I have a ton of friends in all different circles. There are my old middle school friends, who aren't big on drugs and love video games; there are my stoner buddies (self-explanatory); there are more stoner buddies who I met through my brother (group B which is quite incompatible with group A stoners); there are my friends in the city, who are always having big parties; and there are my OTHER friends in the city who I see at school but who I'm pretty sure would never get along with the other group. I also have many friends who fall in between these circles.
Lately I've been pretty busy, I've got school and a job. And all my friends still want to hang out with me, they're constantly inviting me here or there or coming over for a smoke session. It was easy when I didn't have a life and the only way to spend my time was with my friends, but now my opportunities to hang out with them (my days off) have been few and far between. Moreover, I'm usually fucking pooped on my days off and would prefer to spend them lounging at home and doing simple things like cleaning house than juggling so many people who want to chill with me, which is very difficult.
I like all my friends and want to show them love but attempting to do that has made my days off more stressful than my days on.
What the fuck should I do?
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