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Gillette
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SkorpivoMusterion said: And sadly, I know some girls who have an extremely difficult time forming genuine friendships with most guys, simply because they're very hot. They have all these guys who act friendly and all, but with ulterior motives. So unfortunately, some of these girls don't really get that chance to have a genuine, deep friendship with an honest man for years before they become romantic. And you know how that usually goes... That's pretty sad.
Yeah, by then their bitter, jaded and sick of being used.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Gillette]
#4664158 - 09/15/05 09:29 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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girls get used be cause they let themselves. it's not guys' fault that girls have terrible judgement
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: debianlinux]
#4664170 - 09/15/05 09:30 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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before i get drawn into this slugfest let me clarify that guy = girl = people in mind. i feel that with very very few exceptions, what can be said about one sex equally applies to the other.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: debianlinux]
#4664190 - 09/15/05 09:36 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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not always, but very often indeed
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Gillette]
#4664239 - 09/15/05 09:48 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Gillette said: I think I know the secret of why guys don't understand girls.....
I think its because, everytime we try to explain ourselves, or let you in on something probably really vital to whatever type of relationship we have...you guys are not listening. Your doing something stupid, like watching tv, or staring at the wall or looking at other chicks.
Way to generalize and insult half of the human population Not only are not all guys like that, but there are also women who aren't that open about their relationships... I've met many a woman who would only say the needed words for a quick laid and then go on with their businesses ignoring my (or my friends') feelings. But I digress, my point is that generalizations are bad, mmkay?
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My girlfriend is my best friend before she's my girlfriend, that's why I "get" her.
That's the way it should be IMHO. I was friends with my g/f for a few months before I even tried to kiss her, and even when I started trying she wouldn't let me for another month because she was "thinking about it". We've been together for 10 months now and neither of us regret that wait. It helped us know we were made for each other
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deeeeeeeeeeeeps! get your ass in msn NOW!!!
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: In(di)go]
#4664258 - 09/15/05 09:53 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Hot girls usually get whatever they want from guys. It's whoever can provide what they need at the exact moment they want it. It doesn't help their personality any. A "cool" pretty girl is rare, just like a cool guy with good listening skills is. (what women call listening skills anyway)
I'm not to worried about it anymore... I'm content with being alone, and I think that's why I rarely am alone. The way I see it... Go out to the playground and learn to have fun by yourself and if you look like you're havin fun then the girls will join you. If you like the swings a girl that likes swings will swing with you.
place your jokes below...
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Cowgold]
#4664277 - 09/15/05 09:58 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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i totally agree with you, man... once you learn to be by yourself you rarely are hehehe... and that way you go your way and find a girl that is willing to go her way with you... same interests, same ideas, etc... and the best thing about learning to be by yourself is the fact that you never become needy in a relationship because you know you can be alone...
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Gillette]
#4664285 - 09/15/05 09:59 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Gillette said: I think I know the secret of why guys don't understand girls.....
I think its because, everytime we try to explain ourselves, or let you in on something probably really vital to whatever type of relationship we have...you guys are not listening. Your doing something stupid, like watching tv, or staring at the wall or looking at other chicks. I've given up on pointing things out before or after sex, because I know guys are too preoccupied with their dicks at that point, I'm curious if thats what the constatnt preoccupation is Sooo many times, I've explained to my boyfriend exactly what is going on, in "boy" terms and I think he gets it, and a day later he's confused...today he shocked me with "I never knew you were like that, whats gotten into you?" and here I am thinking, like we've been together over a year, how could you not know!
Sounds like you have a shitty boyfriend. Sorry to hear that.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Gillette]
#4664305 - 09/15/05 10:05 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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but you got to understand us cowboys too.
Mamas Don't Let Your Babies Grow Up to Be Cowboys
Cowboys ain't easy to love and they're harder to hold They'd rather give you a song than diamonds or gold Lonestar belt buckles and old faded levis And each night begins a new day If you don't understand him, and he don't die young He'll probably just ride away
Chorus: Mamas, don't let your babies grow up to be cowboys Don't let 'em pick guitars or drive them old trucks Let 'em be doctors and lawyers and such Mamas, don't let your babies grow up to be cowboys 'Cause they'll never stay home and they're always alone Even with someone they love
Cowboys like smoky old pool rooms and clear mountain mornings Little warm puppies and children and girls of the night Them that don't know him won't like him and them that do Sometimes won't know how to take him He ain't wrong, he's just different but his pride won't let him Do things to make you think he's right
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Cowboys sound like very sad little boys who grew up to be sad old men.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Icelander]
#4664340 - 09/15/05 10:17 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Cowboys are sexy.
I'd take a song over a stupid diamond anyday.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Icelander]
#4664341 - 09/15/05 10:17 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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that's why mommas don't let your babies grow up to be cowboys
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: CherryBom]
#4664355 - 09/15/05 10:21 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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dimonds cut and coal burns.
Cowboys are sad men. But they love the peace of mind nature brings. They love the outdoors and they feel the need to be free of most social obligations people tend to dwell on.
They love a good honkey tonk they love cool crisp nights they love life simply. Others may look at it as sad, but they look at the city and see every one running round in circles as sad.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: CherryBom]
#4664369 - 09/15/05 10:27 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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CherryBom said: Cowboys are sexy.
I'd take a song over a stupid diamond anyday.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: In(di)go]
#4664391 - 09/15/05 10:31 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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In(di)go said:
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CherryBom said: Cowboys are sexy.
I'd take a song over a stupid diamond anyday.
I love that
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: In(di)go]
#4664392 - 09/15/05 10:32 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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In(di)go said:
that rascist cowboy is tellin Niggar jokes again... You know...
How do you smile and wink at a...
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: In(di)go]
#4664403 - 09/15/05 10:34 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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LOVE the wink.
But seriously, on topic: I think we all need to realize what we want before we go out there and start looking. If you don't know what you want, it's like going grocery shopping stoned. Everything looks Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. If you make a list beforehand, you don't leave with Double Stuff Oreos instead of whole grain bread.
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: CherryBom]
#4664410 - 09/15/05 10:36 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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mmmmmmmmm double stuffed.........
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Re: Why guys don't "get" girls [Re: Gillette]
#4664419 - 09/15/05 10:39 AM (18 years, 6 months ago) |
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Exactly.
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