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why must there be a certain route in speaking with women
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why when first meeting a girl you must find a certain "way" to speak to them.

it's like theres a damn blueprint for talking to girls.

will it ever be possible to be your complete self and not have to worry about having "game"?

psh.

Edited by imagine (04/01/08 03:55 AM)

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: imagine]
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I think its best to be as honest as you can be. If they dont like you for who you are its best to find out sooner rather than later. Plus you come off as being genuine.

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: DimensionX]
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being youself is having game. if you have to ACT like something your not then you will not likely find a compatable woman, although you just might get laid.


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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: trscstghst]
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What he said.

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: imagine]
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imagine said:
why when first meeting a girl you must find a certain "way" to speak to them.


I don't know why you fell that way, but I sure don't. I have an easier time talking to girls I don't know than guys I don't know, maybe because I had sisters and not brothers.

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it's like theres a damn blueprint for talking to girls.

will it ever be possible to be your complete self and not have to worry about having "game"?

psh.


Yeah, it will happen. Just think of them as being just like you instead of some other class of person that you are trying to get something from.


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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: gluke bastid]
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OP.

There is no "game" if you are actually interested in them. :wink:

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: appleorange]
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i am so interested in them and took the being myself route with no bullshit.

it seems like it backfires on me. i have all my friends giving me advice advice advice where it totally fucks up the mindset i've had and ruins the lessons i've learned through out my life when dealing with girls.

it's like you're interested in a girl so much that when being yourself doesn't work out it's scary and makes you rethink of how you were. it makes you think that being genuine isn't the right way to go.

<3

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: imagine]
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Only twits like guys who have "game." If you want to spend your time in relationships with twits, then memorize all the so-called rules your friends are giving you. If you want to relate to intelligent, sensitive, female human beings, then be yourself. You won't get along with everyone, but at least you'll know that the ones who like you, like YOU & not your "game."

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: Veritas]
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Or at least have allot of money...that always seems to work wonders.


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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: ninjutsu zukai]
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Veritas. Thanks.

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: Veritas]
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Veritas said:
Only twits like guys who have "game."  If you want to spend your time in relationships with twits, then memorize all the so-called rules your friends are giving you.  If you want to relate to intelligent, sensitive, female human beings, then be yourself.  You won't get along with everyone, but at least you'll know that the ones who like you, like YOU & not your "game."



well said. :congrats:

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: NiamhNyx]
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I just get pretty attached real quickly. With me being a guy some might have some judgements about that...but if i like a chick and get that heavy feeling in my stomach i'm going to go after it...it's just my instincts i guess.

I tried contacting a girl I had kissed this weekend, however I was very drunk and had taken half of a xanax. I don't remember much, but I woke up and all I could do was think about her. She has just gotten out of a relationship so my friends that introduced me to her are telling me i'm coming off too strong and to just "play it right". When I had first contacted her and "came off strong" I was being myself and did what I knew best; starting conversation and explaining myself and coming with an open mind. She seems a little distant and now it has all gotten out of hand. I believe it is the xanax side effects...but i've been real anxious and sad lately. I think about this girl tons when I can barely remember a conversation her and I had that night. All I can think of was kissing her and looking into her eyes and getting "that feeling" in my stomach and her seeming like she did as well.

Stumped. :thumbdown:

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: imagine]
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It's also important to keep in check whether you actually care about someone deeply or if you are just being desperate and conning yourself into thinking you found someone.

That's what happens when you're desperate, you come off too strong. You're very eager to be in a relationship with someone and the other person senses that your feelings for them are not authentic. That's why they distance themselves.

I'm going through a similar situation right now, but it's the other way around. There's a girl I hardly know and she sent me an email the other day saying how she would like for me to be in a serious relationship with her. lol, get real. Of course I'm going to pull away from her because how can she possibly feel that way about me if she hardly knows me.

This society overemphasizes love and relationships far too much, everyone walks around with the preconceived idea that they can only be happy if they are with someone. Most of the couples you see holding hands are not really in love, most people don't know what love is. Just be yourself, try to be happy and enjoy life, and if you do happen to meet that special someone one day, go for it. It doesn't have to happen today though.

Edited by appleorange (04/02/08 12:58 PM)

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: appleorange]
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Just be yourself, try to be happy and enjoy life, and if you do happen to meet that special someone one day, go for it.


Excellent advice.  I would add that it is important to avoid limiting yourself to loving that "special someone."  Be loving towards everyone you can...radiate warmth and appreciation and tenderness.  Much of what we enjoy about being in love is actually the experience of being loving.  :heart: :hug:

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: Veritas]
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go find the info on ross jeffries, this guy lets you know how to deal with women, with some really fuckin weird shit


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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: drpain27]
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Oh, really no.  :tongue:  "Speed seduction" techniques are bogus.

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: Veritas]
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Whatever. Pickup Artist techniques work wonders. Here is a basic technique:

1. Goto bar (or club)
2. Get drunk
3. Ask out every women there
4. Repeat every night until successful
5. Tell all your friends how alpha you are

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: MushmanTheManic]
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:lol:  You're so cute.

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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: imagine]
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Just r - e - l - a - x.

Here's a hint: no certain game is gonna work because , surprise surprise, not all women are the same person. In fact me and my girlfriends rarely find the same personality traits attractive. I like men that are funny and confident (my friends tend to find these guys arrogant). Another likes them to be a little bit of an asshole ( at least it seems so to me), yet another likes musicians that are very in touch with their emotions.

So like has been said so many times before, the only way you will find someone who is actually compatible with you is for you to be yourself.


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Re: why must there be a certain route in speaking with women [Re: mushbaby]
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You have to feel yourself. Then people will feel you. Just just cant be disconnected. You gotta flow... your body, your language, your mood all has to sum up to GOD.


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