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blacksabbathrulz
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wtf?
#4531896 - 08/13/05 11:27 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Okay, so here is my story. I currently live with my girlfriend, and I have lived with her for about 7 months. I have a roommate, whom she hates, and thinks is annoying. One night out of nowhere, he calls her at 5 in the morning, and leaves a message that says "I know you love me" addressing her by her name.
She has maybe spent a total of three hours talking to her ever. He then wrote her an email which says the following:
I don't want you to ever do anything for me. I don't want you to consider leaving Zane. I love you. I love you more than I ever thought I could ever love anything. I love more than money, school, work, friends, and family. I love you more than life itself. When I realized that this weekend it almost killed me. I didn't know what could possibly come next. I guess that's why I called you. I realy thought I might die, or kill myself. But, there are a million more things to learn. You've helped me learn so much about life already. I just want to know how all this makes you feel. Even if it makes you feel bad. Please just be honest.
She responded to him telling him to seek psychiatric help, and then he proceeded to email her asking her to describe in intimate detail her sex life with me. He's moving back in soon, and I don't know how to address this situation, especially considering the fact that i viewed him as one of my best friends.
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Screwjack
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Maybe he realizes she finds him annoying and sent her that email as a sarcastic joke?
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blacksabbathrulz
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No, that's definitely not the case. That I am sure of.
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Screwjack
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Confront your buddy if you haven't already done so. If what he emailed is his legitimate feelings for her then get rid of him. Find another place if necessary.
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HuckleBones
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Give up. Let him have her.
Eat a sandwich.
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blacksabbathrulz
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Quote:
SteveSecretia said: Give up. Let him have her.
Eat a sandwich.
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I'll eat a sandwich, but I won't give her up.
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Organic
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Dude is not your friend...leave with your woman.
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crunchytoast
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how do you feel about this situation?
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dr_gonz
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Mushie_Man
Fuck Up
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Re: wtf? [Re: dr_gonz]
#4534462 - 08/14/05 04:16 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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Just talk to him, then go fuck her.
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Organic
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Re: wtf? [Re: dr_gonz]
#4534525 - 08/14/05 04:30 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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No, I don't.
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trendal
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Re: wtf? [Re: dr_gonz]
#4534556 - 08/14/05 04:39 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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drgonz said:
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Organic said: Dude is not your friend...leave with your woman.
got a pic of her?
I think you should read the forum rules again, specifically #1:
This forum is intended for serious discussion only, and off-topic or abusive posts will not be tolerated. When offering advice, please make an effort to be as helpful and supportive as possible. Remember, you're talking to real people with real problems and you need to take them seriously.
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trendal
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I would give this "friend" of yours a call and ask him what the fuck he thinks he's doing! Friends certainly don't say things like that to eachother's girlfriend....I would be seriously concerned that this guy might do something crazy.
Note that he said "I realy thought I might die, or kill myself." That could very well mean he needs some psychiatric help, now!
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dr_gonz
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trendal
J♠
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Re: wtf? [Re: dr_gonz]
#4534842 - 08/14/05 06:03 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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"This forum is intended for serious discussion only, and off-topic or abusive posts will not be tolerated."
I didn't say your post was abusive, however it wasn't serious and doesn't help the guy's situation whatsoever.
People come to this forum for help and support...not to have you ask for a pic of their girlfriend.
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Organic
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Re: wtf? [Re: dr_gonz]
#4535033 - 08/14/05 07:02 PM (18 years, 7 months ago) |
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BTW, the guy didn't answer no, I did. You fucked up quick reply or made no sense mang.
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prefloppro
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Well is their any chance she might of slept with him before. These feelings had to come from somewhere. If not just tell him to fuck off that its your girl. If you have suspicion that maybe your girlfriend is being a little shady on the whole subject, drop both of them and move on.
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RedNucleus
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um, she cheated on you.
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