In our day and age with women's rights, birth control, abortion, and laws which force males into responsibility for their children, it is irrational to expect a women to be held to a different standard as men when it comes to choosing sexual partners. But on a primal, biological, evolutionary level, it makes perfect sense.
Women have evolved to have a limited supply of eggs and a drastic consequence when they choose the wrong partner (9 months of pregnancy followed by years of raising a child with an absent father and inferior genetics). Men have evolved to have a virtually unlimited supply of sperm and no responsibility for raising a child with inferior genetics.
This double standard when it comes to male vs. female sexually is rooted in biology, and as much as we like to pretend, has little to do with tradition and sociological norms.
OP, do you love this girl or is she just someone you are fucking at the moment?
If you love her, it is extremely ignorant to give her grief over past transgressions. If you are just enjoying the sex and company, well then why do you give a shit?
If you want to break up with her over it, then continue to be a caveman and perpetuate the ignorance of our species. To paraphrase Nietzsche, "Mankind is something to be overcome".
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