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What is it with girls these days?
#5577428 - 05/01/06 02:05 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Am I looking in the wrong places or what? I can't tell you how many times I've fallen madly in love with a girl, and she does the same. I'll tell her how pretty she is, I'll give tons of affection (but not overdoing it), I'm there for them at the drop of a dime, I treat them very respectfully, and I've even managed to get a grip on jealousy. I'm a complete mutual when it comes to relationships and I don't understand why every time I connect, actually connect with someone they turn their back and want someone else. I'm going crazy trying to figure out how slow to take things and how much of myself to give. It seems when I find a keeper, I give it my all, and I feel like we've connected better than I have with the last.
I mean, I consider myself good looking, I've been told it numerous times before. I'm not a porn star but I know my way around quite well, hygeine's not an issue, place is clean... I really don't know where I'm going wrong. Am I even going wrong or could it just be the girl that's fickle?
It's not so much that I want every girl I connect with to marry me or anything, but when they look you in the eye in bed before going to sleep and say things like, "You're perfect...girls kill for guys like you...you're too sweet to me...you're so sweet....how could anyone leave you..." and then out of the blue it's, "I want to be single" and have a new boyfriend within a week? I dunno. Maybe I'm just thinkin too much into it.
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Newbie]
#5577440 - 05/01/06 02:12 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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We've got the same problem my friend. We're too damn nice. I always had plenty of female friends but trouble hooking up. Chicks don't want nice guys they want guys with rough edges so they can fix them. About a year ago I got pretty pissed off and jaded about the whole thing (I'll spare you the details). Since I started looking at and treating girls like the scandalous whores that they are, I've actually had to brush up on my technique for turning down dates. It makes no sense and I don't think you can fake it. Just another way the universe fucks us over. You can only get/keep the chicks when you don't want them.
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Newbie]
#5577443 - 05/01/06 02:13 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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your probaly boring or not going places. Most girls dont like guys who sit around smoking pot all day. not saying thats you but your on this site so idk.
Girls like a man who is exciting and going places in life. Nice guy is used by guys who are boring... Im a nice guy but im a hell of an exciting man too
Edited by Hitman203 (05/01/06 02:14 PM)
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Hitman203]
#5577451 - 05/01/06 02:18 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well you're right about the pot smoking but wrong about the boring. Most girls I date smoke just as much as me and do the same shit as me and holy crap as I'm writing this I'm realzing I need to find a girl that's not really too much like me so it'll automatically be something new and different. lol thanks :P
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Newbie]
#5577455 - 05/01/06 02:19 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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You can get all deep and philosophical about it, but basically chicks just dig assholes.
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Newbie]
#5577456 - 05/01/06 02:20 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Girls want a nice guy that will beat them occasionaly. That's all you have to remember. 
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but when they look you in the eye in bed before going to sleep and say things like, "You're perfect...girls kill for guys like you...you're too sweet to me...you're so sweet....how could anyone leave you..."
When a girl says this, know immediatley that they suffer from low self esteem and are only comfortable in a relationship where they are treated like shit, re-affirming their own insecurities and low self esteem. A man making a girl feel "special" scares them, they're not used to it, especially girls in their 20's
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Newbie]
#5577457 - 05/01/06 02:20 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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NewbieShroomie said: Well you're right about the pot smoking but wrong about the boring. Most girls I date smoke just as much as me and do the same shit as me and holy crap as I'm writing this I'm realzing I need to find a girl that's not really too much like me so it'll automatically be something new and different. lol thanks :P
hahaha yea man. I smoke pot but pothead girls arent the greatest. find a chick who sometimes smokes and it usually works out better for ya. best of luck
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Hitman203]
#5577467 - 05/01/06 02:22 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hitman203 said: your probaly boring or not going places. Most girls dont like guys who sit around smoking pot all day. not saying thats you but your on this site so idk.
Girls like a man who is exciting and going places in life. Nice guy is used by guys who are boring... Im a nice guy but im a hell of an exciting man too
Hahahaha, this coming from a guy who posts 2-3 threads a day about women problems....
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Hitman203]
#5577484 - 05/01/06 02:28 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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Not to be harsh but...you guys SUCK and have NO IDEA when it comes to girls.
Picture yourself as an attractive young female. You get hit on tons of times a day and its the same sad story... "You're so pretty", "Can I buy you a drink or take you out for dinner", "You're special".
You come across as the same needy guy as everyone else. If it doesn't work... do something else, damn.
Another thing. Every hot girl will say to the nice guys that theyre looking for a nice guy and that the last 4 guys shes dated were jerks. Hmm it should say somethign to you that women don't like nice guys.
They dont want what they say they want. They want someone who creates ATTRACTION.
sorry dudes but you've all got a lot of reading to do.
google up "Double Your dating"
David Deangelo is the man.
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Yeah man it isn't you it is just that MOST girls are fucked up. Noticed I said most. I believe that there are a few out there aren't but they aren't the kind of girl that you look for. I keep getting myself into these fucked up relationships myself where the bitches are just total bitches and they are fucked up in the head man. They argue about stupid shit that doesn't matter, and just make things up out of the blue.
Like stated above all they want to do is change guys. Every girlfriend I get tries to change me and shit and I fucking hate it. why don't they just go out with a guy that is what they "like" instead of dating me and trying to change who I am.
I found a way to fix the problem. This is all a phase that women go through. Rumor has it that they start to change once they hit about 30. Remember when you're a little kid and everyone is always saying girls are more mature. Well now it is backwards. The teenagers and 20 year olds aren't mature enough to actually handle the responibility of a good relationship. So I bet your waiting for the fix eh. Well here it is. Don't date girls until you're older. All that these young ones are good for are fucking.
Each time I break up with a girl I'll tell myself hey don't date nobody else. Then there I'll be 6 months later with another bitch by my side. I don't get it at all. I'm a nice guy too but I think I want to change my ways. I am tired of being pushed around by women.
To any women that read this don't take this against you. I said MOST up above so it may not include you. And seeing that you are on the shroomery it probably isn't you, because most girls I know don't go on message boards and shit. A shroomery chick would probably be the perfect way to go.
Well I've spilt my guts on that subject.
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: PinballWizard]
#5577497 - 05/01/06 02:36 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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PinballWizard said: You can get all deep and philosophical about it, but basically chicks just dig assholes.
yea pretty much. if you are too nice and they feel they can control you they get bored and lose their atraction for you. but by not always being their little slave and running to them at the drop of a dime, they dont get that feeling that you are their bitch, rather, you are their man.
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Moxemerald]
#5577498 - 05/01/06 02:36 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't want a girl that wants an asshole though. I want a girl that wants what I have to give. I'm not an asshole and if that is the level of their standards they can find someone else. I'm looking for a relationship, I'm looking for a commitment, and I'm looking for someone to care for, and to care for me. Sounds strange from someone who's 20, but the single thing isn't for me. I like to stay with people I connect with, and try to let it turn into something lasting. It's that sudden-out of nowhere-right after you told me how you want a life with me kind of shit that gets to me. I understand there are girls you date to just date, have fun with, fuck around, whatever. Then there are those really rare girls that you don't find every day that you feel like you've known your whole life and want to know your whole life. I don't understand why those kind of girls back out so fast.
I do enjoy new faces but sometimes there's a face I want to keep, you know what I mean?
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Newbie]
#5577506 - 05/01/06 02:39 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm just going to keep my mouth shut in this thread.
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Newbie]
#5577522 - 05/01/06 02:45 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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check out David DeAngelo. hes got some good stuff about women. much of it is about picking up women, but he also goes into how to keep a women. he explains alot of the psychological aspects that are in every woman. its not that she wants an asshole, but there are certain things all girls do want and you being overly nice is not one of them.
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Newbie]
#5577523 - 05/01/06 02:45 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm not an asshole and if that is the level of their standards they can find someone else.
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#5577532 - 05/01/06 02:48 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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is anyone reading my posts?!?!
lol, its not about being ana asshole!! its about being inconsiderate and not giving her what she realyl wants! she wants a man not a bitch! if you suck up too much you are not giving her what she wants rather giving her what you want. making you inconsiderate and selfish. if you really care for your women, read that DeAngelo stuff and understand more what they actually want and not jsut what you want.
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: eligal]
#5577550 - 05/01/06 02:56 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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ummm...who are you living for in the long run? You or somebody else?
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McKennaDMT said: ummm...who are you living for in the long run? You or somebody else?
how about conpromise.
and if all your women leave you because youre selfish, in the long run you will be old and die alone 
plus i think if you really like/love someone that tiny effort to be a man for them shouldnt be such a horrible thing... if it is, maybe you should try the gey bar?
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Re: What is it with girls these days? [Re: Newbie]
#5577570 - 05/01/06 03:01 PM (17 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think partaking in a little femdom would solve a lot of your problems
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