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nookjohn
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: FungusMan]
#4721005 - 09/27/05 04:26 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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FungusMan said: I'm so damn tired of this whole "I wish I could find a good man..."or, my favorite, "Chivalry is dead. Gentlemen just don't exist anymore". That is sooo bullshit. The "gentleman" you are wasting time trying to find, has been in your life for years. He's that fat, sweaty, bald dude that sits and listens to all your probs.
You know the one. That male friend that you would never give the time of day to, cuz he drives a Volvo station wagon, or is wearing the same shirt he wore on his 19th b-day. The guy that even sits listening how you let your jerk boyfriend ass fuck you cuz you thought it would bring you two closer.
Ladies, if you want a "good" man, quit wasting your time fucking jerks that drive decent cars, wearing the name brand clothes, and so on. Give that fat dude a chance. After all, he has done the dirty work already, listening to you naive ladies, lol.
That fat, sweaty, bald dude would be well-served to start working out. Being fat and sweaty is your owned damned fault. Nobody, male or female, finds fat and sweaty attractive. Bald is genetic and nothing can be done about that.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Le_Canard]
#4721011 - 09/27/05 04:27 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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The same reason men choose women based solely on looks, then find out they are with someone they don't even like, dump her and bitch about how all women are shallow bitches...
in the end, they don't have to be responsible for the failure of the relationship, and they don't have to take the risk of revealing their true self to another human being.
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Worldbridger
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Veritas]
#4721018 - 09/27/05 04:29 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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toilet duck your much more smart than a lot of girls I know, maybe we should go on a date : )
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License_to_Chill
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Veritas]
#4721023 - 09/27/05 04:30 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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Veritas said: The same reason men choose women based solely on looks, then find out they are with someone they don't even like, dump her and bitch about how all women are shallow bitches...
Well said.
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"I sat on the bus next to God once, he told me about the true meaning of life... then he gave me a pretzel..."
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Le_Canard
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Veritas]
#4721277 - 09/27/05 05:15 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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Veritas said: The same reason men choose women based solely on looks, then find out they are with someone they don't even like, dump her and bitch about how all women are shallow bitches...
in the end, they don't have to be responsible for the failure of the relationship, and they don't have to take the risk of revealing their true self to another human being.
Good point, although my experience has taught me that looks aren't everything. Both good looking men and women tend to be rather vain and self-centered, I've found, although there are exceptions to this.
Having said that, I knew one women who really wasn't bad looking at all, and she hooked up with an abusive asshole. The guy literally beat the shit out of her, breaking several bones in her face and throwing her out of a window. Of course, after she got out of the hospital, she obtained a restraining order. This lasted for all of 3 months until (you guessed it) she went right back to him. This is a rather extreme case, to be sure, but in my 30 some-odd years I've seen many examples of this....
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Veritas
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Le_Canard]
#4721294 - 09/27/05 05:18 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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We usually seek the love that feels familiar to us, even if it is painful. It's an uphill battle to choose someone who offers healthy loving if you've learned about love from the ill.
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RandalFlagg
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Veritas]
#4722343 - 09/27/05 08:49 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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Veritas said: We usually seek the love that feels familiar to us, even if it is painful. It's an uphill battle to choose someone who offers healthy loving if you've learned about love from the ill.
Translated into English: Treat us women like crap! We love it!
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novorua
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: RandalFlagg]
#4722377 - 09/27/05 08:55 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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www.nomarriage.com
Make it your bible.
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RandalFlagg
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: novorua]
#4722504 - 09/27/05 09:20 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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novorua said: www.nomarriage.com
Make it your bible.
A man who has my cynical heart.
Check out www.intellectualwhores.com
Good shit.
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RandalFlagg
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: novorua]
#4722671 - 09/27/05 09:45 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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novorua
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: RandalFlagg]
#4722688 - 09/27/05 09:49 PM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said:
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novorua said: www.nomarriage.com
Make it your bible.
A man who has my cynical heart.
Check out www.intellectualwhores.com
Good shit.
haha! very nice, i have not come across this site until now.
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oDin
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: novorua]
#4723509 - 09/28/05 12:22 AM (18 years, 5 months ago) |
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guys and girls are just different
girls many times have preconcieved expectations of how things should go
guys want booty
meet somewhere in the middle..all good
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