This has been a pretty thoughtful and somewhat insightful thread. You guys are all very bright.I'm a lot older than most of you guys but I think I can contribute to this thread.
I'm positive that I have ADD and had ADHD earlier in my life (ring finger much longer than index, BTW)....I also have 2 sons that were/are definitely ADHD. My deal was that I could not concentrate on one thing during early school years (this was before ADD or ADHD were even invented) The solution then was to hold me back a year which def. helped but it was still difficult to grasp some of the concepts in Algebra or Chemistry...I had to read things twice or three times to retain the info.
I made it through high school even though I was smoking weed every morning, noon and night from 9th grade on.Mostly with the help of a friend or two. I was also drinking a lot at an early age which turned into full blown alcoholism later in life. I got married early because of a pregnant gf and had a child just after HS graduation. Lol, he was a wound up kid from the beginning...fast talking and always moving. When he got into 1st or second grade the teachers kept calling us in because of his class clown behavior and constant acting out , although his grades were good. They called him ADHD right from the get go and recommended Ritalin. We were also in the middle of a divorce at this time, so that probably played into his behavior.
Ritalin (methylphenidate) was looked at as this miracle drug for teachers as it transformed these misbehaving, disruptive kids into model students. I believe that school nurses could actually prescribe it back then...around 1983-1984. I was in a 2 yr. business course night school at Johns Hopkins at the time and I had a Technical writing paper to write so I chose Ritalin as the subject, to see exactly what was behind this magical concoction. I'm going by memory because I can't find my paper but I do remember most of the facts that were burned into my memory by sheer shock.
I found that The terms ADD and ADHD were actually coined by a pharmaceutical company called CIBA in the early seventies. Ritalin was tested in inner city Baltimore schools and was shown to be beneficial to the behavior of unruly kids...The study was done by a guy named John Conner that worked at Johns Hopkins (who conducted the study) if you want to look it up. They also did some other testing like EEG's and stuff....they actualy found that a Child's EEG graph on Ritalin was almost identical to a man's EEG under the influence of cocaine. Their brains were working almost the same. Ciba pushed this drug to all physicians, pediatricians and, of course, school nurses and aides.They couldn't explain exactly why this stimulant seemed to settle down ADHD kids but would stimulate adults....so they coined the term "paradoxical effect". to describe it.They also said that kids would only need to take it until puberty (which turned out to be false) They used promotions like cruises or other vacations for those that wrote the most prescriptions. It was crazy and criminal in my mind (partly because I had done a lot of cocaine by that time and there was no way I wanted my kid to feel that way all the time) so I took a stance against it and went all the way up to the child psychologist that almost insisted my son take it, also, my ex wife was for it...I presented these facts and said no way is that kid gonna take that and eventually won the battle.
He, like me had to study harder and try to learn to listen by cutting out distractions ....doing things like closing your eyes while listening to someone so you wouldn't be looking at that person and noticing that their face was red or that their teeth were yellow....things like that. Anyway, he made it all the way through HS and trade school without the use of stims....he has recently tried some of the new ones like adderall and some other but said they worked but were not worth the side effects.
My second son was extremely disruptive in school and his mother, who had primary custody, decided to put him on it....he went through 2nd grade through graduation while taking it and it did him well. He excelled in math and science/ computer stuff...was obsessed with video games...and was mostly a loner. He stopped taking it on his own after he graduated and has adapted pretty well...said he will never go back on it.
Personally, I'm still on the fence about stims and ADD but, realize that it does work and do what it says it does for those that are affected by this disorder. I still have trouble following conversations sometimes, especially when there are a lot of distractions but have mostly taught myself to block that stuff out and put my attention on the speaker. I haven't had a mind altering substance in me for almost 20 yrs now (other than mushrooms, LSD and DMT) and only do them very occasionally. I like the fact that I sleep when I am tired and I wake when I've slept enough...there is no imbalance and trading of substances in me to override the other.Called"living better by chemistry" Lol, don't get me wrong,It is really tough sometimes, I run a business where we have distribution rights all through the US and Canada and am the primary sales guy...I just did a sales call/teaching seminar in Atlanta to 12 managers of companies across the US for 3 hrs. It was crazy at times when I get questions from different people at the same time...but, I held it together.
When I got sober from drugs and alcohol in 1999, I told myself that I never wanted to be dependent on any mood or mind altering substance ever again. Turns out, I am dependent on some RA drugs but that is it. I'm not sure why I wrote this block of diatribe...I guess, your conversation just brought up some memories....whatever you decide about these meds, just think through your decisions.
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Albert Einstein
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