This is mostly about my girlfriend.
She cannot have an orgasm. She's never gotten herself off. She has an extremely low sex-drive. When we have sex it's purely for me. She seems to enjoy it but she cannot get off. I've read tons of books, I've gotten other girls off before. This girl just can't have an orgasm and it makes me really sad knowing that eventually the sex will probably cease to happen, and once that happens, my interest in her will fade 
She's very depressed.Her depression is focused around her schoolwork, her family, and her future/life. All the problems associated with these are, for the most part, her fault. Yet she takes no action to correct them or solve the problem and instead just sulks about them 1 out of 4 days.
That said, she's a great girl and we get along so well. Same interests, same likes/dislikes. She's pretty hot and has a great body and is intent on keeping herself healthy / in shape. I would say 75% of the time she's happy and then she'll come to my place and start crying and expecting me to comfort her. It gets old. It brings me down. When this happens I ask myself, as I console her, do I really want to be in this situation? Do I really want to be with this girl? Inevitably, I convince myself yes but still.. should someone even have to ask themselves that?
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