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living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid
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Due to my financial situation, I am currently living at my house with my parents.  I used to live at college for 2 years.  My college fucked me over because my family ( NOT ME ) has many assets, and that caused me to lose some of my financial aid and live at home.

Day by day, I get treated like a child still , they still treat me like I'm 16.  I loathe staying at home, and I usually stay at college all day.  I loved being responsible for myself , cooking for myself, caring for myself, and just being very independant. Being Jewish probably got to do with this, but my mother wants to cook for me breakfast when I get up in the morning and they are just unbearable.  Well thats just one thing probably many people would probably really love having parents that do something like that.  My mother cleans my room and puts the cloths in my dresser and stuff.  I dont know how many times I tell her to stop doing so but she does so anyways.

I want them to start treating me like an adult.  I want them to leave me alone.  Stop coming in my room, stop treating me like a kid.  I would do anything to live on my own again.  My financial situation is shit and I do not have a job, partly because I am taking 18 credits and I am at school all day every day (except weekends).  Another reason is this shit recession is keeping me from getting a job, I used to try hard every day but nobody wants to accept someone who has had no job experience.  My mother wants to know everything that I do all the time and that is something she has no business in.

What could I do to stop my mother from doing this?  I have told her many times but I think something is wrong with her.  I try ignoring her, and she tries hugging and kissing me all the time its the most depressing thing in the world.  It makes me feel like im 9, but I am 19.  She still calls me a teenager and her "baby".

What can I do to possibly help my financial situation?

Ok I am done bitching and I just need to vent a little bit.

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Godamn man, either get a fucking job like the rest of us, then move out or suffer the tyranny of living at home.  Pretty cut and dry.  BTW you sound like a spoiled whiney little bitch...  If that is all you have to worry about, you arent gonna get any simpathy from me..

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #2]
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I would really appreciate the OTD assholes stay the fuck out of my threads.  Go back into the romber room, your not wanted here.

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #1]
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I've been having to scrape together money to pay rent and I have to eat nothing but oatmeal, yams, and eggs this week.

Shut the fuck up, pussy. :mad2:

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Better idea, Instead of spending your time on the shroomery, try looking at the job postings on Craigslist or your local paper.  Maybe your nuts will drop while you look for work.  :lolsy:

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #3]
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I just want whats coming to me, no need to be mean to me.  I bust my ass everyday at college, and I deserve to be treated like an adult.  I spend 5 hours yesterday working on 1 paper, you know what else I could have been doing on a saturday night.  Its BS.

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #1]
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This is fake, otherwise you changed your ethnicity.. Jack ass.

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Yep. He changed his ethnicity from Italian to Jewish. :facepalm:

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #1]
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There you go with that whining shit again.  Seriously man, If school is too hard, drop out and become a janitor or some shit.  If not, then soldier on and deal with it.  Life is not easy.  This world will chew you up and spit you out.  Only advice I could give you is suck it up until you get your degree or get a job and go to school also.  I would be taking advantage of that free rent shit while I could if i were you.  Work your ass off, get your degree then get the hell out of your folks house.  Just trying to give you a little tough love brother.

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #3]
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The other post is fake, I posted this first he is just in a different time zone or some shit, also I'm trying my best you guys should stop being so hard on me.  Going to college is the toughest part of a persons life, if any of you went there you would understand this.

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Honestly, it's not that bad. Everyone's different, so count your blessings while you have them. The world isn't really made of peaches and ice cream.

I don't really have the answer though. I'm in somewhat similar circumstances in that I am 23 and my mom calls me "honey". I wanted to move out really badly at one point, but then I realized the world doesn't really care what I did, so I should only move out if I have good reason.

But, honestly, eat that home-cooked breakfast like a champ and be glad your not eating stale bread and flat beer. Even though some of those mannerisms of your mother can be quite irksome, you probably have to just bear it because it is a behavior that has been 19 years in development (your whole life).

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #1]
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i'm lucky to live in the dorms away from home, but i know what you mean. it's an unhealthy relationship, clearly she can't come to terms with you growing up and doesn't want to relinquish control over your life.  when i come home over break or for the weekend my mom annoys the hell out of me. i mean i'm 20, i think i can manage my sleep schedule and turn in my homework on time.

she called me the other day and wanted to know if i had any preference about what color she was going to paint my room. i told her i wasn't planning on moving back in with her over the summer, that i think i am going to split rent with a few people in a house here on campus. she was really upset and kind of brushed it off like i was joking. it's gotta happen though, she needs to get over it.

maybe look into  some student loans? my parents made just enough that we couldn't get any financial aid, but we were still living almost paycheck to paycheck. i thought i was going to have to live at home until i got a pell loan. that + work covers my dorm and living expenses.

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous #1 said:
The other post is fake, I posted this first he is just in a different time zone or some shit


Fail. You have been caught and exposed.

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Re: living with parents, mother still treats me like a kid [Re: Anonymous #4]
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OP, I understand where you are coming from; you are having difficulty hiding your drugs.

Just make you don't put your bowl and weed in an obvious place.  Obviously, she would have found already it if it were in your sock drawer.  You're not an idiot, you know this.  A great place to try is inside of a vent in your room.  Unscrew it and tape it to the sides securely.

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