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Aninator
Flashtique


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my sisters love story cont'd
#5283628 - 02/09/06 09:25 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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So... yea remember all that stuff about my sister and her annoying relationship. well after knowing the guy for 2 months she tells me now that he wants to marry her and that they will prolly get married by the end of the year.
I should be happy about this right? shouldn't i be like ecstatic that she's happy and in love and getting married?
well for some reason i'm not... I know at this point it's not jealousy. i just don't understand how someone starts dating someone when they say they need time to themselves to figure themselves out, ends up like getting so serious with the person that within a month and only having met him once, expects her family to be totally in awe of him, wants to move in with him and now after 2 months is talking about marrying the guy.
listen i'm all for love at first sight and like things just happening like that. but the fact of the matter is she is simply not ready to share a life with someone. this is a girl who lived and worked in Italy for 3 months as a pastry chef and freaked out the whole time wanting to come home. someone who's spent the majority of her life with a boyfriend and hasn't figured herself out. she doesn't have an identity, a group of friends. she's a pastry chef who collects strawberry shortcake stuff and sits at home and watches TV all the fucking time.
worst of all i feel like she doesn't give a shit about what any of us have to say when. i feel completely pushed out of her life. but worst of all i'm just not happy for her.
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AliceDee
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Re: my sisters love story cont'd [Re: Aninator]
#5283672 - 02/09/06 09:33 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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lol your NOT jealous????
my parents have been married for over 30 years and they were engaged after only 3 months of knowing eachother...
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Aninator
Flashtique


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Re: my sisters love story cont'd [Re: AliceDee]
#5283696 - 02/09/06 09:39 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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LOL No i'm NOT jealous. i don't want to get married. there's no reason for me to be jealous.
and like i said it's not like i don't think it's possible for people to know each other and fall in love in a short amount of time... i'm all for it.. that's great! i know it happens. i know it could happen to me or anyone. but she isn't ready to fucking handle a marriage. everything moved WAY too fast and egagment is one thing. but she wants to skip that whole process. she just wants to be married at the end of the year.
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goobler
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Re: my sisters love story cont'd [Re: Aninator]
#5283741 - 02/09/06 09:50 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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sometime you just KNOW ya KNOW?
well
you dont yet
best of luck to them
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Aninator
Flashtique


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Re: my sisters love story cont'd [Re: goobler]
#5283797 - 02/09/06 10:07 PM (17 years, 11 months ago) |
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yea but it's also hard for me to be happy about it cuase i myself have met the kid twice. i have no strong connection to him at all. and i know he's not marrying me so it doesn't really matter what my relationship is like with him but when my other sister got married i was so incredibly happy about it. not just cause she was getting married and she was happy but becuase that guy is like a brother to me. not to say that this guy can't be... i mean the question in my mind at this point isn't about the guy and whether he's right for her, he seems fine. for me it's more about her. like how can you think you're ready to share your life with someone when you don't have even have yourself figured out at all. i mean AT ALL. shit I'M 10 times more mature and self aware than she is and she's 8 years older than me.
My other concern or worry is that when she gets married i'm never gonna see them. they're gonna run off and totally ignore the rest of the family. i mean she lives at home as it is and when i'm home i never see her. when i'm at school she doesn't call me. i can only imagine what it's gonna be like when she gets married and moves away
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