Anonymous #4 said: if you think a finger feels good try a dick.
i'm serious. gay sex is teh awesome the only reason you don't try it is because stupid monkeys you depended on for everything made you anxious about enjoying your body while you were to little to think logically and your brain was soft. So they pushed lies and life denying beliefs into your head, which you incessantly repeat to yourself so much you think it's your voice.
afraid not bro
- I have taken it up the ass
- it didn't turn me on
- I didn't get pleasure from it
- I won't repeat the experience
it wasn't painful / it wasn't awkward (per se) / it just simply wasn't ME (and not because I'm homophobic either - I just wasn't 'feeling it')
you can preach all you want about how closed minded I am, and about how the guy I was with just wasn't doing it right, and whatever other nonsense I'm sure you've already at least considered throwing out there...but what it comes right down to in the end is that you either have gay tendencies, or you don't
I've never been a real 'guys guy' ever (not into sports / can't stand automotive mumbo-jumbo / could care less about bragging about all these wild sex stories I've never actually had / don't give a fuck about showing off an one-upping the people I'm with / the list just goes on and on and on) and then you couple that with the fact that I do, in fact, have at least *some* effeminate qualities (I like to cook / I tend to keep things clean / I know how to sew / and bake / and entertain my guests / and all of that) so yeah - I used to think that there was at least a possibility that i *might* be gay, and I used to always say that if the opportunity were to ever arise - then I'd certainly go with the flow of things and see for myself where it takes me...which...is exactly what happened
but like I said - I just felt like this was a completely one-sided endeavor...and I couldn't help but wonder why so many people kept insisting that this was so pleasurable
and to this day I got no problem giving a man a blowjob, an no problem giving a good deep dicking to a women (cause I find both endeavors to be pleasurable to both parties involved) but I won't take it up the ass any more, nor will I go down on a bitch...cause, to me anyway, I find both of these actions to be incredibly one sided / and I guess I'm just a firm believer in the idea of a constant 'dance' of sorts, as opposed to the idea of 'taking turns'
but I digress on that one (after all - it's just a matter of personal opinion anyway)
the point I was trying to make with all of this is that just because something is pleasurable for one person (or even an entire sub-genre classification of sorts) that by no means means that it's going to be pleasurable to EVERYONE
though I'll certainly encourage people to 'test the waters' on all sides before jumping to conclusions for themselves
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