Anonymous #1 said:
Anonymous #3 said: This girl is a hard core drug addict, who lets herself get physically and mentally abused to life threatening levels, this women is not relationship material, she is a walking form of misery.
What type of future do you see with a woman like this? Can you even trust a drug addicted person?
Look what it's already brought to you so far, you want to inflict physical violence against another person who does not even know you, is that rational? Do you want to get arrested for a assault over this junkie?
I hate to break the news, but your girl is a junkie which makes her a liar, she is trying to gain your sympathy with lies, and you are falling for it bigtime. Wake up man, this girl has a ruined life and now she is trying to pull you down with her, get out now.
Sadly I agree with this. She hasn't done any opiates since july. It's definitely hard for me to remain trusting to a former junkie. I can't quite have a shitty enough heart to just write someone off over their past though. I have been SEVERELY addicted to benzos, alcohol, cocaine, and everything else imaginable in the last 10 years....I deserve a princess? A female junkie deserves to die? I can't see the logic there.
If I was hope to get a girlfriend based on my past, my sexual history, and my way with the ladies in the past.....I'd also be left for dead. Because someone had a bad past they are now dealing with, they should be discarded as a good person?
Half of this site is a junkie, drug slave, moron. They should all be disregarded and left for dead? I forgot we are all living in nazi germany era, and the weak shall be slaughtered 
I do agree given the extreme thinking on my part wrecking this dude is a bad idea. So instead of saying " leave that ho" maybe some positive ideas on how to help this situation out, and help eachother get through this. I am definitely not going to be dating a doctor anytime soon......
Let the girl work on herself, clean since July? A good start if true, but can you trust what she is telling you.
People definitely deserve second chances after they work very hard on improving themselves (which takes years in many cases), but she has not proven very much is my guess, still blaming a ex-boyfriend for her problems is not taking responsibility.
We all have some skeletons in our closet, but it's all about today and the future. Most people only accept what they think they deserve, if you think a junkie is the best you deserve, then you will settle for life with a junkie.
My advice, be a friend to this girl at most, let her work on putting her life together, if she does over time, anything is possible. It sounds like she is a top notch manipulator, and still refuses to take responsibility for her actions, blaming other people is not the path to personal progress, be careful.
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