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Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend
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Alright intelligent folk, and dumb asses, I have a dilemma, and I was wondering what some people thought. I wont even say if you are going to be a jackass don't post, because we all know you retards will anyway.

But for anyone that gives a shit, I have gotten into a "relationship" with a girl whom I've know for years, and always had a thing for, and her me, but never taken it serious because of distance. Well we started talking everyday and decided we are really good together, if we were closer. But we end up pretty much falling in love, and honestly I can say, this does really feel right. I'm trying not to give you a autobiography here but basically I can say I feel as close to being in love that I felt in years.

Ok so.... before we started dating I met this fine ass native american girl, and fast forward to now and despite my distancing, I find it hard to resist her flirting, and advances. So I made a date to go to her house and drink with her, and well, I have no doubt what will happen then.

So, what would you sensible men do in this situation? Girl you basically are in love with lives 16 hours away, and girl you find sexy as hell trying to get you drunk and have her way with you. And I'm not a cheater, never have once in my life. And I don't want to break up with said girl, I just want to bang a foxy native american.

Do it? Be faithful? Say fuck it, she lives hella far away? Have integrity, stick to your values, and turn down free beer and pussy?

Your views?

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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no big deal.  I did it in a previous long distance thing.  sex is sex.  relationships are different.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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You're retarded, why be in a relationship if you're just going to get with other girls? Defeats the purpose.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #3]
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I say do it. Can't hurt.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #3]
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smash it! why wouldnt u? cas society says its bad? be a man and do what your desire tells u :wink:

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #2 said:
no big deal.  I did it in a previous long distance thing.  sex is sex.  relationships are different.


I was kinda looking at it that way, but I don't really know how guilty I would feel honestly.

Anonymous #3 said:
You're retarded, why be in a relationship if you're just going to get with other girls? Defeats the purpose.


I agree, but like # 2 said sex is sex, I dont want to have a relationship with the other girl , and I don't think she wants one ether. I mean, I want to have a long term thing with the one out of state, but I also feel like since shes far away, I should take the opportunity to get with a girl before i settle down, kinda like a bachelor party with out the party. I mean, have you ever been with a 100% native american girl? unless you live in oklahoma like I do ATM, it's hard.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #3]
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its a LONG DISTANCE relationship, which kind of defeats the purpose of a fucking a girl to begin with, so why not make some amendments where people can still fuck and not just deal with boring phone sex or whatever?  why deprive yoruself from flesh just because youre in it with one person?  I've had one or two long relationships at a distance where I saw them a few times a year but still got laid outside of it.  sexless relationships, long distance or not, arent healthy at all.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Anonymous #2 said:
its a LONG DISTANCE relationship, which kind of defeats the purpose of a fucking a girl to begin with, so why not make some amendments where people can still fuck and not just deal with boring phone sex or whatever?  why deprive yourself from flesh just because you're in it with one person?  I've had one or two long relationships at a distance where I saw them a few times a year but still got laid outside of it.  sexless relationships, long distance or not, arent healthy at all.


To be honest man, I do most of it because of her wishes. You should know how women are. If I mentioned an open relationship she would probably break down in tears. I have no doubt in my mind she flirts around and shit, but I doubt she takes it further then that. And if she did, I would hope she didn't ever mention it, ya know what I mean? I could go on, but basically I wouldn't want another guys dick in her, and I don't want to be a hypocrite.

Thats the dilemma, I don't want to do something I would be pissed about if she did it to me.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Why the fuck do you even try having a long distance relationship anyways?

sounds like you are a loser who cant get a girl that actually lives by you and now that that one random chance happened where a girl wants your cock you thinking about fucking it up for some chick that is getting her blocked knocked off every other night.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
Anonymous #2 said:
its a LONG DISTANCE relationship, which kind of defeats the purpose of a fucking a girl to begin with, so why not make some amendments where people can still fuck and not just deal with boring phone sex or whatever?  why deprive yourself from flesh just because you're in it with one person?  I've had one or two long relationships at a distance where I saw them a few times a year but still got laid outside of it.  sexless relationships, long distance or not, arent healthy at all.


To be honest man, I do most of it because of her wishes. You should know how women are. If I mentioned an open relationship she would probably break down in tears. I have no doubt in my mind she flirts around and shit, but I doubt she takes it further then that. And if she did, I would hope she didn't ever mention it, ya know what I mean? I could go on, but basically I wouldn't want another guys dick in her, and I don't want to be a hypocrite.

Thats the dilemma, I don't want to do something I would be pissed about if she did it to me.


don't tell her then.  if you need to get laid do it.  who cares?  long distance relationships are missing the key physical part of a relationship.  you're in a half relationship now.  why would you not want a full one, even if ti comes through what may be generally socially unacceptable means?  you can't fight sexuality in this kind of case, or the whole thing will die, but long distance things are want to die anyway based on this basic lack of physicality.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
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should you?? noo

but will it matter in 10 years? only if you don't fuck the native bitch.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Anonymous #4 said:
should you?? noo

but will it matter in 10 years? only if you don't fuck the native bitch.


true fucking that.  you are most right in this thread

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #2]
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You know what man you speak the truth, I've been tring to shove that realization in the back of my mind, but I gotten caught up in the way I feel about her. Distance is a big thing, especially if you broke like me. Like I said, I started telling her we were together to make her happy, expecting her to run out of steam in a few months. I mean, I really could see us having a healthy relationship if we lived together, but like you said, it's damaged because of our lack of physical intimacy.

I think I'm going to go or it. But karma is a bitch, I know that one. Thanks guy.

Edited by Anonymous (11/26/10 04:22 AM)

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1]
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good on ya.  no point in living in a purely emotional relationship when you're enclosed in a physical body than needs some poon. otherwise, really, why?  you're in a human body with physical feelings, so why would you do anything thats so limetedly(word?) encompassing

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
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OP all this shit is just rationalization for you to push the fact into the back of your mind that you're betraying someone you "love"...you might as well tell the girl you're in the relationship with that you're ending it, because you obviously don't truly love her.
:trophy:oh but it's awesome you get to bang a hot native american chick. i wasn't sure there were too many of those left

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #7]
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this idea that people have to own shit is so disgusting. Lover's should know they have something besides sex, and not be afraid of others if their relationship is that strong.

Keep it clean OP, no STDS, no babies. Everyone needs:infatuations, romances, love, and romping. No one person can fulfill those needs and it is selfish to expect it, or ego driven to think you can.

Make it clear to those you wish to bonk of what it is.

It is selfish to over indulge to harm yourself, but why cause anxiety when you have needs too?

People need realize that fighting mother nature is leading to depressed, unhappy relationships. Why can we have multiple friends to whom we trust our life to, but we cannot have multiple people we can connect to on other levels?

Jealousy is fear, and we need to stop fearing.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #8]
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Quote:
No one person can fulfill those needs


One woman is more than enough for some of us, and that's a clear counter-example. There are plenty of healthy monogamous relationships out there. It does not follow that because it doesn't work for some people it can't work for anyone, and I think it's ignorant to presume that everyone that's in a monogamous relationship is in it due to fear and jealousy.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #9]
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let's be honest here OP. your a fat, ugly, acne covered virgin and your making this topic to troll and making your own fantasies.
why do you make it obvious? your answering your questions. the only one person that COULD answer your question is yourself.

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Re: Should I "Cheat" on my long distance girlfriend [Re: Anonymous #9]
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Anonymous #9 said:
Quote:
No one person can fulfill those needs


One woman is more than enough for some of us, and that's a clear counter-example. There are plenty of healthy monogamous relationships out there. It does not follow that because it doesn't work for some people it can't work for anyone, and I think it's ignorant to presume that everyone that's in a monogamous relationship is in it due to fear and jealousy.


I agree, I want to be monogamous because no other woman I've met so far is as compatible with me as she is. We share key interests in life. And when you find someone like that, the sex is the last thing you worry about.

But we're not having any. Thats the problem. Phone sex and web cams can only go so far. haha.

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