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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704170 - 07/10/03 11:25 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)

woah, you don't sound very sure of yourself for what can easily be a 20 year commitment. Thats as long as you've been alive!


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704195 - 07/10/03 11:34 PM (13 years, 4 months ago)



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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704518 - 07/11/03 01:52 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Sadly, i think it would be more responsible to do whats best for the child, and that would be arranged adoption.

Do you have a confirmed career that you will be moving up in and be able to afford not only the financial burden this child will put on you, but the emotional burden in your extra time?

With some adoptions you can still be active in the childs life...

How long have you two been together? are you 100% sure you want to obligate your life to having a family with this girl for at least the next 20 years. If not...if your not willing to stick through thick and thin...money trouble, infidelity, change, burden, etc and act cheerful through it all. You wont be doing whats best for your child.

Good luck with your decisions.


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704644 - 07/11/03 02:36 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

i had kids at 18, twins... its hard, but life is hard...just remember, HALO and Xbox is all you have after a hard day....it helps.


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704662 - 07/11/03 02:40 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Ok.

It does suck that you have been put in this situation so early.

But! It's not the end, and you know that already  :wink:

Honestly, if you think you are ready for parenthood...then I say go for it. But, please, SERIOUSLY think about it first, although I know you probably have and are still  :smirk:

I think it's VERY good that you feel responsible enough to take this head on! Actually it's very refreshing, in a way, to see that kind of responsibility in these times. Most people WILL just get an abortion, or give the child up for adoption. Both are OK solutions (adoption is my preference)...but actually taking responsibility for your mistakes is much better in my opinion!

Please be sure that you can handle this burden, as it might be, before you take it on.

But I do applaud you in taking responsibility! This is something to be commended!

All my luck and love goes out to you and your future life!


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704752 - 07/11/03 03:09 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Lol!

If we're ever in a bar together, at least one of your drinks is on me  :smile:


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704774 - 07/11/03 03:20 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

you forget, tendal live in canoodia ... you're legal there. ^_~


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704801 - 07/11/03 03:30 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

/turns pockets inside out. a quarter, a lighter and tiny bits of weed fall to the floor.

obviously not me. =\


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704819 - 07/11/03 03:37 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

Wow, that is certainly intense.

Its amazing to think if humans lived in a hunter/gatherer society, all we would have time to do is to survive, by hunting and finding food, and to raise our children.

Being 20 in a society like that, you would be well off to having your kids, raising them, and teaching them how to survive and to do daily tasks.

Our society, or modern society is based around money. We need to have a good job to support our kids. We have all these other influences bouncing off our heads, making it so damn hard.

I really wish you luck. I would imagine you will want to quit your hobby as well. :frown:

If you are really ready, you can do it. There are millions of people who have kids at 20 or under per year. Does your girlfriend get child support or anything from the father, or will you have to pay for that too?


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704830 - 07/11/03 03:41 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

DON'T DATE SINGLE MOTHERS, PEOPLE!

they're single and mothers for a reason... that may sound cruel but its cruel to trap men as well, or at least their wallets (18 years of 'child support' if you don't want to be involved

"IMO."


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1704842 - 07/11/03 03:47 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

by the way, also in my opinion, I think 20 is WAY TOO YOUNG to be having kids in this society....


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: Strumpling]
    #1704848 - 07/11/03 03:49 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

dude ... 50 is too young to have kids. everyone should just stop having snotty little brats that run around fucking everything up.


oh wait, my opinion doesn't matter. carry on.


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Re: Well I'm a daddy... [Re: LiL_KuSsH]
    #1705117 - 07/11/03 06:21 AM (13 years, 4 months ago)

The fun part comes when your current child is 4 or 5 and can take care of the smaller kid, IME... thats about all there is to look forward to:(


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