Anonymous #18 said:

honestly, your intentions are good, but just remember hollywood has spewed so many false expectations about relationships. people are who they are, and its not up to me or you to change anyone.

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Eh..yeah. hollywood
Not trying to change anyone, just trying to get to that teddybear core ya know? lol. I don't even know what the hell I'm talking about.

I've just seen personally, friends of mine who meet assholes and they voluntarily change their ways for these girls because they genuinely love them. I was led to believe I had that but he was just a con-artist all the way.

and I still feel like

and #15.. I'm a sucker for them.. Don't know what it is. maybe that primal thing again. or wanting what I shouldn't have.

Anonymous #22 said:

No, it doesn't happen that way.  Those guys were likely never assholes so they never had to change for your friends.  You are only seeing what you want to see.  Would you change for a man?  Really change who you are?  Can't you see the fallacy of your goal?

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If you mean my character/personality probably not..I've even tried for my own sake, it's a hard thing to do. Minor things I do that may upset or hurt my guy, yes I would change them if I have the capacity to do so.

But I get you.
I'm just addicted to these alpha-males. Maybe like the way guys are with tits. It's just ingrained.
It's also partly the feeling of having what other women want so badly. But that only creates more problems because women then become jealous and catty, and will do their best to get what they want.

So right now I also feel  ing the biatches now. so I'm just gonna stop while I'm ahead and go to sleep.

Anonymous #23 said:

Just tell him your pregnant, it his and you have no plans to get an abortion that should get ya a couple months worth of good revenge if ya play it right.
Or if your really mean go get an STD and have break up sex
Or find a guy with a REALLY SMALL DICK dick and fuck his brain out while snapping pictures label them as you and your ex screwing then post them both on line and at a place he frequents....

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Totally thought about the pregnant thing.

as for the small dick thing..no, that will not be satisfying for me in no way shape or form. It's gotta be a win-win kind of thing.
And an online place he frequents...........? Do you know something I don't?



goodnight......

Anonymous #1 said:

Anonymous #22 said:

No, it doesn't happen that way.  Those guys were likely never assholes so they never had to change for your friends.  You are only seeing what you want to see.  Would you change for a man?  Really change who you are?  Can't you see the fallacy of your goal?

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If you mean my character/personality probably not..I've even tried for my own sake, it's a hard thing to do. Minor things I do that may upset or hurt my guy, yes I would change them if I have the capacity to do so.

But I get you.
I'm just addicted to these alpha-males. Maybe like the way guys are with tits. It's just ingrained.
It's also partly the feeling of having what other women want so badly. But that only creates more problems because women then become jealous and catty, and will do their best to get what they want.

So right now I also feel  ing the biatches now. so I'm just gonna stop while I'm ahead and go to sleep.

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Anonymous #23 said:

Or find a guy with a REALLY SMALL DICK dick and fuck his brain out while snapping pictures label them as you and your ex screwing then post them both on line and at a place he frequents....

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Anonymous #25 said:

Anonymous #23 said:

Or find a guy with a REALLY SMALL DICK dick and fuck his brain out while snapping pictures label them as you and your ex screwing then post them both on line and at a place he frequents....

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Just out of curiosity, how the hell do you so easily find someone with a small dick? In the small dick aisle at your local pharmacy?

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Anonymous #1 said:

#16 explain that hide and seek/jenga analogy? lol I'm sorry I'm alittle tired.

And if you met this guy you'd understand where I'm coming from about not being able to play as good as him without a doubt .

so pretty much guys have girls as placeholders until a better or more desirable girl comes along. The trick is how to get that guy to go, shit what I got is better than anything that walks by me.

Now I feel like I'm just in verbal vomit mode.

I really need to get some sleep...

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Anonymous #5 said:

Anonymous #25 said:

Anonymous #23 said:

Or find a guy with a REALLY SMALL DICK dick and fuck his brain out while snapping pictures label them as you and your ex screwing then post them both on line and at a place he frequents....

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Just out of curiosity, how the hell do you so easily find someone with a small dick? In the small dick aisle at your local pharmacy?

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just go down to either the nail place or the dry cleaner and ask if there's any older brothers kicking around.

DUH.



also anon #1, lol, women are TERRRRRIIIIBBBLLLLLEEE judges of character.


TERRIBLE.

terrible.

can't tell you how many times i've seen women being fed obvious, OBVIOUS lies.  and even if 2 minutes prior they had just been in a conversation with someone about how X is Y, and the guy comes over and says something completely contradictory, rather than confront him about the bullshit?  eyes go a bit hollow, she nods, and decides to believe the lie because, well, leik omg being single is haaaaarrd, he's really a good guy honestly and i don't know why none of you guys like him BAAAAWWW!  WHY ARE YOU SO MEAN TO US!


lol, honestly, what the fuck, bitches be crazy.  It's not that men don't understand women.  We do.  By and by large.  We just don't understand crazy.  We can pick out crazy and cool and good and bitchy pretty quick, figure out your character is what I'm sayin, 'course kinda like a frog in a pot of water slowly boiling sometimes we underestimate the degree of things and just slowly acclimate to awful shit..  but damn.  What we don't get is how women can't do the same.

I've tried teachin em.  Honest I have.  Step by step, "these are the things you should have picked up on, these are the things that lead me to conclude he's a lying asshole who's probably going to hit you.  you should have seen them too.  nobody else is surprised."  and then, of course, OF COURSE! in hindsight you can always see even more..  but damned if I ever have had much success.  I've had a number of "i'm sorry i didn't listen and yelled at you"s


Men, yeah, we think with our dicks sometimes.  But yanno what?  I can't say I know anyone who ONLY thinks with their dick.  "Yeah, she's crazy, yeah, I heard she said she has a kid and daddy's in jail, IT'S COOL MAN NAW I GOT IT IT'S COOL!"
We willingly follow our dicks into danger. 
But shit, women?  Pffff.  They're followin their clamtrap, but they're in a cave.  Without a torch.  And it's nighttime.  And a new moon.  And it's foggy.  It's also winter and they have no food.  They thought of none of this when they left the house, and won't remember the next time eitehr.

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I get what you're saying and yeah, I'm pretty sure I made myself blind to alot of crap that I could've seen much much earlier. And this isn't the first time this has happened to me, so I should've been even more aware of those signs.
I actually didn't trust him at him at first, but part of me gave him the benefit of the doubt because he was so honest about everything that happened in his life and about his mistakes. I even asked some of his friends about him, but of course they're gonna stand by their buddy. It was like once he knew he had me, he started returning back to his "normal" self - the one he put on hold while he was getting me to like him.. and that's when the true shit became apparent, that's when I realized it was a little too late to get out of this mistake. I think this happens to alot of women, which is why you can't understand why they are making the mistake with such an obvious asshole. The asshole is a liar and knows what their strengths and weaknesses are: knows what to say to make them feel good about themselves, knows how to pretend to respect them, how to pretend to be a good boyfriend. And once the girl is brainwashed by that, he turns back into his real self, and she's too in love to notice it until she gets hurt.

Also sex really does fucking complicate the whole thing.

But he had me figured out real good and that's what I mean by not being able to play his game. He was just too good at this because he's had to make people like him to survive, and I mean survive literally. He is incapable of feeling true love and compassion towards another person.
Although he still texts me every other day, despite him having a gf...? It angers the fuck out of him that I don't answer.

Well anyway, it's a lesson learned right? I just find it kind of amusing now that there are so still so many girls that are all over him. If only they knew...

And lol at the whole following with the clamtrap, in a cave, without a torch, when it's a full moon thing. Hey I didn't get pregnant so I didn't totally lose everything right? haha.
but I hope you're wrong about it happening again. That's up to me though.

Anonymous #16 said:

Anonymous #1 said:

#16 explain that hide and seek/jenga analogy? lol I'm sorry I'm alittle tired.

And if you met this guy you'd understand where I'm coming from about not being able to play as good as him without a doubt .

so pretty much guys have girls as placeholders until a better or more desirable girl comes along. The trick is how to get that guy to go, shit what I got is better than anything that walks by me.

Now I feel like I'm just in verbal vomit mode.

I really need to get some sleep...

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Men are like hide and go seek. Women are like JENGA.


As in... Hide and Seek is pretty fucking simple. Someone hides.. you try to find them. There's not much room for error.. and only small variations... Like.. Hide and Go seek in the dark... or Marco Polo... But still the same idea.

That is saying, 95% of men are simple as fuck. Eat, Sleep, Sex, Money. Basic emotions. If they've got those needs met, they're happy.


Women on the other hand... are like a game of Jenga. Most of the time, you take blocks out HOPING it doesn't crash down and ruin the fun. There's ridiculous amounts of dexterity and layman's concepts of gravity involved. It's just uber complicated. Then when it crashes down, you gotta put that shit back together again and it's a pain in the ass.

Women are infinitely more complicated than men. and know how to play mind games so much better because they're after something more than just basic needs.

Make sense?

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Yeah but that's a woman's downfall. She lets emotions complicate everything that should in reality be so simple. So she can be her own enemy most of the time.

And the guy, who is the hunter, is actually alot more clever in the game because he's gotta compete with a bunch of other men for the woman. And isn't it usually the guy trying to find the woman?
Well I guess it can go both ways with that. But I hear you on guys having simple needs. I just tend to meet ones that make things a lot more complicated. Or maybe it's me, because I am a woman who does tend to overthink and let my emotions get in the way of reason pretty often
But good analogy, definitely holds true.