3 stooges doesn't work.
Anyway, like I said before, Rono's rules clearly state you can't call someone an "Idiot" or "Stupid"... and as I understand it, in the context it was used, "Suck" is a flame, in the same league as "Stupid" or "Idiot".
Sorry, but saying I suck as a mod is still a personal attack.
It'd be like me saying YOU suck as a Shroomerite.
or...
Like me saying ANNO sucks at cultivation.
Those are personal attacks... ridiculous, yes, but personal. Also, it is not true, I rule as a mod... therefore I simply can't suck.
Let me explain it another way. Luvdem said I suck. If he had said one of my acts of moderation had sucked, that would be fine. Indstead he attacked ME as a moderator. There is a BIG difference... and THAT is why his attack was personal. I still have NO clue why Luvdem thought I sucked as a moderator. He was too busy ATTACKING ME to explain. In BOTH cases, Luvdem was given a chance to explain, or back out and change his tone of voice, but he chose to continue playing offense instead. Understand? Good.
Luvdem said I suck as a mod, in part, because all he knows about me is my political stance, my user name, and that I am a mod. My political stance, is the ONLY thing he is allowed to argue in PA&L. There are other forums in this Website where Luvdem could argue about my username, or Modship... but not PA&L, where those actions are deemed OFF TOPIC and PERSONAL attacks.
Now, if he wishes to keep saying I suck, after his banning has been THOROUGHLY explained, in THIS thread, he is BLATANTLY, AND DISRESPECTFULLY IGNORING THE RULE THAT GOT HIM BANNED IN THE FIRST PLACE... IN PUBLIC. That set an example which Shroomery Mods and Admins will never stand for. Public acts of disrespect towards mods and administrators are FROWNED upon in this forum. Repeated attacks, after warnings, explination and bannishment... is playing Russian Roulette.
I can't help it if Luvdem chooses to make most of his posts in forums with STRICT, No Flaming policies. I know he is aware of the rules. It seems, he only breaks the rules to tell me how much I personally suck.
No, it doesn't really hurt my feelings and yes, I personally think the whole situation's pretty funny. But what Luvdem did sets an AWEFUL example for the community. He had to be banned. When a VETERAN member of our community, BLATANTLY breaks the rules to FLAME A MOD without ANY EXPLINATION (or hint of humor EMOTICONS PEOPLE! EMOTICONS!)... something must be done, or ALL VETERAN USERS will feel they have the right to act the same as Luvdem. Luvdem's flames send a message to the community. Luvdem's bannishment is The Shroomery's reply to Luvdem's message.
I think the community's health is more valuable than Luvdem's right to bizarrely tell me how much I suck, every chance he gets. Mods MUST act in these cases, or they will lose respect of the community. Haven't you heard the saying, "Give 'em an inch..." ?
Plus CHICKS DIG AUTHORITY FIGURES!!!!!
Sure, you're arguing now Zap (and I don't mind the discussion at all, I think it is fun and important)... you bitching about a moderation DECISION is a helluva lot better than having someone say "I Personally Suck" as a mod in the Websites, Announcements and Feedback Forum, until the thread is completely derailed. Also, you are breaking no rules. You are disagreeing with a decision, not the person. This keeps the discussion from being personal. You can say "The decision sucks donkey dick" with no fear of banishment. But only I can say, "Cervantes sucks donkey dick as a mod," in this forum. Well, if you are clever, I bet you could figure out one or two ways to say "Cervantes sucks donkey dick as a mod," without fear of banishment... but only if you're clever.
I hope you see, if Mods allow people to keep breaking the rule that banned them, many other MODERATORS will get fed up and leave. The Shroomery doesn't pay us enough to stay, so the Shroomery protects us, and our ability to do our job. Without this protection, many mods would just get fed up and leave. It is a mod's duty to make unpopular choices, and here, AT LEAST ONE PERSON ALWAYS DISAGREES WITH ANY DECISION. If we are not protected, what on Earth would compell us to do our duties? The remaining mods could only make popular decsions, but not necisarily smart decisions... unpopular, but necisary decisions would also, be a thing of the past.... and you just can't please all the people all the time.
As you can see, I am more than happy to share my opinions and logic with you, but I probably wouldn't feel that way, if people were simply allowed to flame me while I explained my decisions in this Forum. I sure wouldn't feel like doing it agian. But since I am allowed to come in here, and explain my actions, without getting flamed, I will keep participating in here, when needed. Simple.
Sometimes, these rulings may seem a little grey to Shroomerites, but as a Mod, I understand why it was done and I agree completely.
If Luvdem wants to complain about me, he should do it by PM, if he wishes to complain in this Forum about me, he should use a respectful tone. Here is a link to a thread, from THIS forum, that LUVDEM HAS PARTICIPATED IN, that explaines the suggestes tone you should use when complaining (Yeah, it is WAY over the top, but the point is clear), the thread is called Courtesy and Respect - Lessons in the art of complaints: http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Cat/0/Number/1832958/an/0/page/0
If luvdem wishes to bitch like a child, he can go to OTD and post whatever he wants about me. I DON'T CARE. He is allowed that right, except during bans. Just like we are all given the right to PERSONALLY RATE ANYBODY any rating we wish on this website.
Luvdem has many ways to make a complaint. Saying I suck as a mod, again, in this forum, after I politely GAVE HIM WHAT HE WANTED, was disrespectful, stupid, Off-Topic, stupid, Trolling, Worthy of Banishment and Stupid. It also sucked.
Dude Zap, if we disagree, we disagree, but those are the rules... I trust you won't go and try to be a martyr and test the rules out yourself. You may disagree, but the rules still stand, and as I have shown you, there are STILL MANY MANY WAYS to forge a complaint about a moderator... without getting banned.
Weather you agree or not, I will still protect you from flames in the forums I moderate. That is simply my job.
Anno did the same for me.
BTW and FYI, Luvdem's ban's been lifted early (he could be back right now for all I know), I wonder if he got an e-mail this time.
p.s. I understand Luvdem has a sense of humor, and did not take his acts in THIS forum personally. I personally had a hunch he was kidding, and reacted as such... still it goes to show you why you shouldn't make personal attacks without explination. His posts leave little room for interpretation. Play nice with us mods and we'll bend over backwards for you... fuck with us, and you are fucking with people who CAN ban you... doesn't mean we should ban you, but we ALWAYS CAN. Keep that in mind. Best to be respectful to the people with the keys to the locks... unless you like being out on the porch.
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