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 XUL
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 Social Anxiety from HELL 
#4296780 - 06/14/05 08:55 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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 Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: XUL]
#4296840 - 06/14/05 09:07 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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XUL said:
okay, so I am sure I have a very severe case of social anxiety.
I have it too sometimes. It sometimes feels like everybody is scrutinizing me when I am in a super crowded area.
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Well, I was sitting and eating alone, and I make eye contact with this really fuckin hot girl, and this is always when I fuckin freak. First I get locked into their eyes and I feel frozen and my eyes buldge really wide, then I (Automaticly) turn my head, but I have a muscle spasm or something in my neck and I shake like crazy. I tried to play it off, but I fuckin spazed out like a spastic idiot.
Haha...way to look like a freak.  Don't worry...I have "girl-looking mishaps" too.
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How can I fix this, or can I?
Welcome to the world of being a weird dork (Prime Minister: RandalFlagg). I suggest alcohol because it makes you not give a shit about stuff.
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: XUL]
#4296848 - 06/14/05 09:08 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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does this only happen around girls? 
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: Bi0TeK]
#4296856 - 06/14/05 09:10 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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its more severe with girls, but it also happens with doods depending who they are.
I have no problem with teachers or facutly, just students, peers, u know
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: XUL]
#4296867 - 06/14/05 09:16 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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hehe is ok dude, i used to be sorta like that...well w/o spasm but i know wut u talking about. It IS best to not give a shit about them, but u gotta kickstart this...a few shots of vodka or a good spliff should keep you so busy enjoying urself that the last thing u'd actually care is how you seem to other ppl...make sure u dont become an addict tho 
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: XUL]
#4296870 - 06/14/05 09:16 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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its more severe with girls, but it also happens with doods depending who they are.
I have no problem with teachers or facutly, just students, peers, u know
Maybe PA has something in the water that makes people weird (I saw you say that you are from PA and I am from PA as well).
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: XUL]
#4296885 - 06/14/05 09:21 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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in that case, I do suffer from it a bit too.
as randal said, alcohol helps
just out of interest, what drugs do you partake in?
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: Bi0TeK]
#4296900 - 06/14/05 09:24 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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marijuana alot, done lsa before, lookin to try some shrooms some day
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: RandalFlagg]
#4296907 - 06/14/05 09:25 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Maybe PA has something in the water that makes people weird (I saw you say that you are from PA and I am from PA as well).
where u from in pa?
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: XUL]
#4296914 - 06/14/05 09:27 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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marijuana alot
try cutting that stuff out of your life for a while and see if you notice a difference.
I know I did.
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: XUL]
#4296918 - 06/14/05 09:28 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Maybe PA has something in the water that makes people weird (I saw you say that you are from PA and I am from PA as well).
where u from in pa?
Northwest side yo yo nigga.
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: XUL]
#4296921 - 06/14/05 09:29 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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IMO since you asked. Your problem really isn't social anxiety. The problem is you don't love yourself unconditionally exactally the way you are. That is where love lives.  
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: Bi0TeK]
#4296937 - 06/14/05 09:33 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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try cutting that stuff out of your life for a while and see if you notice a difference.
I know I did.
I think I know wat u mean man, Cuz I think I was more confident here for a while in the summer cuz I hadnt been smoking, then I got an eigth of hydro and I been smokin like nuts, and I think it brought this on. I wonder why tho you know?
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: Icelander]
#4296941 - 06/14/05 09:34 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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The problem is you don't love yourself unconditionally exactally the way you are. That is where love lives.
yea, so hard tho.. ahh, Ill work on that
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: RandalFlagg]
#4296954 - 06/14/05 09:37 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Here's my view:
Social anxiety comes from lack of confidence. Lack of confidence arises because you have a poor view or yourself or because other people have a poor view of you and you pick up on that.
The next thing to determine is why whatever is happening is happening. Are you ugly? Are you not fun to be around? Be honest with yourself. There is nothing more pathetic than lying to yourself.
Once you know the truth, you can begin to focus on your strengths. Do you have a good sense of humor? Do you do something well that will get you respect from other people?
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: XUL]
#4296957 - 06/14/05 09:38 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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I think I know wat u mean man, Cuz I think I was more confident here for a while in the summer cuz I hadnt been smoking, then I got an eigth of hydro and I been smokin like nuts, and I think it brought this on. I wonder why tho you know?
Because I've been there.
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: Bi0TeK]
#4296973 - 06/14/05 09:40 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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marijuana alot
try cutting that stuff out of your life for a while and see if you notice a difference.
I know I did.
Marijuana makes me much more confident paradoxically. Whenever I smoke it I'm not afraid to go out and socialize with people I barely know, just striking up a conversation and reading their expressions. Alcohol just dumbs me down, but marijuana is perfect.
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: Bi0TeK]
#4296974 - 06/14/05 09:41 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Because I've been there.
I didnt mean why did you know, I mean like I wonder why weed does that.
sorry
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: Ravus]
#4296985 - 06/14/05 09:43 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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Marijuana makes me much more confident paradoxically. Whenever I smoke it I'm not afraid to go out and socialize with people I barely know, just striking up a conversation and reading their expressions. Alcohol just dumbs me down, but marijuana is perfect.
I wish I was like that.. I am somewhat relaxed when high, but it makes me paranoid like a crazy man. I dont get paranoi all teh time, but usually I get some everytime im high.
I only get high for music
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Re: Social Anxiety from HELL [Re: XUL]
#4297029 - 06/14/05 09:51 PM (18 years, 10 months ago) |
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I didnt mean why did you know, I mean like I wonder why weed does that.
who knows?
theres a program on BBC1 (British Broadcasting Corporation) this sunday thats all about the harmful effects of cannabis (paranoia, schizophrenia , lack of motivation etc)
Weed isn't what it was like in the 60's, its now totaly different
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