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Why do women treat me like shite?
#1993295 - 10/09/03 12:42 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm a nice guy i tell you.
The problem is that all my effort is for not. Women like assholes i guess.
I seriously bend over backwards for the people i care about, its never appreciated.
Its getting to the point where i am starting to dislike women in general, and all i see them as is cock sheaths. I don't want to be this way, what should i do?
-------------------- Man thinks. God laughs. - Jewish Proverb
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Rose
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: no-tone]
#1993337 - 10/09/03 12:54 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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Look at women differently. They don't think of themselves as cock sheaths.
Women don't like assholes but they do like it when a man persues them with confidence. Oftem, a cocky bastard can be mistaken for a confident guy.
Women typically lose their virginity before men. Usually, a few alpha type males deflour these girls while the nice guys remain virgins. During this time, women decide men are pigs.
Are all men pigs?
Be patient, and be honest with women. I've discovered brutal honesty is a better tactic than bending over backwards.
Also, you may be so busy bending over backwards for one woman, you don't see the women who are bending over backwards for you.
Good luck
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Osker246
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: Rose]
#1993349 - 10/09/03 12:58 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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Pretty well said cervantes couldnt of said it better.
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no-tone
Enema Bag Jones
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: Rose]
#1993354 - 10/09/03 01:00 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
you may be so busy bending over backwards for one woman, you don't see the women who are bending over backwards for you.
Well said, thanks
Its like all the girls i like are men in women's bodies.
I have trouble meeting women as well. I am by no means an ugly fuck, but I'm hairy as hell, pierced, and a large man. I think girls may be intimidated by me. The thing is that i am gentle as fuck and probably more laid back than anyone i know. I am so damn accepting of people but some people have trouble accepting me.
-------------------- Man thinks. God laughs. - Jewish Proverb
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Enema Bag Jones
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: no-tone]
#1993374 - 10/09/03 01:03 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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I have a friend who i could marry. I love her.
She treats me like i should be treated.
Problem: I don't want to ruin our friendship, and am good friends with her BF.
*sighs*
-------------------- Man thinks. God laughs. - Jewish Proverb
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: no-tone]
#1993379 - 10/09/03 01:05 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think part of the problem is that i only date girls who i find stunning. I guess I get blinded by their beauty and don't notice that they have shitty personalities. Are there gorgeous women with personalities?
Should i lower my standards of beauty?
-------------------- Man thinks. God laughs. - Jewish Proverb
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Osker246
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: no-tone]
#1993587 - 10/09/03 01:52 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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no-tone said: Are there gorgeous women with personalities?
Should i lower my standards of beauty?
Yes there are gorgeous women with great personalities. I think you should give a try at lowering your standards. I have also seen that females with great beauty are also stuck up and treat most people like shit. I know very few people who are beautiful and treat me with the same respect as I treat them with. Try looking Further than just looks. Look for women who also share common interest that you have. Those type of women I have found to be way more funner to hang out with and to talk to.
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: no-tone]
#1994045 - 10/09/03 03:45 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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women treat you like shit because you're not treating THEM like shit.
you can be nice to them, just not a lot.
-------------------- Insert an "I think" mentally in front of eveything I say that seems sketchy, because I certainly don't KNOW much. Also; feel free to yell at me. In addition: SHPONGLE
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Osker246
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: Strumpling]
#1994053 - 10/09/03 03:48 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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yea ok treat them like shit and we'll see how far you get.
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Rose
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: Osker246]
#1994106 - 10/09/03 04:06 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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The prettiest women get hit on by the most assholes. They can be very intimidated by any male who hits on them. It must be overwhelming being hit on so much.
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Rose
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: no-tone]
#1994110 - 10/09/03 04:08 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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*I have a friend who i could marry. I love her.
*She treats me like i should be treated.
*Problem: I don't want to ruin our friendship, and am good friends with her BF. _______ What is your problem again?
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: Rose]
#1994293 - 10/09/03 05:06 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think the problem is that she has a boyfriend.
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sykobish
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: no-tone]
#1994485 - 10/09/03 05:46 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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Being a girl i think i can give you a little insight on how we think. All of us girls go thru the 'bad boy' stage. But once we mature, we get over it and want the 'nice guy'.. The catch is.. We like the chase. As do men. Isn't someone you have to chase more attractive and desireable then the one you know you can get? That's how relationships last. You always have to give the other person something to chase. If you open yourself up and do everything for the other person, they lose interest. There's nothing to keep them interested. Try being a little more hard to get. By all means, DONT start being an asshole, cuz that may work in the beginning, but it wont last and you will be back at where you are now. Don't constantly bend over backwards. Do nice things here and there, but give us a reason to persue you. Confidence is key. If you are confident and always keep us interested by not putting us up on a pedistal constantly, i can guarantee we wont lose interest. It's not a bad thing to spoil us or be extra nice sometimes, but dont make it a habit or routine.
As for looks, appearance is only skin deep. It fades and what beauty really is, is what is inside. Someone who may not be extremely attractive physically, if they are a good person on the inside, it makes them even more attractive.
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alakona
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: sykobish]
#1994599 - 10/09/03 06:23 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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I wouldnt say that women like assholes, but I have to admit, when gys are overly nice Im a little wary of their real intentions. It seems to me, and has been my experiance, that those guys who are like prince charming are actually the ones who will ruin my life. Im not saying that this is true in your case, its just been like that for me.
And syko is right, we do like the chase. havent you ever noticed that more often then not it is the girls in reltionships who guys are most attracted to and vice versa? Its all part of the "hard to get factor". The more you work for something, the more you'll appreciate it.
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: no-tone]
#1994683 - 10/09/03 06:47 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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First off, women treat you like crap cause you let them. You're a beautiful beautiful person. Billions of years of building you, nucleotide by nucleotide. A finely crafted soldier. Look around you. Your people built this place. We conquered the skies, we discovered the secret of life, We put people on the moon, we've seen the buildblocks of existance. The world is your oyster. Do you really need her? Life is really really beautiful if you're in the mindset that I'm trying to convey right now. And that my friend is what beauty is. It's not just confidence when you're around them. You need zen. An unstoppable well of contentness with life. Happiness needs to just flow out of you into other people. Something she couldnt ever stomp out nomatter how much she meant to ya.
..... that and cash... chicks... chicks like cash.
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Enema Bag Jones
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: Rose]
#1994724 - 10/09/03 07:01 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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The problem is that i don't love her like that. True friend love is what we have. She knows it cause i tell her and she tells me...
Although she is beautiful i am not sexually attracted to her. That is another main reason why we aren't together.
-------------------- Man thinks. God laughs. - Jewish Proverb
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Rose
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: no-tone]
#1994754 - 10/09/03 07:11 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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Patience. Looking for a girlfriend takes more patience than mycology. At least you have someone to love while you look.
-------------------- Fiddlesticks.
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Strumpling
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Re: Why do women treat me like shite? [Re: no-tone]
#2000709 - 10/11/03 04:38 PM (20 years, 5 months ago) |
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"True friend love is what we have." Wow I've never experienced that with a girl.. Make sure you're not kidding yourself
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Edited by Strumpling (10/11/03 04:38 PM)
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