Treat them like shit and act like you don't care at all, it works.
Seriously I used to be such a nice guy thinking that my morals and caring attitude would attract women, but it's not what they want. I eventually got sick of opening doors, being a complete gentleman on dates and having nothing to show for it but feeling used emotionally and financially. Then finding out the same girls I've spent time and money on end up fucking some asshole guy they met at a bar.
I decided to do an experiment: every time I saw a girl I liked or a girl who would hit on me I would just straight up be an asshole, saying sexual remarks or putting them down with comments about their hair or clothes (I figured I had nothing to lose since I wasn't getting anywhere with them anyway, so who gave a shit if they thought I was an asshole, at least I was having fun.)
As soon as I started acting like I was better then they were then they started to hang around me like a magnet. It was like they needed my approval since I now seemed like a very hard guy to please and not a regular guy who hit on them and gave them compliments all day. Ironically when I treated them like a piece of meat and just a sex object they would almost jump at the chance when I mentioned we go back to my place.
I eventually became that 'asshole at the bar' and now find it much easier to pick up women. This approach doesn't work if you are looking for a relationship, just if you are trying to get laid. Maybe some women genuinely do want nice guys when they get older and have fucked around with a few hundred assholes but until then I'm not spending any more money buying drinks or going on dates.
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