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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: it stars saddam]
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it stars saddam said:
deCypher said:
Hypothesizing that every human is consumed by an unconscious death anxiety seems just like Freud postulating that every male is consumed by the Oedipal complex: both are unprovable assertions and seem more like an attempt to twist the facts to prove the author's pet theory rather than examine true human motivations.



I highly recommend reading Life Against Death by Norman O. Brown before you write off Freud entirely.  I consider it one of the most important texts on psychoanalysis that I have encountered.  The Oedipus complex is indeed a reality, though its nature is often misunderstood.  Many falsely assume that it simply means that every child wants to kill his father and fuck his mother.  It's not quite that simple.  Brown explains that the Oedipus complex is essentially a desire to become one's own father, or "self-existent," free from the trappings of the ego and the external world.  In infancy, the child exists in a sort of solipsistic state of polymorphously perverse sexuality in which all of his needs are met by his mother and he is not burdened with inhibitions or social demands.  One could say that for the first 2 years of the child's life, he exists as "pure id," to use Freud's terminology.  However, once he begins to develop self-awareness, the child is confronted with the reality principle, an event which is naturally traumatic.  In flight from the reality principle, the child envisions a return to his mother's womb, a state in which he was unburdened by the harsh reality of autonomy and social expectations.  The father is viewed merely as an obstacle.

"The essence of society is repression of the individual, and the essence of the individual is repression of himself."



The trouble with any kind of psychoanalysis in this regard is that it develops a theory that is absolutely untestable.  It's nice speculation, but it's not science: and psychology is a science.


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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: deCypher]
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Psychology is a pseudoscience, but I agree with you that psychoanalysis is ultimately untestable, due to the fact that it involves a great amount of introspection.  I personally feel that psychoanalysis holds very little therapeutic value.  Despite Freud's intentions, it has far more to do with philosophy and sociology than it does the empirical sciences, though I do not feel that this discredits the theory in any way.  Psychoanalysis is far more profound than the feel-good dime store psychology that is so fashionable these days.

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: it stars saddam]
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it stars saddam said:
Psychology is a pseudoscience



Whoa, whoa, hold up.  There is plenty of legitimate psychological research, particularly in the bleeding edge of fMRI scans and other neural correlates to conscious activity.  Freudian psychoanalysis might be a pseudoscience, but the behavioral end of psychology is far from one.

I agree that it's good to speculate, though.


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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: deCypher]
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Yes, neuropsychology is indeed "scientific."  However, the vast majority of psychology is not.  I particularly disagree with the behaviorist school of thought.  While observable behavior may provide some insight into an individual's personality, its effectiveness is severely limited.  I believe that the psychic activity which results in certain behaviors is far more revealing than the behaviors themselves.  An example would be the ingestion of LSD or psilocybin: while one's behavior while under the influence of these drugs is usually not dramatically altered, they can induce a profound psychological experience.

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: it stars saddam]
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Indeed, but due to its very nature, subjective experience can not be verified via the scientific method (or, at least, your results are not generalizable to the human population as a whole).

Behaviorism is ultimately the only logically tenable part of psychology if we still wish to call it a science.  Anything else lies more in the realm of personal discovery, experience, and mysticism.


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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: deCypher]
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deCypher said:
Subjective experience can not be verified via the scientific method (or, at least, your results are not generalizable to the human population as a whole).



This is exactly why psychology is ultimately a pseudoscience.  Diagnoses are dependent upon the neurotic patient's description of his subjective experiences.  Even with behaviorism, the psychiatrist draws conclusions based upon the patient's recollection and description of his behaviors.  The only way for behaviorism to adhere to strict empiricism would be to have a disinterested researcher secretly monitor a person's actions, in which case the researcher would still have no insight into the subject's mind, or to have him observe the behaviors of a group of people, in which case the practice would be better described as sociology or behavioral ecology.

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: it stars saddam]
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Eh, now we're just quibbling with definitions.  Psychology as it stands is the science of studying both behavior and the mind; the former is valid whereas the latter is shaky, but it all still falls under the umbrella of psychology.

Besides, at least they're making an attempt to study subjective processes in a systematic fashion, even if it's inherently flawed to begin with.


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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: Icelander]
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Icelander said:
Stimulated by a question by RGVs I have to broach this subject one more time.

The Denial of Death (ISBN 0-684-83240-2) is a psychology/philosophy work written by Ernest Becker and published in 1973. It was awarded the Pulitzer prize for general non-fiction in 1974, two months after the author's death. The book builds largely on the works of Søren Kierkegaard, Sigmund Freud, and one of Freud's colleagues, Otto Rank.

The basic premise of The Denial of Death is that human civilization is ultimately an elaborate, symbolic defense mechanism against the knowledge of our mortality, which in turn acts as the emotional and intellectual response to our basic survival mechanism. Becker argues that a basic duality in human life exists between the physical world of objects and a symbolic world of human meaning. Thus, since man has a dualistic nature consisting of a physical self and a symbolic self, man is able to transcend the dilemma of mortality through heroism, a concept involving his symbolic half. By embarking on what Becker refers to as an "immortality project" (or causa sui), in which he creates or becomes part of something which he feels will outlast him, man feels he has "become" heroic and, henceforth, part of something eternal; something that will never die, compared to his physical body that will die one day. This, in turn, gives man the feeling that his life has meaning; a purpose; significance in the grand scheme of things.

From this premise, mental illness is most insightfully extrapolated as a bogging down in one's hero system(s). When someone is experiencing depression, their causa sui (or heroism project) is failing, and they are being consistently reminded of their mortality and insignificance as a result. Schizophrenia is a step further than depression in which one's causa sui is falling apart, making it impossible to engender sufficient defense mechanisms against their mortality; henceforth, the schizophrenic has to create their own reality or "world" in which they are better heroes. Becker argues that the conflict between immortality projects which contradict each other (particularly in religion) is the wellspring for the destruction and misery in our world caused by wars, bigotry, genocide, racism, nationalism, and so forth, since an immortality project which contradicts others indirectly suggests that the others are wrong.

Another theme running throughout the book is that humanity's traditional "hero-systems" i.e. religion, are no longer convincing in the age of reason; science is attempting to solve the problem of man, something that Becker feels it can never do. The book states that we need new convincing "illusions" that enable us to feel heroic in the grand scheme of things, i.e. immortal. Becker, however, does not provide any definitive answer, mainly because he believes that there is no perfect solution. Instead, he hopes that gradual realization of man's innate motivations, namely death, can help to bring about a better world.

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If we believe that man projects his death anxiety onto the external world by means of  belief in heroic deeds, what do we accomplish? Even more so, what do we accomplish by knowing this as fact? At least at the belief stage, it leaves doors open for escape.

Projection is something that is used throughout the scope of human emotions. Even if death anxiety is the primary source, we're no farther along than before. We all still die and as a result must face death anxiety.

Was there a point to the speculation, and then trying to defend the point?

Social Psychology posits that small doses of positive delusions are beneficial. Knowing yourself completely has negative consequences. Basically stating, 'the ego builds defenses for a reason, dumbasses' As has been pointed out, psychoanalysis has very little therapeutic value. Only when the levels of delusions are enormous, does this self discovery process become valuable.

Your drive to discover your core was spurred by death anxiety? I can't fit that piece in. At least in my mind, hurting myself does not equate to heroics. I suppose we could liken it to the suicidal individual. And for the record, I too do lots of self-exploration, which likens me to the suicidal person as well.

Perhaps these things are unprovable for a reason. If we could clearly define them as universal truths, we'd be causing ourselves quite a bit of grief.


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Why shouldn't the truth be stranger than fiction?
Fiction, after all, has to make sense. -- Mark Twain

Edited by Kickle (11/26/08 04:11 PM)

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: Kickle]
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Your drive to discover your core was spurred by death anxiety?

If you are referring to me here, I would say that death anxiety spurred me to find relief, any relief anywhere.

Death anxiety need have no purpose. We all must face it but the psyche can put that off for quite a while.

As a child I never thought about death. Playing was all that mattered and seemed eternal. Then it slowly dawned on me that playing wasn't eternal. Bummer. That certainly was worrisome.


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"Don't believe everything you think". -Anom.

" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: Icelander]
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I was referring to you.

Why was discovering death anxiety a relief?
If we spend our lives building our defense to it, how does tearing that defense down help?
We have to face our deaths, but certainly some are allowed more time to reflect at that point than others.

Personally, I'd rather die in a blink than slowly, and exactly for the reason we're discussing. I don't want to know my death anxiety. I don't want to see how it played out in my life. I want to believe that my actions will go on in the world.

It seems that to seek it out prematurely is damaging, rather than relieving.
Especially with evidence provided by Social Psychology.
The depressed person is referred to as 'wiser, but sadder,' indicating they have a clearer view of their drives and reflection in the world while the individual with low levels of delusion will see themselves less clearly, but be happier.

To try and see yourself clearer is asking for trouble. Why then is it a relief?
That's my question.


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Why shouldn't the truth be stranger than fiction?
Fiction, after all, has to make sense. -- Mark Twain

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: Icelander]
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Icelander said:
As a child I never thought about death. Playing was all that mattered and seemed eternal. Then it slowly dawned on me that playing wasn't eternal. Bummer. That certainly was worrisome.



It seems eternal because we haven't yet developed the adult's dumb habit of obsessing about the past and future.  When you are really in the moment it might as well be eternal; no fear, no death anxiety.  Soooo hard to stay there, only because the mind starts to think again.  Fucking mind.  Ruining my fun.


:suicide:


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Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man.  For him all doors are flung wide: him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire.  Our love goes out to him and embraces him, because he did not need it.

~ R.W. Emerson, "Self-Reliance"

:heartpump:

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: WhiskeyClone]
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Sometimes I tend to revert back to childhood and play just like you are describing. Such moments of bliss are few and far between.

I'm really good at it while tripping.. but usually when I'm sober the mind starts to think again. You ever slapped your mind around and said no? I was doing that for awhile but now I forgot which button I was pressing in my head.
*fondles brains*

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: Icelander]
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Interesting thread, more ideas were brought forth here that are new to me - thanx~ for that....    :thumbup:
However, I must be thick, as I personally don't feel any closer to understanding or relating to the concepts in a tangible way....
Perhaps I am just proficient at repressing such things....  :ohwell:


>^;;^<


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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: PhanTomCat]
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PhanTomCat said:
However, I must be thick, as I personally don't feel any closer to understanding or relating to the concepts in a tangible way....
Perhaps I am just proficient at repressing such things....  :ohwell:



Likewise.

I certainly have a fear of growing old, though.  How does one rectify this?


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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: deCypher]
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Staying young at heart & mind, eating your greens, and drinking your milk....  :thumbup:  :muppet:

Seriously, I don't know - besides the state of mind part....
My spine is already that of an aged person's, so part of me is already like having grown old....
Just wish that wisdom part would kick in that everyone talks about.... 


>^;;^<


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I'll be your midnight French Fry....  :naughty:

"The most important things in life that are often ignored, are the things that one cannot see...."

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: PhanTomCat]
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when I think of my own death I consider it a stupid unavoidable thing
like tax
it never occurs to me that it will stop this locomotive.
if I think about that,
i am ok with it.
I am not inclined to fuss about the unavoidable.

I observe that getting confused about one's position in hero mythology adds to death anxiety but being immersed in one's own hero path dispells it entirely.


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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: redgreenvines]
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Unavoidable, yes.... 
Death is part of the same "is-ness" that life is....

When referring to the "immortality project", that doesn't seem to click with me either....
Nothing that anyone "creates" as a project will last forever....
It may outlast the life of the creator of the project, but nothing escapes (the eroding effects of) time....
.....making the whole notion flawed, or perhaps delusional....

It would be interesting to know the effects for the opposite position of the "immortality project"....
It could go in the direction of a person building a complete life of creations, then having them all burn down in a fire....
It seems that would "burn down" the "immortality project" complex by helping the person accept reality for what it is - temporary....


>^;;^<


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I'll be your midnight French Fry....  :naughty:

"The most important things in life that are often ignored, are the things that one cannot see...."

>^;;^<

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: PhanTomCat]
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PhanTomCat said:
Nothing that anyone "creates" as a project will last forever....



How do we know?  Perhaps the next development in quantum physics will let us manipulate time itself?


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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: deCypher]
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It was pure speculation, just as manipulating time is speculation (with the exception of work done by:  Hiro Nakamura)....
But then, if time manipulation was even possible, it would give a whole new meaning to "Forever"....

Let me rephrase....
So far, and as far as I know, nothing that anyone has "created" as a project will last forever....    :thumbup:


>^;;^<


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I'll be your midnight French Fry....  :naughty:

"The most important things in life that are often ignored, are the things that one cannot see...."

>^;;^<

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Re: Becker on death anxiety. [Re: Kickle]
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You misunderstand. I have always been seeking relief from death anxiety. The difference now is I know that. I'm aware of where my anxieties roots are.

I discovered the concept of death anxiety quite by accident. I was looking for some Spiritual truth to set me free. The problem was I could not lie to myself and realized that what everyone was selling had no basis in fact as far as I could tell. It became easy to see everyone blowing smoke and I also saw myself doing it.

Once I knew it was there, there was no running away and hiding. Now I'm stuck with facing it as best I can.


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"Don't believe everything you think". -Anom.

" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC

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