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Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends
#7789272 - 12/22/07 02:39 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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So I went into my Ex's school to get my hair cut (shes in cosmetology school)
I was told by quite a few people that she hooked up with some dood who goes there about 2 weeks before she broke up with me.
So she calls me when she gets off work pissed that I went into her school without her, and asks me about the girl who did my hair, and all. She got quite pissed when I told her that she's been texting me, and asked me to hang out...and threatened to beat her up.
So I then asked her whether or not these things said were true, and she hesitated and said yes, then broke down crying. I continued to bitch at her a little, and make her feel like shit. She appologized, and said she doesn't talk to him anymore...like somehow fucking him while we were together was OK, but talking to him after we broke up isn't.
I thought I knew her, and right now I'm sure she is wrecked. The ball is in my park now, and she knows it. She is a selfish bitch, and wants to fuck other guys, but keep me close incase she doesn't like this...just like this asshole.
Now it seems I know her secrets, and her friends wanna fuck me, and her friends want nothing to do with her.
Three girls from her work gave me their # asking to hang out sometime, and I'm not sure if I should. Part of me wants to come out of this leaving her much more hurt than she's hurt me, but I'm not usually an asshole.
Should I give her friends the best night they ever had, possibly with two of them together, and hope they talk about it at school next week...cause girls love to show off that they can steal your man.
Or should I play it cool and be the nice one. Cause I'm tired of being nice.
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7789286 - 12/22/07 02:42 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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She told me she was drunk and it didn't mean anything. Is that really a good excuse?
"I'm sorry, but its not my fault because I refuse to take responsibility for my own actions"
I just hope she doesn't really try to fight this other girl cause she will get her ass handed to her. And she is depressed, I hope suicide is not an issue like it used to be...though right now thats her problem, not mine.
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7789353 - 12/22/07 02:58 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Eh, I wouldn't of given that girl a single split second of my time after you broke up. Ignore her for the rest of your life.
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7789442 - 12/22/07 03:25 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Like I told ya get drunk and fuck a bunch of hoodrats that should do the trick Oh and fuck her friends take pictures and post it in otd kthxbye
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7789443 - 12/22/07 03:25 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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and about whats her names friends.. why do you even fucking ask that question? you act like you are still fucking married to this other girl. wtf does it matter? you can date whoever the hell you want. i would personally break off from that whole circle, but that is your choice... whatever you do lol i would suggest never giving whats her name a single second of you time ever again.
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: Dobie]
#7789450 - 12/22/07 03:27 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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dobie said: Oh and fuck her friends take pictures and post it in otd kthxbye
hehe, hell yeah, dobies keepin it real
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: GGreatOne234]
#7789942 - 12/22/07 05:33 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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"though right now thats her problem, not mine. "
I dont think she brought something like suicide on herself. I dont think anyone would, if they could look to the future and predict that it would.
What does acting nice to you mean, cuz i know we prolly wouldnt agree on what a nice thing to do is, so i gotta make sure what you mean, because we might not see nice the same way, and whatever i suggest will be misleading.
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7789989 - 12/22/07 05:44 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Anonymous said: So I went into my Ex's school to get my hair cut (shes in cosmetology school)
I was told by quite a few people that she hooked up with some dood who goes there about 2 weeks before she broke up with me.
So she calls me when she gets off work pissed that I went into her school without her, and asks me about the girl who did my hair, and all. She got quite pissed when I told her that she's been texting me, and asked me to hang out...and threatened to beat her up.
So I then asked her whether or not these things said were true, and she hesitated and said yes, then broke down crying. I continued to bitch at her a little, and make her feel like shit. She appologized, and said she doesn't talk to him anymore...like somehow fucking him while we were together was OK, but talking to him after we broke up isn't.
I thought I knew her, and right now I'm sure she is wrecked. The ball is in my park now, and she knows it. She is a selfish bitch, and wants to fuck other guys, but keep me close incase she doesn't like this...just like this asshole.
Now it seems I know her secrets, and her friends wanna fuck me, and her friends want nothing to do with her.
Three girls from her work gave me their # asking to hang out sometime, and I'm not sure if I should. Part of me wants to come out of this leaving her much more hurt than she's hurt me, but I'm not usually an asshole.
Should I give her friends the best night they ever had, possibly with two of them together, and hope they talk about it at school next week...cause girls love to show off that they can steal your man.
Or should I play it cool and be the nice one. Cause I'm tired of being nice.
DO IT. Fuck these girl's brains out. Do it so that you can:
A. Get off.
B. Get back at the bitch.
You won't be sorry. Trust me.
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7790025 - 12/22/07 05:52 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: GGreatOne234]
#7792258 - 12/23/07 11:59 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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GGreatOne234 said: Eh, I wouldn't of given that girl a single split second of my time after you broke up. Ignore her for the rest of your life.
Exactly.
Shouldn't even have answered her call.
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7792960 - 12/23/07 03:46 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Shes a cheater...
You shouldn't go out of your way to hurt her but you shouldn't feel bad for fucking her "friends" (more like peers who don't like her) after yall broke up when you went to what I assume is your normal place to get your hair cut.
...and she wouldn't have gotten drunk around a guy in a position to be fucked unless she wanted it.
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Edited by SDP (12/23/07 04:11 PM)
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: SDP]
#7792989 - 12/23/07 03:56 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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you shouldnt really call people whores... there is no way of really measuring such a thing
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: GGreatOne234]
#7793045 - 12/23/07 04:12 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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GGreatOne234 said: you shouldnt really call people whores... there is no way of really measuring such a thing
Yea, your right...
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: SDP]
#7793087 - 12/23/07 04:23 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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well, men tend to accept being called that word as a compliment
while, females, for the most part, do not like it
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: GGreatOne234]
#7793218 - 12/23/07 05:04 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Thats true.
I think it has to do with being taught that women are the sole givers when it comes to sex and men are the recievers.
Really whore or player, is a variation on the good and bad duality that exists when we see that it does. Whore being bad, and player being good, exists logically when you believe that men recieve sex and women give it because recieving is believed to be better than recieving, and so when men recieve alot they are GOOD or better than when you are a women, who gives alot.
What our anscestors did not have the potential to see, was that in giving, you recieve the only thing that allows you to give anything to anyone...reception. If you didnt get reception, from someone who wanted to give you a message, they would not be able to give you it, even if they try to force it on you. And so, when you recieve you also give, in that you give the reception that makes for giving to become an experience.
The outcome of believing this would be to see that men and women are equal, all people are equal - from the charitable to the selfish.
PEace is easy.
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Re: Need advise on ex-girlfriend and fucking her friends [Re: JoseLibrado]
#7794072 - 12/23/07 10:31 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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"It is better to give than receive".......
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