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InvisibleEgo Death
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Seriously, how can I meet more women?
    #1835997 - 08/21/03 03:15 AM (14 years, 3 months ago)

This can get me so depressed it does my head in.  I hadn't had a girl for like 2 years until this summer.  She was trouble and we split but reminded me of that feelin and now I'm on a mission to get a misses.

The thing is I meet like a couple of women a year at most.  I don't go out to pubs/clubs and I don't really want to get into this scene, I only drink if I have to socialise or am v.unhappy.

I do go out every night with friends to their houses or down the river etc but never meet any babes.  All my friends that have girlfriends seem to of been pretty lucky, like, they've been hooked up with their sisters friends etc.

Sometimes I feel so down it drives me mad, all I want is the loving touch of a female cause it makes me feel alive!  :loveeyes: :mad2: 


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1836042 - 08/21/03 03:44 AM (14 years, 3 months ago)

stop smoking so much pot


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1836208 - 08/21/03 05:43 AM (14 years, 3 months ago)

You have got to move in circles where they tend to be. If you only go places they are not you will not meet them, that's for sure.

Although I'm a men's man myself I can relate, clubbing is not my idea of looking for a partner, because most of the time there's either way to much alcohol going around, the music's cranked to 120 dB or both.
Besides the clubs usually are the hangouts of the horny which can get in the way of finding somebody to get really involved in.

A lot of people get into the chat thing. Be warned: although meeting someone words-only is a great, GREAT way to get to know sombody without being distracted by their beauty or breathtaking lack thereof you should preferably use a webcam & mike when you want to get to know her better to avoid nasty surprises of being toyed around with or her being not what you're looking for, because contrary to the Ideal World her looks are bound to be over half of your attraction to her.

Oh yeah: don't drink when you're unhappy, if you must use something use some pot. And be careful not to become dependent on "drinking away" shyness.

If your girl upon the first date suggest she wants you slippin' one in it is an equally bad sign as ten dates passing without as much of a kiss. If she says you're like a brother to her consider yourself fucked as far as a love-relationship goes.


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1836314 - 08/21/03 08:13 AM (14 years, 3 months ago)

I've always wanted to try going door to door....

Most quality chicks donot go out bar hopping. They're going to be at college campuses, at the mall (or other chick infested stores), at concerts. I even know a couple of hot basketball fanatics. Lots of chicks are shy, want a guy, but arent going out to meet one. You must find them in their natural environment. Like if you worked in a music store, or a hot topic, or a gadzooks, or (ug) an old navy if you like that kinda girl. Then, you need to lose ALL inhibitions, and get yourself in the mindset of talking to women. With some practice it comes naturally. But really, remind yourself if you ever back down from talking to a chick. "Being rejected is 1000 times funnier than being depressed"  And its just practice for the one that doesnt suck :wink: 


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: HarveyWalbanger]
    #1836391 - 08/21/03 09:01 AM (14 years, 3 months ago)

You'd be surprised how mush success can be had just walking up to women in anything approximating a social situation...I'm not talking about high percentage stuff, but you can actually hit it off with someone in situations that might otherwise seems exclusive to such things...restaurant (the solo woman eating alone is inviting), library, sporting event, many places...getting over being shy is the big thing...I see you're English, come over to the US and you'll have way more women than you could ever handle, they love the accent.


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: TheHobbit]
    #1837119 - 08/21/03 02:00 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

I already figured that strumpling, its harder than every1 makes out methinks.

Cheers wiccan seeker. I've tried the webcam idea and couldn't even find any girls that used 1 and would chat! I think I already drink away shyness, straight would be cool but I always smoke pot which gives me anxiety. I quit it for a while if i'm seeing women because I get physical reactions from it!

LOL @ walbanger, good stuff! I spose maybe I should start hittin on those chicks behind the tills...

I'm there hobbit! Where i live there hardly are any women!!! If they love me cause my accent, it can't get any easier.

I figured I need a car to get to places more female populated hehe.


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1838477 - 08/21/03 08:51 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

Women are everywhere. How are you having trouble meeting them? Maybe you just need more confidence to approach them. Or maybe you're being too picky. Sometimes the best results come from ordinary meetings at ordinary places (book store, supermarket, etc.), because chicks are more open there than they would be at a bar/club where "the game" is on.


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1838620 - 08/21/03 09:34 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

I suggested not smoking so much pot and you replied
"I already figured that strumpling"
but then later you said "I always smoke pot which gives me anxiety."

WELL?!


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1838824 - 08/21/03 10:37 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

Hey dan try this.

Say "hows it going" to ten girls you meet during the day/night.  Most of them will say "good", one might say "fuck off" but one will say "good, how are you?" and boom, you just met a woman and are having a conversation.  From there talk small talk, and if she likes you she'll keep talking to you, and then ask her if she wants to get coffee sometime, then get her #.

The biggest obstacle is having the confidence to talk to women in public, with other people around who are gonna judge you.  I say "who cares" and if you make an ass out of yourself then at least its a funny story to tell.  when it comes to women, the only way to learn about them is from your mistakes, for example geting slapped or kicked in the nuts is a sign you said the wrong thing.  Good luck man!!  :cool: 


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1839256 - 08/22/03 01:33 AM (14 years, 3 months ago)

Dude, take gymnastics classes. The classes are mostly chicks, they're hot, and they're like 14-17 years old, thats good eatin!


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: djfrog]
    #1839634 - 08/22/03 05:57 AM (14 years, 3 months ago)

I just been out with a 16 year old frog and they are jail bait!!!Enough said!

Well, strumpling. I'm a self confessed MJ addict, I think about giving up everyday but at best I just cut down slightly but I still enjoy doing it so its really hard.

Max, I live in a small town and finding a women that isn't a complete slapper is the hardest thing, I can go talk to any old slag and shag her but they give you a bad name, diseases and don't look good!

Pattern what you saying is true but getting to the point of comfort where I feel ready to ask for her number is hard. Paranoia of she likes me she likes me not usually kicks in and not always wins.

Starting conversation in the middle of a shop always seems silly with a stranger.


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1839638 - 08/22/03 06:02 AM (14 years, 3 months ago)

What do womem do in the evenings and weekends? Where the hell do they all hide? Why am I only meeting fatties/hoes or bitches?

All I want is an average girl for fucks sake with a bit of loyalty.


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1840194 - 08/22/03 12:19 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

danoEoboy said:
All I want is an average girl for fucks sake with a bit of loyalty. 




Ohh...well if thats all... :rolleyes:


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1840195 - 08/22/03 12:20 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

danoEoboy said:
I just been out with a 16 year old frog and they are jail bait!!!Enough said!





Wus that the one your mates were eyeing?..or was that someone else...


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Azmodeus]
    #1841370 - 08/22/03 06:29 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

Ya same bitch Az.


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Ego Death]
    #1841530 - 08/22/03 07:17 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

I have the same problem - I'm just too shy to approach girls. We went to the pub last night, and my chick friend was telling me to go talk to some girls, but it was just too noisy and I really have nothing to say. It's annoying, because the places that most of the girls go to are extremely or somewhat noisy.
People say I'm too picky, I'm not. I just find it very awkward talking to strange girls in public.


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Sheepish]
    #1841717 - 08/22/03 08:27 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

Women play hard to get.  Just go up to them and say "Hi" "How are you doing?"  If you get ignored then just ask the next girl, it makes them jealous.  They really are a dime a dozen.  Save your love and puppy eyes for girls who actually deserve it. 

I was at the bar last week and these two beautiful girls stood in line behind us.  After I got my drink I turned around and said "Hows it going?"  I got a wierd look so I shrugged and started walking off.  But as I walked away she grabbed me and we started talking and flirting.  Sometimes the hottest chicks dont get hit on at all and will be happy to get any attention, even from an ugly dude like me :wink:

Wish me luck tonite im gonna go to the pub and get my "game on". haha   


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: pattern]
    #1843106 - 08/23/03 12:42 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

I was kinda like you sheepish, and danoboy...
i was lucky though, and it turn out my g/f had been eyeing me for a year before, and during going out with one of my friends with which she had broken up with coincidentaly. She had called my best friend to talk to him,(i hardly knew who she was, but thought her hot), he went upstairs, and i was in a good mood so i started talking. She practically made me promise to call her from home, and she asked me to go to the movies that weekend. ,she was in gr. 10 at the time, and i was gr.12....that was five years ago, we live togther now, and have two dogs, house payments, and a car. I feel pretty lucky to get such a great girl, she's brazilian, and her parents just happend to get rich with thier family business a couple years ago, which i now work at for good money.

but you could sit on your ass your whole life before that happens. the question is.....how desperate are you? it has to get to the point where you don't give a shit if you get regected, and are willing to talk to strange women at bars about nothing.
damn, im glad i got lucky...


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: Azmodeus]
    #1843838 - 08/23/03 06:59 PM (14 years, 3 months ago)

U lucky bugger Az!!!

I hate to say it but I desperate enough to do just about anything.


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Re: Seriously, how can I meet more women? [Re: pattern]
    #1844861 - 08/24/03 04:31 AM (14 years, 3 months ago)

Well, shit. On Friday night a girl I had liked back in college was at my friend's gig. I couldn't do anything except just look at her a few times. Was far too noisy to even bother talking to her. I was kicking myself for giving up the chance.
Anyways, the weirdest thing happened. My friend's 21st party was last night, and who should show up again but this same girl from the previous night? It took me a while to work up courage and to override my negative thoughts and excuses not to do it. So I'm sitting outside, glancing over at her, attempting to get up and go over and tap her on the shoulder and say something. Seemed like forever, but I dragged myself over and awkwardly asked her a question to sort of get the ball rolling. Well, it turned out better than I expected. I ended up sitting down and had a chat to her and her friends for a while. She was very friendly and I didn't get that feeling like she wanted me to piss off. She ended up leaving about 30-40 mins later, but I completely surprised myself.
I had been kicking myself for SO long over the missed chance back in college, and sometimes it really got me down. But last night, I finally talked to her :smile: Life is really odd sometimes. I may end up seeing her around in the future, as my friend has another gig in a few weeks. I'll definitely be saying Hi to her if I see her there, and see how things go. I don't really care if we end up friends or go out or what. I'm just content that I finally grew some balls, faced my fear and replaced the memories of missing a chance to talk to her with actually talking to her :laugh: 
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