Home | Community | Message Board


Kraken Kratom
Please support our sponsors.

Community >> Physical and Mental Well-Being

Welcome to the Shroomery Message Board! You are experiencing a small sample of what the site has to offer. Please login or register to post messages and view our exclusive members-only content. You'll gain access to additional forums, file attachments, board customizations, encrypted private messages, and much more!

Jump to first unread post. Pages: 1 | 2 | Next >  [ show all ]
OfflineDUBS
Trippin' Mofo

Registered: 07/26/04
Posts: 49
Last seen: 10 years, 9 months
Women...
    #3637853 - 01/17/05 07:58 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

I've been dating this girl, I think I may even be in love. I really enjoy spending time with her and the way she makes me feel is just amazing. I often have moments of high anxiety but never when I'm with her. Anyways I know she really likes me alot and everyday I tell her my feelings for her and when I'm with her I show lots of attraction cause of course I can't help it. The thing is, she doesn't believe that I feel the way I say I do. She says she doesn't really trust guys and she's afraid to accept it because she doesn't want to get left out in the cold.

My first girlfriend I dated for about a year and a half, because I thought I was in the love but in the end it was really nothing more than some silly, puppy love type stuff. My feelings for the girl I'm with seem much more mature to me, they feel real and not dreamy or childish. Does anyone have any tips or ideas on how I could show her that I mean it and I'm not just talking out my ass? Maybe only time can show her that I'm serious?


--------------------
Don't drink and drive, smoke weed and fly!


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
Invisiblespudamore
Stranger
Male
Registered: 06/12/03
Posts: 1,460
Loc: Australia
Re: Women... [Re: DUBS]
    #3637901 - 01/17/05 08:24 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

do things to make her feel the she is the only / best person in the world but you cannot change her until she accepts that you won't break her trust.


--------------------
suicide a permanent solution to a temporary problem


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
Offlinestefan
work in progress

Registered: 04/11/01
Posts: 8,932
Loc: The Netherlands
Last seen: 9 days, 17 hours
Re: Women... [Re: DUBS]
    #3638017 - 01/17/05 09:47 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

nd everyday I tell her my feelings for her



don't overdo that, it may loose it's meening when you say everyday 'I love you' (or something similar).

the trust will come I think but maybe it needs time to develop


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
Offlinejoecrab
Moon Child

Registered: 01/11/05
Posts: 317
Loc: The Beautiful Suwannee Ri...
Last seen: 11 years, 3 months
Re: Women... [Re: stefan]
    #3638252 - 01/17/05 11:54 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

just be true, it will all come into place


--------------------
and the moral of the story is, don't try to meditate on methamphetamines


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
OfflineTodcasil
rogue DMT elf
Female User Gallery

Registered: 08/09/99
Posts: 16,381
Loc: Crawling on the floor...
Last seen: 2 years, 3 months
Re: Women... [Re: joecrab]
    #3638675 - 01/17/05 01:50 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

i agree with everything these three said above.

good luck sir :smile:

:heart:


--------------------
Men look at themselves and they see flawed humans, we look at women and we see perfect
GODDESSES
Women look at themselves and they seem utterly human, when looking at men they see proud
GODS.


~Casil



:cactus:


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
InvisibleWorld Spirit
PNW
 User Gallery

Folding@home Statistics
Registered: 07/27/01
Posts: 9,817
Re: Women... [Re: DUBS]
    #3639370 - 01/17/05 04:15 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

There are several things, some say, that can't be rushed in life. One of them is love.








Love is patient...
Love is kind...
Love waits...
Love is fine.  :sun:


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
OfflineDUBS
Trippin' Mofo

Registered: 07/26/04
Posts: 49
Last seen: 10 years, 9 months
Re: Women... [Re: World Spirit]
    #3981842 - 03/28/05 10:21 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

She's fallen in love with me!  :heart: :heartpump: :iloveyou: :mushroom2: :mushroom2:


--------------------
Don't drink and drive, smoke weed and fly!


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
InvisibleDark_Star
dick butterfly
I'm a teapot User Gallery

Registered: 08/21/04
Posts: 27,983
Loc: Under the Grecian fog
Re: Women... [Re: DUBS]
    #3981865 - 03/28/05 10:28 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

:laugh: Excellent, congrats to you both!  :thumbup: :sun: :heart:


--------------------


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
Offlinealsey
meet me in thedreamtimewater...

Registered: 02/17/05
Posts: 1,203
Last seen: 7 years, 8 months
Re: Women... [Re: DUBS]
    #3983777 - 03/29/05 03:36 AM (11 years, 8 months ago)

edit - nevermind.


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
InvisiblePsychoactive1984
PositiveCynicist
Male
Registered: 02/06/05
Posts: 3,546
Loc: California, Monterey Coun...
Re: Women... [Re: alsey]
    #3985115 - 03/29/05 02:17 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

:handth:


--------------------
"Their is one overriding question that concerns us all: How can we get out of the fatal groove we are in, the one that is leading towards the brink?" Albert Szent-Gyorgyi
"We may not be capable of eradicating the corruption of reason, but we must nevertheless counter it at every instance and with every means." Dan Agin
"Politics is the best religion and politicians are the worst followers."
-It's ok to trip as long as you don't fall.
-Substance over Style.
-Common sense is uncommon.


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
Invisiblederx
who run it
 User Gallery

Registered: 05/30/03
Posts: 2,459
Loc: dx/dt
Re: Women... [Re: Psychoactive1984]
    #3985194 - 03/29/05 02:33 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

do you mind me asking how long you've been dating this girl?


--------------------
better living through chemistry

OVERGROW the government!!

it's not a war on drugs, it's a war on personal freedom, ok, thats what it is.


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
Offlineagr8fulchick Happy Birthday
Feed Your Head!

Registered: 08/19/04
Posts: 707
Loc: Stranded in Iowa
Last seen: 4 years, 11 months
Re: Women... [Re: joecrab]
    #3986116 - 03/29/05 06:23 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

Just be honest and it will all come out the way it's meant to in the end.

When it is true love and you meet the right girl of your dreams, you will know it. I know that sounds cliche, but it's true. When it's the real thing, you won't have to ask for Shroomery opinions, you'll know it all through your body  :heart: :heart: :heart:


--------------------
Life's a journey. Take the scenic route.

        :sun: :heart: :heart: :sun:


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
InvisiblePsychoactive1984
PositiveCynicist
Male
Registered: 02/06/05
Posts: 3,546
Loc: California, Monterey Coun...
Re: Women... [Re: agr8fulchick]
    #3986264 - 03/29/05 07:26 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

not always true... my intuition was most certainly off :tongue:

:shrug: It's called a woman's intuition for a reason I suppose... Guess men aren't too intuitive (at least I'm not)


--------------------
"Their is one overriding question that concerns us all: How can we get out of the fatal groove we are in, the one that is leading towards the brink?" Albert Szent-Gyorgyi
"We may not be capable of eradicating the corruption of reason, but we must nevertheless counter it at every instance and with every means." Dan Agin
"Politics is the best religion and politicians are the worst followers."
-It's ok to trip as long as you don't fall.
-Substance over Style.
-Common sense is uncommon.


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
InvisibleIcelander
The Minstrel in the Gallery
Male

Registered: 03/15/05
Posts: 93,974
Loc: underbelly
Re: Women... [Re: DUBS]
    #4012895 - 04/04/05 03:59 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

Most likely you don't mean it. Your just infatuated and want to get laid. You tell your self different but it just ain't so.

She's smart not to trust your words.

Just stay friend and have casual sex if you want. Only time will tell. Good luck. :smile:


--------------------
"Don't believe everything you think". -Anom.

" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
InvisiblePsychoactive1984
PositiveCynicist
Male
Registered: 02/06/05
Posts: 3,546
Loc: California, Monterey Coun...
Re: Women... [Re: Icelander]
    #4013138 - 04/04/05 05:26 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

:shrug: love is subjective...

I say I love Coffee, I say I love Cigarettes... and I do. Please don't tell me otherwise.


--------------------
"Their is one overriding question that concerns us all: How can we get out of the fatal groove we are in, the one that is leading towards the brink?" Albert Szent-Gyorgyi
"We may not be capable of eradicating the corruption of reason, but we must nevertheless counter it at every instance and with every means." Dan Agin
"Politics is the best religion and politicians are the worst followers."
-It's ok to trip as long as you don't fall.
-Substance over Style.
-Common sense is uncommon.


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
InvisibleIcelander
The Minstrel in the Gallery
Male

Registered: 03/15/05
Posts: 93,974
Loc: underbelly
Re: Women... [Re: Psychoactive1984]
    #4013452 - 04/04/05 06:56 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

I have no desire to tell you anything.  :heart:


--------------------
"Don't believe everything you think". -Anom.

" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
OfflinePowerTrip
Polypharmaceutical Shaman
Male

Folding@home Statistics
Registered: 03/07/05
Posts: 1,148
Loc: The void
Last seen: 4 years, 2 months
Re: Women... [Re: Icelander]
    #4014193 - 04/04/05 09:38 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

don't overdo that, it may loose it's meening when you say everyday 'I love you'



:thumbup: This is very good advice.  If you want to attract a woman to you, the last thing you should ever do is tell her you love her repeatedly.  Getting close to a woman is like reeling in a fish.  You if you go all out and try to do it too fast she will probably get away.  You need to do it little by little and keep her guessing.  You need to remain a challenge. 

One last piece of advice: don't ever take advice on women, from a woman.


--------------------
I spit reality, instead of what you usually learn
and I refuse to be concerned with condescending advice
cause I'm the only motherfucker that can change my life


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
InvisibleIcelander
The Minstrel in the Gallery
Male

Registered: 03/15/05
Posts: 93,974
Loc: underbelly
Re: Women... [Re: PowerTrip]
    #4016754 - 04/05/05 12:57 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

And continue to trick her in everyway you can. Then you will know for sure if she really likes you. Also read Mens Health Mag. Lots of hot tips on how to "reel em in". Here fishy, fishy. :grin:


--------------------
"Don't believe everything you think". -Anom.

" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
OfflineShiin
Orthodox Christian

Registered: 11/14/04
Posts: 129
Last seen: 1 year, 1 month
Re: Women... [Re: Icelander]
    #4019544 - 04/06/05 12:32 AM (11 years, 8 months ago)

hey man congrats first, it must b awsome to have that kinda love, ino wat u mean by the girl dosent believe in what ur saying bcuz 98% the guys in this world r only lookin for sex, im not and zen along with shrooms helped to form me into that kinda person, im sure your the same way along with the many shroomers on here i call family, good luck man n may luck b on ur side!

LataZ bro


--------------------

Respect...............

Everything I state is strickly false information.

"I do not take drugs, I am drugs" Salvador Dali

God destroyeth the wisdom of the wise, by the foolishness of preaching, and calleth not the wise, mighty, and noble, but the foolish, weak, and men of no account.

                                                                                1 Corinthians 1:27


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
OfflineDUBS
Trippin' Mofo

Registered: 07/26/04
Posts: 49
Last seen: 10 years, 9 months
Re: Women... [Re: Icelander]
    #4026482 - 04/07/05 03:40 PM (11 years, 8 months ago)

Oh no no no haha I've been through that already several times. Not trying to sound conceited, but I don't need to date any girls to get laid. Sex has become something special to me now.

You see the reason she didn't believe me is that she couldn't handle being hurt. She was afraid of having me, someone she loves, and then losing me. She has a deep background and history, especially problems with depression and such so that was the reason she wouldn't believe me


--------------------
Don't drink and drive, smoke weed and fly!


Edited by DUBS (04/07/05 03:51 PM)


Post Extras: Print Post  Remind Me! Notify Moderator
Jump to top. Pages: 1 | 2 | Next >  [ show all ]

Community >> Physical and Mental Well-Being

Similar ThreadsPosterViewsRepliesLast post
* Women that just don't get it
( 1 2 all )
TinMan 4,303 32 02/27/05 04:26 PM
by DoctorJ
* why must there be a certain route in speaking with women
( 1 2 all )
imagine 2,356 29 04/08/08 02:51 AM
by baztack8
* Argh, Women.
( 1 2 all )
C12H16N2O 2,318 35 12/15/08 09:44 AM
by fireworks_god
* 10 Golden Keys to Effective and Harmonious Romantic Relationships DoctorJ 1,447 3 06/14/06 06:07 PM
by MOTH
* Relationship advice needed YidakiMan 915 10 10/25/05 03:05 AM
by Penguarky Tunguin
* Complex Relationship (but whose isn't, right?) DrCamacho89 1,344 7 03/12/07 11:44 PM
by DrCamacho89
* Relationship problems
( 1 2 3 all )
hybridphil 3,586 46 12/05/06 05:49 PM
by RandalFlagg
* hey women, here is a problem i have with you
( 1 2 all )
KingOftheThing 2,261 24 07/27/06 09:35 PM
by Veritas

Extra information
You cannot start new topics / You cannot reply to topics
HTML is disabled / BBCode is enabled
Moderator: CherryBom, boO, Ped, Acidic_Sloth, ZippoZ, Rose, yogabunny, Jokeshopbeard
2,280 topic views. 1 members, 7 guests and 4 web crawlers are browsing this forum.
[ Toggle Favorite | Print Topic | Stats ]
Search this thread:
Phytoextractum
Please support our sponsors.

Copyright 1997-2016 Mind Media. Some rights reserved.

Generated in 0.068 seconds spending 0.006 seconds on 17 queries.