | Sort by Score | Print Topic ]
Search this thread:

Copyright 1997-2026 Mind Media. Some rights reserved.

Generated in 0.03 seconds spending 0.008 seconds on 18 queries.