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Dark5tar
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Shyness.......
#3084613 - 09/02/04 08:53 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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ok, thnx for advice!
Edited by Dark5tar (09/02/04 09:57 PM)
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Barbi
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Re: Shyness....... [Re: Dark5tar]
#3084622 - 09/02/04 08:57 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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Be yourself. confidence is key.
Chicks fall head over heels for guys who can just act like who they are, and not put on a front.
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Barbi
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Re: Shyness....... [Re: Dark5tar]
#3084624 - 09/02/04 08:57 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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Oh, and go talk to her
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kaiowas
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Re: Shyness....... [Re: Dark5tar]
#3084917 - 09/02/04 09:57 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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yeah dude, I used to be the same way...
mndfreeze gave the best advice.
just be yourself.
-------------------- Annnnnnd I had a light saber and my friend was there and I said "you look like an indian" and he said "you look like satan" and he found a stick and a rock and he named the rock ooga booga and he named the stick Stick and we both thought that was pretty funny. We got eaten alive by mosquitos but didn't notice til the next day. I stepped on some glass while wading in the swamp and cut my foot open, didn't bother me til the next day either....yeah it was a good time, ended the night by buying some liquor for minors and drinking nips and going to he diner and eating chicken fingers, and then I went home and went to bed.
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Barbi
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Re: Shyness....... [Re: Dark5tar]
#3085220 - 09/02/04 10:57 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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Also, you are definately not alone. I think everyone goes through it at some point, sometimes multiple times. Its all about your own mental health state.
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Dark5tar
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Re: Shyness....... [Re: Barbi]
#3088609 - 09/03/04 06:07 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well today it went much better and I talked to her a bit. At least she still knows im alive.
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Barbi
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Re: Shyness....... [Re: Dark5tar]
#3088841 - 09/03/04 06:52 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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Keep talking to her.
I'm off for a massive in california. Have a good weekend!
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Re: Shyness....... [Re: Barbi]
#3089710 - 09/03/04 11:11 PM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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For the love of crumbcake, don't be shy!! You'll miss out on so much, man. Trust me. I spent about 14 years of my life living in a god damn shell, now that I've broken free things have been a million times better.
Good luck with things!
-------------------- When the stress burns my brain it's like acid raindrops maryjane is the only thing that makes the pain stop
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Re: Shyness....... [Re: Dark5tar]
#3090684 - 09/04/04 09:31 AM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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shyness is hard to over come, be it because of bad experiences in the past's or mentally your just lke that. Confidence is the key, if you can have this packed down girls will be all over you. Peace MBA
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Dark5tar
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Edit: Thnx for everyones help, I read this thread everyday I can and try to apply what you guys say.And im sorry if this just turns into my rant thread, just trying to clear my head. Thnx again for the help! This is the weirdest "relationship" I think I have ever been in. She is probobly the only girl I have met that I would consider "beautiful" instead of just "hot". Just seeing her face makes my dad that much better. I know too many guys get too infatuated(sp?) with women, and I just dont want to do that. So Im allowing myself to control my thoughts. I have quit smoking cigs, weed, and drinking alcohol. Only been a few days but I think im gonna keep it this way. I just dont want this to all goto my head and turn into a person that need other people for happiness. I consider myself a strong person( a divorce does that to children), but am monitoring myself very closely. Wow, never thought I would have a life change at this age! Edit: Just noticed the amount of "I"s in this thread. Srry if its hard to read.
Edited by Dark5tar (09/05/04 06:48 AM)
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Re: Shyness....... [Re: Dark5tar]
#3101964 - 09/07/04 02:43 AM (19 years, 6 months ago) |
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"Just seeing her face makes my dad that much better."
hahaha. but seriously, good luck getting over your shyness and with your relationship. hopefully someday i'll overcome mine as well.
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