Anonymous #8 said:

Lolz, I see what everyone's saying , and thinking, I'm jealous too,. I'd love a ferrari also, but let's not be haters....

---

Anonymous #13 said:

You fell in love before you found out she had all of this money so why are you worrying? Marry her already!

---

Anonymous #6 said:

I'm not hating on him. I'm ANGRY that he's so fucking dense.

There is a difference.

---

Anonymous #1 said:

Anonymous #6 said:

I'm not hating on him. I'm ANGRY that he's so fucking dense.

There is a difference.

---

43k/yr is NOT anything special, trust me. It's a boring corporate America job that can easily get outsourced at the drop of a hat. However, it is pretty decent and above the "norm" for where I live, so I did push school aside for the pursuit of climbing the corporate ladder... Finishing school is important to her, as well as to me, so I may drop down to something part time and finish my degree in the near future... that way I can have a career in something I love.

anyway... uhm, yeah the whole situation has me overwhelmed. I love her more than anyone else, and that's all that matters.

I guess if she kept that part of her life low-key with someone she was as close to as me, then strangers definitely won't know... so I probably shouldn't worry about other people.

I just feel blessed that I found her, I truly feel we are soulmates, and I felt that way and expressed those feelings before I found out.

PS- to all the other people out there talking about their low-paying jobs... I say stop being so angry and look at what is hindering you from getting a better job. I see a lot of people make stupid decisions with what little money they do have, which causes them to be stuck in a rut. just drop the negative attitudes and be positive. I promise you, once you start to be positive and work hard and make personal sacrifices, things start happening for you. And saying to yourself "I work hard but I'm still getting nowhere" is the WORST negative thing to put on yourself.

---

Anonymous #1 said:

...To fall in love with someone wealthy.

---

Anonymous #6 said:

Dude, maybe you missed my point.

It's not that I'm jealous, or angry you have more money than me at your measly 45k a year.

It's just that you're a fucking douche bag for not thinking this through and realizing that you didn't actually need any advice at all. All you did was rub your ideal life situation in our faces.

Douche bag.

---

Anonymous #19 said:

Another thing to think about:  How are you doing in life?  Great, you make 43k a year, but are you accomplished?  do you have ambition?  goals?  etc.

Her father probably wants his daughter to be with someone succesful.  Success needn't always be equated with money, but know this:  In an assymmetrical relationship you had better be bringing something to the table.

---

Anonymous #21 said:

if you love her money this is all irrelevant and you will be richer in the land of gum drops and marshmallow mushrooms

---