Anonymous #36 said: I believe he said girlfriend, not fuck buddy. Your argument is invalid, and by half of the things you said you obviously do not understand what I am saying. You are WAY off.
and no, it's not good to have a slut for a girlfriend. She will get fucked up thinking you are cheating on her, end up sleeping with whoever is pushy enough, and then you wind up with an STD.
But I never said that one's self-respect goes away by fucking. By fucking ANYBODY and EVERYBODY, because you draw no moral or logical boundary, perhaps. Sometimes the "honesty and lack of inhibition" you speak of, is not that at all , it's simply being naive and wreckless. It has nothing to do with insecurity. Girls like that bring bullshit into your life.
Why would you assume I was talking about the whole matter as is they were fuck buddies and nothing more? I never mentioned anything like this, are you receiving messages from stupid land and they interfere with what you read?  There's nothing inherently wrong with being a "slut", the problem occurs when stupid fucks like you decide that it is bad, and somehow "immoral". You're talking as if fucking a bunch of people WILL make her have STD's and that she WILL suspect him of cheating on her. What's the sense of making all these logical leaps? How does one draw the other? What is immoral about sex? Is masturbation immoral too? Is sexual need immoral perhaps? Maybe even diarrhea? If she wouldn't have had sex with all those people, she would have masturbated anyways. Would that have been immoral too? What's the difference? Don't you think it makes more sense that, if you feel the need to have sex, it will be more fun to do it with somebody than alone? Exactly where's the logical boundary you're talking about? You never even tried to explain how having sex with random people is immoral, which only leads me to thinking that you're full of shit or you really haven't thought this through so you don't know what to answer me. How will she bring bullshit into his life? Is she cheating on him? Is she lying to him? How will her past stop the two of them from being happy together and have fun with each other?
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