Anonymous #3 said:

Just love the kid, and raise it with mindfulness.....all shall be well

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I'd be scared if I was you.
Becoming a parent is a life changing experience.

Be sure and get a DNA test done to make sure that it's your kid after it's born, if she is pregnant.

I've had a few kids with 2 different women that I didn't marry and it worked out just fine.
I wasn't ready to get married and either were they.
I made sure that they were my kids though.

Good luck.

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I fuck alot of different women so i know she has at least had the opportunity to fuck elsewhere.
I will get the DNA checked, but secretly, and of coarse after the birth. I feel you..
its a shame though, because i would already be on the birth cert. / emotionally invested.
I wouldnt have the right to be mad at her if she came clean soon and told me it was a possibility,
but i would prolly freak right out if she didnt tell me, and i found out later.

Hopefully it's all good. Ive been in bigger dilemma's than this believe it or not.

Anonymous #5 said:

As someone else said, really raising a kid takes an enormous amount of commitment and energy.  If you plan on actually being a dad it'll be a radical change.  If thats not what you had planned, then you should be worried.

Good to hear you can take of it financially, but thats really just a small aspect of being a dad.

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Anonymous #1 said:

At least my sperm work

Were not sure yet, but my gut tells me its true.
Its not a giant problem really.
I dont feel like committing the rest of my life to her,
at least not yet. So thats going to be akward.

Other than that im set up pretty well.
I have all the money i need, and am surprisingly not upset
really.

It should be shocking but im just kinda chill about it.
I would rather raise it then have her decide to get an abortion,
but its her choice, and she knows i might not marry her.

I wouldnt have a problem buying a house for us and trying it out like that.
I would have to give up my pimp ass bachelor's pad tho
Do you think i should be more shocked/scared by this?

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, get an abortion!

Anonymous #9 said:

fuck abortions punch that bitch in the gut

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Same thing!

Anonymous #1 said:

naw, i dont mind the idea of it really. I just would wait, if i had the choice. Abortion is fucked up tho. Im for abortion as a right in certain cases, but i just wouldnt press for one. Its HER RIGHT IMO; she gets to decide that, and if she wants to consider my opinion i say no.

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Why is abortion fucked up?

I bet you think cloning is fucked up, too, don't you?