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Re: Observable Fuck-up. [Re: PDU]
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PDU said:
Im out of luck with the girl because other friends in the circle have more going for them than me, and have her interest alot more.


You never know though. You'd be surprised how many times people have thought others had a better chance, and they liked someone else more, and it turns out that she liked him more.
Never mind what they can offer her; that might not be what she's looking for in a b/f. One of my friends could get the attention of ANY girl, and basically anybody. But most of the girls aren't attracted to him, or want him - he's just good at getting people's attention.
Unless you know for sure that she's into some other guy, then you should talk to her.

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Re: Observable Fuck-up. [Re: PDU]
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Like others have said, you sound just like me but years ago.
I am not much different now though!
I fucking love the fact that I am antisocial. Fuck all those idiots out there. In school I was friendly and maybe even slightly "popular." But actually really had but a few friends. By my choice completely. Just felt kinda wierd a lot of the time. I just never really enjoyed what the most of my peers did at the time. Even today that is still true. I felt awkward, like interacting with normal life while tripping type awkward almost. Growing up really wasnt easy for me.
The more people I have met the more I hate Humans as a whole. In my job I have hired about 400 people and fired about 300 over 5 or so years. Small business, worked close with all. You would be shocked at the stories I could tell.
Here at this board I've mostly seen two types:

usually young, idiots, and

a smaller group of actually quite smart interesting "cool" people, and hey youve always been one of them! Hopefully that didnt make me sound like a wuss.
But seriously just press on. Know in your head that you are superior to most all those around you and smile. Dont go on meds unless you really need them and if you do you will know. Unless you can fake a good narcoleptic! 8p
This is what I would do, slow down drinking. Then eventually cut it out completely. I know I know, but this is my story and I swear it was the best thing I ever did. I say completely because if you cut down more and more at some point you wont really want to drink. I believe some people are neurochemically better off with no alcohol. I am.
BUT I am not finished this is a multipart thing. Smoking weed every day. Modest amounts, not a crazy amount. Best med out there. It takes a while to get used to it. Really. After about a year or two your body starts to become used to it and you develop a state that is like the best of both worlds. You wont get such a "fun" high anymore but there are other things for that. It gives the relaxation needed for social behavior while letting you be mentally sharp. Psychologically, emotionally, etc I am so much more in control and comfortable.
E in moderation. Good e is really uncomparable. But it is a trick to your psyche. Substances that drastically change your mental state usually are perceived by the subconscious as unnatural. Shrooms for example, are easily unnatural due to quite unnatural thoughts and sensory inputs. E is more like your normal feelings and emotions times 100. A level your body could never normally achieve. But it doesnt know this and develops a new "top end" to compare to subconsciously when youre sober.
Anyway, just my thoughts. I give no advice.

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Re: Observable Fuck-up. [Re: longshot]
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Hmm, i was popular for certain stage's of school, and certainly never lacked friends. I still say, ive been in both world's...loser, and popular, and loser is where its at. No BS, just straight up, i know who my friend's are.

The last week maybe ive been *feeling* better about this whole situation. Talking has been easier, and having a positive outlook is easier. The hippie flip the other night really offered me up all the confidence in the world, and it allowed me to see, and remember WHAT I NEED TO BE. I dont need to be popular or fake...but somewhat social, motivated, and successful in the typical sense. I need to have a life.

I hung out all day today and have reaquainted with some people, and dont feel that horrible *awkwardness* like i was. Now, rather than being a quiet kid with a frown who looks like he hate's himself, im smiley, easy going...and laughing at myself. I like to treat myself like a joke, just being immature, i attract attention to myself which i am completely oblivious to, but having a good time, NOT BEING UPTIGHT, WORRIED, or ANXIOUS.

Ive got another day planned tommorow, and it seem's...like ive got a fair bit on the go in the next while.

"Know in your head that you are superior to most all those around you and smile."

While i was...feeling superior on a bit of an ego trip in the past, i was wrong. I am no better than anyone else. I have clearer and more traditionally *right* perspective, its just that, my perspective. I kinda worried myself feeling superior for awhile...it just make's me more distant because i dont want to be around the IDIOTS that dont *realize*.

Alcohol...i dont really drink now.
E and alcohol will help me at parties.

I came down really hard on myself while i was hippie flipping *intentionallY* I just did some internal programming, being harsh on my past couple years...which i look on with regret. I was with my more conservative, mature buddies and i just went off *fuck, what the fuck, i dress to scare, im miserable and never smile, why the hell would i do that?" "I dropped out of school and wasted a tremendous oppurtunity i can never get back, ive been a bitter asshole to everyone and wouldnt open my fucking eye's. FUCK ME." etc etc....Psychologically, im more prepared everyday to move onto a productive life, hitting *18* was a big marker for that.


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GO OUTSIDE.

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Re: Observable Fuck-up. [Re: PDU]
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Just breath man

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