Reading all the other posts . ..hmmm. I dunno which to reply to, but I want to add this.
As I said I am a girl, as I said I am married and I didnt want to be + I DONT want to have kids
Not all girls are the same, many ARE obsessed with the simple idea of "the wedding day" even if they are not in love, even if they dont have any active plans of marriage. However, there MANY are girls, like me, who have been spared this stupid fantasy.
100USD a plate for 50 or so people I dont even know, 1000USD for a dress, equal or more for a pair of rings?? Spending thousands of dollars on an event that 1st) will hopefully only happen once in your life 2nd) Will force you to be stuck in front of people for 5+ hrs in an expensive but most likely uncomfortable dress and equally cheesy and uncomfortable shoes... EW!!
I personally think that TO ME marrige IS stupid, but i'm a hippy goth metal chick that would rather spend 1000USD on a Gibson than on a piece of jewlery and would rather stay home and sit in the dark naked with my boy and my guitar than . . .anything else really! (my marrige consisted of me and my hub throwing somthing on 10min before we had to be in court, then signing a paper and then going to LOTUS to get drunk)
But thats me, and what *I* think is right and what *I* think is stupid.
We are all different, different things make us feel good/bad/secure/etc. and I truly believe marrige, even though *I* think is stupid, IS the right thing for many other people.
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