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OfflineDreamer987
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Need a Women
    #3551806 - 12/28/04 08:56 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

*Warning Whiney Rant*

I'm really lonely. The last real relationship i had was when i was 13-14. The girl i was in love with cheated on me.  it's taken awhile before i was able to let anyone get close enouph to me for more than a couple of flings, but i'm over that now, and want to find love. Or at least some good times.
  I thought i was gonna get with this girl S, who i'v been hanging out with alot lately. A few weeks ago she let me give her a topless back massage, but today she said that she wasn't interested in going out with me, or even plutonic sex :sad:
I don't know what it is. I'm alittle shy around girls, and always end up becoming friends. I don't like the idea of "spitting game". And don't know how to flirt.Socially i'm just off alittle bit. So when around women i will talk to them, have good conversation, and build a raport. but it never really goes past that. By the time i'm ready to bring the relationship to a differant level, were already "friends".

I mean i'm not an unutractive dude. Mabey alittle big, with an abnormally receding hairline for an 18y.o. but fuck.

nothing a few beers won't make go away... right?


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Re: Need a Women [Re: Dreamer987]
    #3551863 - 12/28/04 09:48 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

You're straight, she will come when the time is right. My wonderful girlfriend popped up seemingly out of nowhere one day when I needed her most. For now, cherish your youth and singleness :smile: When the real one comes, you won't have to spit game, she will seemingly know already :wink:


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Invisibleshroomydan
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Re: Need a Women [Re: Organic]
    #3552099 - 12/28/04 12:22 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

"plutonic sex" ?


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Re: Need a Women [Re: shroomydan]
    #3552137 - 12/28/04 12:33 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

mho: get the idea of Platonic sex out of your head, it only causes illness.

save love making for love.

anyways: it is true, work on yourself and dont focus on a woman (or women) for a while and the right girl will just fall into your lap....

i am still shocked about my most recent romantic endeavor... IT JUST HAPPENED. and i can already tell that it could be it. because it just happened. no one had to "spit game".

and by the way, you are a bear of a guy! some girl will be lucky enough to see the warm fuzzyness of you soon enough, sir. appreciate the now, weather or not you feel alone. when you appreciate the here and now, some girl doing the same thing will walk into your arms.

peace dreamer, peace


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Re: Need a Women [Re: Dreamer987]
    #3553241 - 12/28/04 05:38 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

It can suck to feel lonely but being single has it's ups as well as downs. Be patient and love will find you.
Go out and have all the single fun you can get. Chill with the guys. Flirt with the girls. Have fun.


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Re: Need a Women [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #3553345 - 12/28/04 06:01 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Heh, I can't flirt either. I guess though, if you can't flirt, it can be a good thing because then you'll ending up finding a girl that doesn't like to flirt, at least not with everybody. I'm sure you can see why that would be a good thing.


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Re: Need a Women [Re: Dreamer987]
    #3555964 - 12/29/04 06:10 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Chick from this thread


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Re: Need a Women [Re: Dreamer987]
    #3556031 - 12/29/04 06:55 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

hmmm.....
you need someone to fulfill that special need as a partner eh?
all you can really do is go with the flow. don't try to spit "g.a.m.e," just hint around or something if u like a woman.
buy some al green albums...
;x
or if worst comes to worst
meet someone from the net...like that one guy from napolean dynamite!
see how shit worked out for him?


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OfflineDreamer987
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Re: Need a Women [Re: trick]
    #3556039 - 12/29/04 06:58 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

thanx everbody


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OfflineCaRnAgECaNdYS
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Re: Need a Women [Re: trick]
    #3556213 - 12/29/04 08:06 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

trick said:

;x
or if worst comes to worst
meet someone from the net...like that one guy from napolean dynamite!
see how shit worked out for him?



Sounds like your saying that meeting someone online is a last resort...am I wrong?
I talk to many people online. I've developed relationships with people online(shroomery people in fact) I've never had a bad experince and if anything, I think meeting people online is a great way to learn about somebody. I have not an any bad experiences when meeting internet people in RL. I wait until I feel comfortable enough ,then I agree to meet with them.
dreamer, just don't be in a rush to meet someone. You are still young and you have ALOT of time to look forward to.


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Re: Need a Women [Re: CaRnAgECaNdY]
    #3556329 - 12/29/04 08:33 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Quote:

Desiree said:
Quote:

trick said:

;x
or if worst comes to worst
meet someone from the net...like that one guy from napolean dynamite!
see how shit worked out for him?



I think meeting people online is a great way to learn about somebody. 




I agree.  It's the modern age, and more people are using computers then ever.  It's a central nexus of communican, and a great way to develop friendships with people.  Long past is the day where people are mocked for forming serious relationships online.  I know two people who have met the love of their lives on the net.  One of them moved from Alaska to Canada for her now-husband, the other moved from New Hampshire to Texas to be with his long term girlfriend.  It's just that age.  Long live the internet.  :stoned:


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Re: Need a Women [Re: MOTH]
    #3556698 - 12/29/04 11:30 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

IMO you should be straight forward, dont think about spitting game and dont think about rejection. If you see a chik you like then ask her out, be straight up with her and be polite just see if she wants to catch a movie, if she says no then so what? you can ask another chik. Dont let it get you down. This is what i did when i met my fiance in high school, and she just said she would merry me when i asked her on christmas. Find her man shes out there, you just gotta ask to hang out. Dont seem overly interested just let it roll off your back. If she says yes give her your number and have her call you. Play hard to get girls go crazy over that IME.


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Re: Need a Women [Re: Dreamer987]
    #3557627 - 12/29/04 04:26 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

Stop trying to make an image for yourself. That might help.


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Re: Need a Women [Re: TheHateCamel]
    #3557634 - 12/29/04 04:28 PM (11 years, 11 months ago)

"Stop trying to make an image for yourself. That might help."

how do you mean?


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Re: Need a Women [Re: Dreamer987]
    #3560277 - 12/30/04 04:26 AM (11 years, 11 months ago)

you sound like me 5 years ago

yeah.. better luck to you than what I had

women are crazy and often more than a bit stupid. it's just how things go unfortunately.


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Re: Need a Women [Re: Mushmonkey]
    #3568719 - 01/01/05 07:57 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

[moderator edit by concrete: that was not even the least helpful. do *not* flame another user in this forum again.]


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Re: Need a Women [Re: trick]
    #3591109 - 01/06/05 11:47 PM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Quote:

trick said:
hmmm.....
you need someone to fulfill that special need as a partner eh?
all you can really do is go with the flow. don't try to spit "g.a.m.e," just hint around or something if u like a woman.
buy some al green albums...
;x
or if worst comes to worst
meet someone from the net...like that one guy from napolean dynamite!
see how shit worked out for him?




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Re: Need a Women [Re: Divided_Sky]
    #3591548 - 01/07/05 01:05 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Ah, girls are scary.

Over the holidays I finally ended up with my best friend of about 4 years now... We're inseperable anyways, and everyone says we're perfect for one another. Our families love each other, and we love each other... We we're just too stubborn to make it happen.

Id been alone for 3 years i guess - same story - Young lover ripped out my heart and fed it to sharks - Fucked me up, my emotional state. Ive felt completley unhuman - Sending out tons of love to my trippers, always giving hugs.. But scared to have a girl sit next to me. All girlfriends, and they love me... but they're friends, and id always fall in love and watch them fall in love with someone else... and then it happened - over the holidays - and im so happy ... and so is she. So i need to move back home to be with her till she's done her school.. and i feel human again. just easier to talk to, sociable, Comfortable..

I dunno... i guess the advice is. DONT SETTLE FOR LESS.

I felt pressured by the people around me.. especially my roommates - They both have loving girlfriends who they are with every second pretty much.. and i was alone.. in the big huge city new to me... no one to enjoy it with, no one to hug or comfort... and i just felt alone.. and everyone didnt seem "right for me"... but i was getting to the point where i wanted to just ask anyone, just so i could have someone. But i didnt, and now i have the right one. Definately the love of my life.

Like shit - i was abstinent for a damn long time through horny pubescense... im glad. :smile:

Goodluck, and noble intent.


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Re: Need a Women [Re: headset]
    #3592671 - 01/07/05 08:12 AM (11 years, 10 months ago)

Where do you hang out with girls? It all depends on what "type" of girl you are looking for. If you aren't finding your ideal female (or any female) then you might want to consider changing your "hang out" settings. Try meeting people in other environments.


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