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Phluck
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: ChRoNiCk420]
#4495445 - 08/04/05 02:06 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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When you think about it, it just doesn't make sense. If a friend of mine wanted to hook up with an ex of mine, I would certainly give my blessing.
Lots of emotions don't make sense. But simply realizing that fact doesn't make you immune to them.
There are probably circumstances where it's okay, but if it was a really serious relationship, or if they broke up recently, then it's definitely going to cause some tension, even if you think you're above normal human emotions.
Did the guy not say that they just broke up?
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TheDude
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: CptnGarden]
#4495566 - 08/04/05 02:34 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Chicks are nuts
agreed
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4495731 - 08/04/05 03:13 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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See what she wants. Then happen to mention it to Jon, if he's alright with it, fine, if not, no.Also, make sure she isn't doing this to get back at jon. And make sure she's doing this because she wants to go out with you, not because she's sad and wants some one to pull around.
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Fospher
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: blackroselove]
#4495764 - 08/04/05 03:24 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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I recently beat the shit out of my best friend that I've known for forever. Bashed his head into the curb, fucked up his jaw. Why? Because I found out that he tried to get on my girl when he got out of jail, when my girl and I were broken up for a couple weeks. He just tried, nothing happened out of it btw. This is the kid that took time for me and went to jail for 2.5 months because he put down a fake name on the report. I have letters the size of a novel that he sent back from county. But once he did what he did, none of it mattered.
Bros/Hos, dont fuck with your friends ex/partners or you'll get retaliation to the max. Once you lose trust in a friendship, there's nothing left.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: Phluck]
#4495855 - 08/04/05 03:54 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Phluck said: How to be a Decent Person.
Rule #1. Your friend's ex's are off limits.
Only if you get caught. And by then it's too late anyway.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: Phluck]
#4495862 - 08/04/05 03:56 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Jon has a new girl or whatever so theres really no issue there.
Just to clarify... has he told you its no issue, or are you assuming its no issue because he has a new girl? Because if you're assuming, well you're going to be in for a suprise when your friend finds out.
Even if people have moved on, they will always still feel a little jealousy when they see their ex's with other people, that's just a fact of life. And if the other people are their best friends, well, that's going to cause some serious problems.
If you think having Jon as a friend is more important than getting a little bit of ass, forget about it, and if Nicky calls you up and wants to go out or something, explain to her that you don't think it's a good idea to go out with your best friend's ex. That may seem like common sense, but you'd be suprised how many guys would lie, or just try to avoid her.
Well let me clarify a few things. Jon and Nicky went out for about 2 weeks. Plus he then dumped her. Besides that theres the fact That i have known Nicky for several years and Jon knew her for about a month and a half.
I would consider the both of them to be in my top 5 best friends.
Edited by TysonTomko (08/04/05 04:00 PM)
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THE KRAT BARON
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: Burke Dennings]
#4496016 - 08/04/05 04:51 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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electrode said: So, you're the infamous beerweed, huh?
Nice to meet you.
Is this really beerweed?
If it is beerweed it's a god damn honor to finally meet you.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: blackroselove]
#4496088 - 08/04/05 05:25 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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blackroselove said: See what she wants. Then happen to mention it to Jon, if he's alright with it, fine, if not, no.Also, make sure she isn't doing this to get back at jon. And make sure she's doing this because she wants to go out with you, not because she's sad and wants some one to pull around.
Blackie
I totally agree. This chick is just setting up trouble with you and Jon. Even if you all are bestfriends. Or the chick thinks she can get away with it.
Chicks are nuts. I'm ashamed with my gender sometimes but I just tell myself it isn't all curable and bad. I just try to be a simple, easy going, laidback person myself and try to make a good role model.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: PuZuZu]
#4496148 - 08/04/05 05:52 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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umm, your friend dumped her...he obviously doesn't have any feelings for her anymore. she's yours if thats what you want, and she wants.
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HELLA_TIGHT
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: THE KRAT BARON]
#4496164 - 08/04/05 06:00 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah, it's him.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: dr_gonz]
#4496185 - 08/04/05 06:06 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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I hope so.
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Fospher
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: dr_gonz]
#4496271 - 08/04/05 06:24 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fospher said: I recently beat the shit out of my best friend that I've known for forever. Bashed his head into the curb, fucked up his jaw. Why? Because I found out that he tried to get on my girl when he got out of jail, when my girl and I were broken up for a couple weeks. He just tried, nothing happened out of it btw. This is the kid that took time for me and went to jail for 2.5 months because he put down a fake name on the report. I have letters the size of a novel that he sent back from county. But once he did what he did, none of it mattered.
Bros/Hos, dont fuck with your friends ex/partners or you'll get retaliation to the max. Once you lose trust in a friendship, there's nothing left.
damn, do u beat your girlfriends too?
I would never raise a fist on a girl. Backstabbing friends, however...
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Fospher
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4496492 - 08/04/05 07:17 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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If it was some trick, it wouldnt have happened. How would you feel if your best friend hit on your long-time GF behind your back?
I dont really care for explaining myself, all Im saying is that trust is all you really have when it comes to friendships and relationships. Dont lose it.
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Fospher
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: Fospher]
#4496599 - 08/04/05 07:34 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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And it wasnt an issue over a chick, it was an issue of trust and respect. I guess I was too naive to trust someone 100%.
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Fospher
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: dr_gonz]
#4496676 - 08/04/05 07:45 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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drgonz said: You coulda just said " what the fuck dude"
HAHAHA, because that will solve everything
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: TysonTomko]
#4496755 - 08/04/05 08:02 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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An assbeating teaches a valuable lesson, saying 'wtf, dude' and doing nothing makes you a bitch.
I did ask him why he did what he did before I beat his ass. He denied it, but I know him in and out, I know when he lies, because he does it a lot. Just didnt think he'd do it to me. Like I said, I was too naive to trust him all the way. And when he started lying, I beat him down.
See, when you get your ass kicked, you think: "Hmm, why did this happen? Id rather have this not happen again." When someone says their disappointment, you ignore it.
Anyway, you sound like a real idiot whose trying to get me to get mad or something by making threats over the internet. Im not getting mad at someone possibly thousands of miles away, but you obviously are.
Control yourself.
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Re: Hooked up with a girl last night but dont know if was sympathy or something [Re: dr_gonz]
#4496781 - 08/04/05 08:07 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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To the point of the original post, if she was drunk... definatly don't take it as anything special, she probably just did it because she knew it would make you feel better. (This is how a girls mind works sometimes, the world will never know why). This is also entirely possible if she was sober too, I'd check with her before checking with him.
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