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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: vivid]
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love makes fools of us all, isn't it?

best way to simulate love
run headlong into your front door till you're dizzy
find the knob, turn it, walk through
masturbate fervently, twice
place your head in a vice and tighten


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i finally got around to making a sig
revel in its glory and quake in fear at its might
grar.

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: MobiusStripper]
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It's only bad if you let yourself get all worked up over assholes who'll hurt you.

Love is good and when a REAL man enters your life, I hope you won't turn away from a good thing.


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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: ivi]
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Infatuation sucks and is pointless. Why not smoke weed or snort coke if you want feel-good chemicals coursing through your body.

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: ivi]
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Love, joy, and peace are deep states of Being or rather three aspects of the state of inner connectedness with Being. Pleasure is always derived from a source outside of you, whereas joy arises from within.
So in the unenlightened, dualistic, mind-identified condition, what is sometimes wrongly called joy is the pleasure side of the continuously alternating pain/pleasure cycle. And what is often referred to as love may be pleasurable and exciting for a while, but it is an addictive clinging, an extremely needy condition that can turn into its opposite at the flick of a switch. Many ?love? relationships, after the initial euphoria has passed, actually oscillate between ?love? and hate, attraction and attack.

Further elucidation; in the initial positive, euphoric side, you are ?in love? with your partner. This is at first a deeply satisfying state. You feel intensely alive. Your existence has suddenly become meaningful because someone needs you, wants you, and makes you feel special, and you do the same for him or her. When you are together, you feel whole. The feeling can become so intense that the rest of the world fades into insignificance.

However, you may also have noticed that there is neediness and a clinging quality to that intensity. You become addicted to the other person. He or she acts on you like a drug. You are on a high when the drug is available, but even the possibility or the thought that he or she might no longer be there for you can lead to jealousy, possessiveness, attempts at manipulation through emotional blackmail, blaming and accusing ? fear of loss. If the other person does leave you, this can give rise to the most intense hostility or the most profound grief and despair. In an instant, loving tenderness can turn into a savage attack or dreadful grief. Where is the love now? Can love change into its opposite in an instant? Was it love in the first place, or just an addictive grasping and clinging?

Love is not selective, just as the light of the sun is not selective. It does not make one person special. It is not exclusive. Exclusivity is not the love of God but the "love" of ego. However, the intensity with which true love is felt can vary. There may be one person who reflects your love back to you more clearly and more intensely than others, and if that person feels the same toward you, it can be said that you are in a love relationship with him or her.

Even in an otherwise addictive relationship, there may be moments when something more real shines through, something beyond your mutual addictive needs. These are moments when both your and your partner's mind briefly subsides and the egoic-pain self/body [past residue of built up emotional negativity that becomes lodged in your mind and body] is temporarily in a dormant state. This may sometimes happen during physical intimacy, or when you are both witnessing the miracle of childbirth, or in the presence of death, or when one of you is seriously ill ? anything that renders the mind powerless. When this happens, your Being, which is usually buried underneath the mind, becomes revealed, and it is this that makes true communication possible.

True communication is communion ? the realization of oneness, which is love. Usually, this is quickly lost again, unless you are able to stay present enough to keep out of the mind and its old patterns. As soon as the mind and mind identification return, you are no longer yourself but a mental image of yourself, and you start playing games and roles again to get your ego needs met. You are a human mind again, pretending to be a human being, interacting with another mind, playing a drama called "love."

Although brief glimpses are possible, love cannot flourish unless you are permanently free of mind identification and your presence is intense enough to have dissolved the egoic-pain self/body ? or you can at least remain present as the watcher.



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Coffee should be black as hell, strong as death, and sweet as love.

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: MAGnum]
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MAGnum said:
It's only bad if you let yourself get all worked up over assholes who'll hurt you.

Love is good and when a REAL man enters your life, I hope you won't turn away from a good thing.


This is true. :thumbup:

Love is a wonderful thing  :heart:
I know love, I have it in my heart, soul, mind and body. I will never give it up. I'm sorry, this really isn't about the topic because I can't answer your question. People experience love in different ways, once you find it, you will know...don't ever let it go! :smile:


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The secret to being funny is to say smart things stupidly, or is it stupid things smartly? Whatever..it's not rocket surgery...or something like that.

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
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I am past the jealous and co-dependence stage of a relationship. Now we can even sit in the same room with each other and not have to say anything at all yet there is an aura around us that lets us feel each other. I let my GF develop as her own person because I can't give her everything she needs to be whole. When I say that I am only whole with her I mean that not on an emotional level but on something else that I cant explain....I guess I should say I am at perfect peace and happiness when she is around. Its ok to miss someone but I dont obsese or posses. Maybe thats why our relationship has lasted for so long and will continue. Even when I hate her so much and want to run away, my feelings leave me and I do what is best for her. She also does the same so it ends in a cute little back and forth I love you game.....

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: SkorpivoMusterion]
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:iloveyou:


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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: abhi]
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i could go for some love :heart:
now if only i wernt so damn shy


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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: ivi]
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being in love is awesome.

I've had my "heart" broken without the infatuation and I realized that most of it was because of me.  I depended on the other person for my happiness rather than being happy as it is.

try and be the right person instead of trying to find the right person.

everyone has a fallout, but just because it happens doesn't mean that the love was in vain or that it doesn't really exist. pick up what is left, learn from the mistakes and move on.  more than likely, somone else WILL come along.

what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. the more you experience and the more you learn, the better possibility for you to better yourself as a person.  :heart:


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Annnnnnd I had a light saber and my friend was there and I said "you look like an indian" and he said "you look like satan" and he found a stick and a rock and he named the rock ooga booga and he named the stick Stick and we both thought that was pretty funny. We got eaten alive by mosquitos but didn't notice til the next day. I stepped on some glass while wading in the swamp and cut my foot open, didn't bother me til the next day either....yeah it was a good time, ended the night by buying some liquor for minors and drinking nips and going to he diner and eating chicken fingers, and then I went home and went to bed.

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: notapillow]
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notapillow said:
i could go for some love :heart:
now if only i wernt so damn shy


Yeah, that always tends to ruin things :smirk:


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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: abhi]
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well unfortnently there arnt alot of girly types who i hang out with
i dont realy go to partys
i dont drink
and probly most importently i dont do coke :smirk:
and quite a bit of the girls around here are rich little coke sluts :crazy:
me lonly dead head :gd_icon:


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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: ivi]
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Ahhhh, what an emotional topic, and somewhat like a rose....  Very beautiful when just admired, but with the potential to cause a great harm upon it's sharp thorns....  After "bleeding", one builds up calluses, and the beauty is sometimes lost behind the protective walls we build in defense - only allowing us to see and remember the possible harm.... 

Being in love has been a wonderful drug for me....  It makes me open up, and be that person that I "want" to be....  Confidence, positive outlooks, and puts that spring in yer~ step....  You CAN find all of this from within - without love, but it really isn't the same....  It just doesn't seem to have the same "meaning"....  For loving thyself is not the same as being in love, maybe because there is no actual risk....?  Maybe it is the risk and the vulnerability that one volunteers when "in love" that makes it so personally empowering and gratifying....? 

I have loved, and I have lost, and I have seen the person that I "can" be....  And even if I never get the chance to be "in love" again, I know what it felt like, and I know it was a beautiful feeling....  I sit silenced and await in my chrysalis, and wonder if my wings will be strong enough to lift my body should I ever be awakened from my deep sleep....  (Might need a dose of Red Bull...?)  :smirk:

EEeehhhhh.....


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I'll be your midnight French Fry....  :naughty:

"The most important things in life that are often ignored, are the things that one cannot see...."
>^;;^<

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: PhanTomCat]
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Should I fall out of love, my fire in the light
To chase a feather in the wind
Within the glow that weaves a cloak of delight
There moves a thread that has no end.
For many hours and days that pass ever soon
the tides have caused the flame to dim
At last the arm is straight, the hand to the loom
Is this to end or just begin?
All of my love, all of my love, All of my love to you.
The cup is raised, the toast is made yet again
One voice is clear above the din
Proud Aryan one word, my will to sustain
For me, the cloth once more to spin
All of my love
Yours is the cloth, mine is the hand that sews time
his is the force that lies within
Ours is the fire, all the warmth we can find
He is a feather in the wind
All of my love, All of my love, All of my love to you


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So Im packing my bags for the mysty mountains where the spirits go.

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: PhanTomCat]
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GimpyTomCat said:
Ahhhh, what an emotional topic, and somewhat like a rose....  Very beautiful when just admired, but with the potential to cause a great harm upon it's sharp thorns....  After "bleeding", one builds up calluses, and the beauty is sometimes lost behind the protective walls we build in defense - only allowing us to see and remember the possible harm.... 

Being in love has been a wonderful drug for me....  It makes me open up, and be that person that I "want" to be....  Confidence, positive outlooks, and puts that spring in yer~ step....  You CAN find all of this from within - without love, but it really isn't the same....  It just doesn't seem to have the same "meaning"....  For loving thyself is not the same as being in love, maybe because there is no actual risk....?  Maybe it is the risk and the vulnerability that one volunteers when "in love" that makes it so personally empowering and gratifying....? 

I have loved, and I have lost, and I have seen the person that I "can" be....  And even if I never get the chance to be "in love" again, I know what it felt like, and I know it was a beautiful feeling....  I sit silenced and await in my chrysalis, and wonder if my wings will be strong enough to lift my body should I ever be awakened from my deep sleep....  (Might need a dose of Red Bull...?)  :smirk:

EEeehhhhh.....



:love:


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The secret to being funny is to say smart things stupidly, or is it stupid things smartly? Whatever..it's not rocket surgery...or something like that.

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: notapillow]
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notapillow said:
well unfortnently there arnt alot of girly types who i hang out with
i dont realy go to partys
i dont drink
and probly most importently i dont do coke :smirk:
and quite a bit of the girls around here are rich little coke sluts :crazy:
me lonly dead head :gd_icon:


Wow, that hits way too close to home

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: Pathos]
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u too huh :smile:
all my freinds that sre girls are just freinds it seems, im like the one they come to with there problems and the one who listens to them
wich is fine
i just wish there were more girls who liked nice guys and just dont wanna hook up with the hottest peice of ass at the partay


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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: MrFunguy]
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MrFunguy said:
I can tell you that true love really does exist. It's when the other person has to be with you for you to feel like a whole person.


That sounds more like dependence to me. That's what I experienced with my first girlfriend, and at the time, I mistook it for love. Then, a few months after we broke up, I found out what true love is like. True love, IME, does not require that you be in close proximity to the other person in order to feel whole. You can be hundreds of miles apart and still feel as close to one another is if you were in the same room together.


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"It is dangerous to be right when the government is wrong."--Voltaire

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: notapillow]
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true love to me = best friend + schwing

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: Pathos]
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Pathos said:
notapillow said:
well unfortnently there arnt alot of girly types who i hang out with
i dont realy go to partys
i dont drink
and probly most importently i dont do coke :smirk:
and quite a bit of the girls around here are rich little coke sluts :crazy:
me lonly dead head :gd_icon:


Wow, that hits way too close to home


hits home for a lot of us.

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Re: I Want to Fall in Love [Re: Hendostan]
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Yep, that about sums up high school for me right there.

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