Anonymous #4 said:

I'm in 6 years relationship and we've been living together the last 2 years.  Our sex life is more than adequate and we do basically everything together.  Sometimes we just masturbate next to each other.  Sometimes she misses her orgasm and when i'm done she just masturbates next to me, etc.. I'm more than happy and don't feel like fucking anyone else at all.

yet, i still watch porn at least 5 times a week.  I know she knows, but she doesn't seem to care that much.  I guess she feels like I truly desire her.

I think your gf is either insecure or she has some beliefs that watching porn is not good/normal/devient... either way I think you are right and it's ok to feel like this whole bullshit is a big injustice.

Like others said, talk about it in a very calm way.  Don't be afraid of losing her over that...

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pretty fucken grim

barely legal eastern european chick on the brink of tears as she gags on a dick

pneumatic-titted woman with an asshole like goatse moaning theatrically as she gets slammed

whacking off to garden-variety internet pornog twice a day, every day i'd definitely be questioning where his head's at -- especially if our sex life was lacklustre

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Anonymous #8 said:

you want a female perspective? prepping myself for a good old-fashioned flaming by all the neckbeards on here but let's try and keep it respectful:

"...on a normal week i will usually watch porn every evening, sometimes twice, sometimes not at all. (i do not live with my girl friend)"
i guess the question is, can you *not* watch it? do you jank it without it? can you? or are you porn-reliant? if so, i can see why she'd think that's an issue.


"i dont care if she watches porn"
most porn out there is pretty fucken grim and you should try and have a think about why she doesnt watch it as much as you. this may come as  something of a shock but the majority of porn aint realistic. generally speaking, i don't think most women get any kicks out of seeing some barely legal eastern european chick on the brink of tears as she gags on a dick, or some pneumatic-titted woman with an asshole like goatse moaning theatrically as she gets slammed in a way that  you can tell for sure would impede her ability to walk for a week -- bmost of the shit out there isn't what i'd call joyous or erotic for the women involved. just think about what it is you're consuming. let's say the kind of porn i just described is mcdonald's -- how about you try and go gourmet for a bit. watch stuff with your girlfriend. discuss what it is you both like.


"she used to use her vibrator every time we finished having sex no matter what i tried how do you think that made me feel? not the best but i never said a word (of complaint) because its her pleasure. but then again im the kind of guy who wants an open relationship"

how did it make you feel? probably not as bad as it made her feel given it sounds as tho you blew your load before she was done every time and then was secretly resentful. here's an idea: talk to her about it.

tbh if i was dating a guy and found out he was whacking off to garden-variety internet pornog twice a day, every day i'd definitely be questioning where his head's at -- especially if our sex life was lacklustre


THANK ME LATER

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I'm not porn reliant, I do it without it on rare occasion. Writing dirty stories and such

Note that you're making some huge assumptions about what kind of porn I like. I'm a fucking pornography connoisseur if there ever was one dont tell me I'm eating mcdonalds. We have tried watching porn together multiple times but she always gets upset about one of two things. 1) I'm too picky and this makes her feel like she'll never be enough for me 2) My porn is too weird for her and she sees it as deviant or whatever. The second one earns her a major middle finger from me, I'm sick of her making me feel like a sicko, my porn is not that weird.

and I thought I watched fucked up porn porn is grim? Mcwhat? apparently you watch women getting painfully abused, I prefer to watch videos of sex no

defending her use of vibe = her doing that made me feel just as bad as my porn use makes her feel, if you're gonna sit there and assume I don't put in the effort to get her off you can go fuck yourself. assumptions galore.

Thank you later? I wont be thanking you at all, save for the laughs

I think most guys jack off to porn when their girls not able to sex

Anonymous #8 said:

you want a female perspective? prepping myself for a good old-fashioned flaming by all the neckbeards on here but let's try and keep it respectful:

"...on a normal week i will usually watch porn every evening, sometimes twice, sometimes not at all. (i do not live with my girl friend)"
i guess the question is, can you *not* watch it? do you jank it without it? can you? or are you porn-reliant? if so, i can see why she'd think that's an issue.


"i dont care if she watches porn"
most porn out there is pretty fucken grim and you should try and have a think about why she doesnt watch it as much as you. this may come as  something of a shock but the majority of porn aint realistic. generally speaking, i don't think most women get any kicks out of seeing some barely legal eastern european chick on the brink of tears as she gags on a dick, or some pneumatic-titted woman with an asshole like goatse moaning theatrically as she gets slammed in a way that  you can tell for sure would impede her ability to walk for a week -- bmost of the shit out there isn't what i'd call joyous or erotic for the women involved. just think about what it is you're consuming. let's say the kind of porn i just described is mcdonald's -- how about you try and go gourmet for a bit. watch stuff with your girlfriend. discuss what it is you both like.


"she used to use her vibrator every time we finished having sex no matter what i tried how do you think that made me feel? not the best but i never said a word (of complaint) because its her pleasure. but then again im the kind of guy who wants an open relationship"

how did it make you feel? probably not as bad as it made her feel given it sounds as tho you blew your load before she was done every time and then was secretly resentful. here's an idea: talk to her about it.

tbh if i was dating a guy and found out he was whacking off to garden-variety internet pornog twice a day, every day i'd definitely be questioning where his head's at -- especially if our sex life was lacklustre


THANK ME LATER

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