AlmostAsCoolAs said: How did she abandon your kids with you? You just said you sought full custody. Did you miss the part where she deals drugs and dropped out of cosmetology school?
oh goodness, she dropped out of cosmetology school, she must be such a terrible person leaving him as the only person in the world capable of caring for a kid
the OP grows illicit drugs, marijuana and mushrooms, uses drugs himself, is it different for him because he claims to be such a standup guy?
http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/17627923#17627923
seems a little contradictory doesnt it
scrantonstrangler said: My now current gf, and I, are both professionals and college graduates, but with a long history of drugs. Both of us have at least 5 years clean from our DOC though and have not done anything bad since that time in general.
Quote: He's trying to protect his kid because he doesn't have custody and can't get it as easily as you did. He sure sounds like a 'banger' being in a national honor society and college graduate.
so he tells us
scrantonstrangler said: as a longtime resident of the "ghetto" i can assure u they aint adding shit to the baseballs of shwag u get. Hit an actual weed spot n get some fire like a normal person anyways. weed is just good these days. I haven't seen bad weed around in about 3 years. No one buys it. Only thing that would even be feasible to add as lace would be wet, but thats counterproductive.
these arent the words that professionals use, if they are, I certainly want to avoid the profession that he's in because it's a reflection of that honors society, tau sigma, golden key member, "and shit"
scrantonstrangler said: Also, her new bf is the biggest grimeball. From a friend I have in his town he said he was a str8 up fiend. I installed cameras to make sure no one steals from my gf and my house and shit a while ago, and when he walked in, it was first thing I pointed out to him when he came over. That, my South African Boerboel, pitbull, and my rifle collection lol. He just seems like bad news. A str8 up loser. He already called me last night trying to fight and start shit. I said if he just wants to puff out his chest over the phone that’s cool. If he does it when I see him tho..its on. I know I would destroy him to. I been clean and up in the gym past 5 years. He been wasting away on the pipe. I know my daughters mom is doing drugs because her dumb snitch bf said it already in order to save himself.
he also tells us he's an unemployed guy (although he's still a junkie and a drug councilor) and up to his eyeballs in debt
scrantonstrangler said: I just got a job after my graduation from grad school and was quickly laid off. I now do not have one, and have been having trouble finding one. Plus my gf and I have at least 25k in loans and debt from grad school each.
Quote: I didn't say you talked the way he did, don't twist my words. I just said you say a lot of stupid shit. I.e everything in this thread.
so I said stupid shit because I read his post and it came off as some drama whoring shit from someone that was trying to act like he was so much better while 'reppin the thug life'.
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Acaterpillar said: You just have a serious devil's advocate complex.
Also this, you seem to just choose random threads to talk down on people based on the smallest details.
in the words of 'professionals' "I cant help unless I receive honesty"
what I do is point out what I see, I'm not a sucker, you want to be one, feel free to be one but the OPs post screams loud and clear that he's creating the baby momma drama since his ex is living in a stable home with parents that are financially stable while his unemployed ass that's living off his girlfriend wants to take custody of the kid and put it in a home where the GF could get tired of his shit and leave him and what environment is a cardboard box in an alley with a currently using but lying to us about it 'professional'
Quote: Shes a down ass bitch and would do anything for us both. She is the one for me and I am certain I will be getting married to her as soon as we have enough money. But I cant afford anything. All my money goes to my daughter or rent or car, loans, etc. Now I have to find a VERY good lawyer who can at least compete with the crack team they are going to hire to destroy me in court. They have limitless funds
really? here's his plan, sheer brilliance
Quote: My plan is to make the first move and tell her and her parents I know about her drug use and it needs to be dealt with now. If not, we remove custody from the mom and place it in her grandparents hands as well as mine. So when I drop our daughter off and only my babymama is there, I have to wait for one of her parents before I can leave. This will just be to prove a point that she fucked up. I know I wont be able to leave the state and stuff, but even if she lived with me full time around here and her mom got visits instead of me would be better.
how's that plan going
scrantonstrangler said: Update for anyone who went through reading that long ass venting session. Ill try n make this quick for u. Randomly drug tested my babymama after talking to her parents who were mad supportive and concerned. We like surprised her when she got home from school with one and she passed!! Well at least for the shit im concerned about. Only thing was no stix which she prescribed so I guess shes flippin em? So shes just selling drugs which she promised to stop….but who knows.
seems that it's not and there's yet more assumptions on his part, if she was prescribed some meds and they arent showing on a drug test then she must be selling the shit, so unlike our little scranton strangler, she's not using drugs but she's also not all up in someone elses shit, making accusations that arent panning out and creating drama in their life with their living arrangements
anyway, I'm just doing what was asked
Quote: Sorry its long. More just venting. Also looking for any input you may have. I just like..realized how bad I fucked up….Dont get me wrong I would deal with 1000 babymamas for just 1 of my daughter, but it shouldn’t be like this. We should be a team. And we are not. My daughter mom is our opposition. Because if ur not for my daughter, you are against her in my book.
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