Anonymous #12 said:

OP she's fucking someone else. Someone better looking, with a better job, and a bigger shlong.

Don't worry though there's plenty of other fish in the sea.

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Anonymous #11 said:

If you refer to her as slut then you shouldn't be allowed near her or other women...

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Anonymous #4 said:

Yeah it's working, if your plan is end up a 70 year old who never held a meaningful relationship in your life. I have an uncle who thinks that way and he drinks himself to death to ignore the pain of loneliness. Have a "friend" who's the same way and is surprise surprise, miserable and alone.

No woman "slut" or not is going to settle down (and stay) with some douche bag who treats her like she's an object, rather than a human being. Treating them like shit may "work" temporarily, but in the end, they're going to get sick of it and stop giving you the time of day. Seems like that's what OP's "slut" did.

Then sure you go find a new "slut" but guess what? You age. You may have the looks now that enables you to get away with such shitty behavior, but eventually your looks are going to fade and you're just going to come across as a miserable 40 something misogynist. Then women are just going to look at you like you're crazy when you try the same stupid approach.

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Anonymous #4 said:

I'm married and have been happily so for almost 10 years now. Haven't been cheated on or dumped. The first years were rough but it only gets better as time goes on... So yes, I think being married for 20-30 years IS some paradise. By then you both know each other intimately and learn to co-exist like you never could with anyone else, and build a bond so deep that almost nothing could break it.

What's wrong with being alone? Ask all the people on my Facebook who are constantly complaining that they're alone. Been too long for me to remember specially but I remember it being hell. There's also regular threads here on the Shroomery of people bitching about being alone and not being able to find anyone. Obviously there IS something wrong with being alone.

Think/act however you want, it doesn't affect me any. I'm just pointing out the absolute retardation in someone's mindset.

As for the divorces, they happen when one (or both) parties are unhappy.. Which if it were me, I'd be pretty fucking unhappy if I were married to a douche that thinks I'm just a piece of meat to hump and nothing more.

Also, there is a difference between 'worshiping women' and treating them with some fucking respect and dignity, like they're actually a human being. I don't worship women, I treat them as equals.

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Anonymous #4 said:

Humans are social creatures. We do not do well in isolation. We crave human interaction and connection. There are countless studies to support this. Grass is always greener on the other side. Can you prove that these married people of yours would be happier if they were single? If you know so many people that are so unhappy in their marriage, why are they all still together? Are you sure you're not just making up their misery to support your own argument? You can look at the threads here and see how many people complain about being alone. I can't interview your supposed friends and find out for myself.

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Anonymous #1 said:

Ive fucked her loads of times, but today i text her "whats up?" She replies straoght away and soso then i say "what you up to today?" then shes replies to me like hours later saying, "sorry was out, you ok?" fuckin bitch takin me as a dickhead?! Then i reply dryly saying "yh whatever im gd, u?" then shes like yea im gd then i tell the slut, "anywayss im high talk to you another time" .. Is that rude? when should i call her or whatever, how can i fix this slut shes a 8/10. Fuckkk

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Anonymous #15 said:

op realized how much of a dick he was and never came back to this thread lol

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Anonymous #15 said:

op realized how much of a dick he was and never came back to this thread lol

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Anonymous #2 said:

Anonymous #15 said:

op realized how much of a dick he was and never came back to this thread lol

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Yerp, or made a dummy account and is anon#8 trying to give himself some kind of confirmation that being a tool is cool.

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LMAO that would be rich.

Anonymous #8 said:

I know so many people that are married and miserable, and would kill to be single again, so what?  Some would say that there is "obviously" something wrong with being married for 20-30 years.

You felt being alone was hell, that's your perspective, many people find marriage a living hell, it depends.

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Right, because a lot of people treat their spouses like shit. And so it starts a vicious cycle.

"Oh, I'm not going to do A B or C for her, because I don't want to seem whipped."

"Oh, I'm not going to do X Y or Z for him, because he never As or B's"

"She hasn't even Zed in years, so obviously why should I...?"


And so on, forever. People who actually respect each other and care about making the others' life better? That's infinitely better than being single. Yes, variety is nice. And sometimes there's nothing quite like the excitement of someone new, or the thrill of the chase. But there's also nothing quite like having someone who knows you intimately, deeply, and still loves you for all your flaws, and wants to be devoted to you no matter what...

And that first part is why god invented open relationships, and "swinging." 


So you see... there is no one path to a given destination. Sometimes you think you know the way, and because of this, you miss a much more rewarding path.



This has been your Deep Fucking Wisdom for the day.