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TysonTomko
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Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something
#4494493 - 08/04/05 10:46 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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originally me, Nicky and jen were drinking at my house. Nickys boyfriend Jon (who is my friend) broke up with her like 2 weeks ago and went on vacation. Then he came back for one night, got drunk and got back together with her. He now claims he doesnt remember this and basically told her there not going out or whatever. But he called me to hang out and this is where it all started and most of this happened tonight.
So anyways Jen leaves. Nicky is like crying and wants me to go with her to Jons house. I tell her i really dont want to but shes like crying and shit. so im like look Nicky i will take you but you got to promise that you arent gonna alienate me and just talk to jon all night. she says yea its not a problem at all, your one of my closest friends if u feel awkward at all let me know, etc.
So we go and basically Jon was being an asshole to her all night. So then i go take a piss and i come back and i see the 2 of them talking like away. so i get pissed off and im like God Damnit Nicky what the fuck did i tell you before. Im Leaving now if your coming your coming. And then shes like crying that i yelled at her and is like "im so sorry" and like apoligizing to me. So im basically driving home not saying anything and shes like "please dont be mad at me" and i says to her im not mad at her im just frusterated and angry in general. So then i get to her house and she comes over to give me a hug and start making out with me for like a minute. And then she says shes working all day today and will call me friday and goes inside.
So yea wtf should i make of this? Did she just make out with me cause i yelled at her or something? should i pursue this or no?
Jon has a new girl or whatever so theres really no issue there.
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HELLA_TIGHT
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4494500 - 08/04/05 10:48 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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/slaps forehead
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MOTH
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4494505 - 08/04/05 10:49 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Maybe making out was her way of truly showing you, "She's sorry."
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4494570 - 08/04/05 11:07 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Do her on Friday. She wants it. No matter the rhyme or reason, just do it.
Do you really wanna look back and say, damn, I really should have stuck her?
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Phluck
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4494597 - 08/04/05 11:14 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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How to be a Decent Person.
Rule #1. Your friend's ex's are off limits.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: Phluck]
#4494612 - 08/04/05 11:16 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Phluck said: How to be a Decent Person.
Rule #1. Your friend's ex's are off limits.
right.
Also, you had made a thread in physical and mental well being involving a chick named Naomi who you were hooking up with for a bit...how would you feel if your friend Jon hooked up with her?
Always put yourself in someone elses shoes, and treat others the way you would want to be treated.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: Liz]
#4494620 - 08/04/05 11:19 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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The Polyphonic Spree makes me smile.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: PuZuZu]
#4494636 - 08/04/05 11:22 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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That is bs. If she broke up with him, that woudl be another story. Since he broke up with her, shes fair game. And either way, what kinda friend is gonna grudge you sex with an ex?
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: ChRoNiCk420]
#4494654 - 08/04/05 11:24 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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you sound like a real good friend
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4494656 - 08/04/05 11:25 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Jon has a new girl or whatever so theres really no issue there.
Just to clarify... has he told you its no issue, or are you assuming its no issue because he has a new girl? Because if you're assuming, well you're going to be in for a suprise when your friend finds out.
Even if people have moved on, they will always still feel a little jealousy when they see their ex's with other people, that's just a fact of life. And if the other people are their best friends, well, that's going to cause some serious problems.
If you think having Jon as a friend is more important than getting a little bit of ass, forget about it, and if Nicky calls you up and wants to go out or something, explain to her that you don't think it's a good idea to go out with your best friend's ex. That may seem like common sense, but you'd be suprised how many guys would lie, or just try to avoid her.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4494657 - 08/04/05 11:25 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Chicks are nuts
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: PuZuZu]
#4494684 - 08/04/05 11:29 AM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Not sure how to reply to this. Theres somethings Id need to know like how good of friends are you with each and were they serious are you serious about her?
Basically you have to pick and choose your battles. If you and Jon are not best friends and you like her- I say go for it.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: bladerunnerss]
#4494859 - 08/04/05 12:04 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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You guys need to get rid of this whole jealousy thing. Yea, its a natural human thing, but you can definately get rid of it. Read Heinlein's "For Us, the Living". When you think about it, it just doesn't make sense. If a friend of mine wanted to hook up with an ex of mine, I would certainly give my blessing.
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SerioOria
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: MOTH]
#4495164 - 08/04/05 12:59 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
EllemyshShade said: Maybe making out was her way of truly showing you, "She's sorry."
probably, just wanted to apologize, but i mean makin out with you, i could see a kiss.. but
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Chicks are nuts
agreed
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4495224 - 08/04/05 01:09 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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So, you're the infamous beerweed, huh?
Nice to meet you.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: Phluck]
#4495281 - 08/04/05 01:27 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quote:
Phluck said: How to be a Decent Person.
Rule #1. Your friend's ex's are off limits.
Since when? Friend's girlfriends are off-limits but where does this "no ex's" rule come into play?
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: mantis]
#4495344 - 08/04/05 01:42 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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stick it to her man!
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: SerioOria]
#4495370 - 08/04/05 01:50 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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SerioOria said:
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Chicks are nuts
agreed
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: mantis]
#4495420 - 08/04/05 02:00 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Hell yeah man, hook it up!
Why not?
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4495428 - 08/04/05 02:02 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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making out =! 'hooking up'
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