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I think everyone hates me.
    #11368200 - 11/02/09 12:38 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Seriously, for the past 4 months I have pretty much been a loner. No one ever calls me back or asks me to do anything. I have no friends any more. My boyfriend even ditches me regularly. I don't know whats wrong with me. I'm not mean or spiteful. I really am nice to everyone unless the disrespect me in some way. I'm just so sad and feel alone.

I never had this problem before. I commute to college so I have no friends there, and all my friends from high school just don't care anymore. I don't even know what to say about my boyfriend. He has no excuse.

This is why I spend all my free time here.

*Update* After having a totally shitty week, yesterday when I was at work one of my best friends from high school called me and wanted to go clubbing with me. So we went to this huge club right off a college campus.  She got some guy to buy me a few drinks because she had to drive home. It was so much fun! So now we are going to make it a weekly thing. Yay! :smile:


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People say that what we're all seeking is a meaning for life. I don't
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experience of being alive, so that our life experiences on the purely
physical plane will have resonances within our own innermost being and
reality, so we can actually feel the rapture of being alive.:flowerchild:


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: livelovelaugho9]
    #11368204 - 11/02/09 12:39 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

"If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." Wayne Dyer


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: P-O]
    #11368213 - 11/02/09 12:41 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

use this time to get to know yourself. thats what i'm doing. i feel like were in the same boat. i have the same problems...so i'm using this "alone" time to just do what I want. i'm reading a lot of books, studying alot of materials and getting to know myself. i wish you the best of luck


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: P-O]
    #11368227 - 11/02/09 12:43 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

If you read my story in the pub, you would notice I am losing friends fast, have been since my best friend at 16 got his gf pregnant, since then it just seems like my friends all A. go to jail or B. Have children and that ends their social life.

I have no problem making friends, my problem is finding those I want to make friends with.


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: P-O]
    #11368238 - 11/02/09 12:45 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Quote:

PostiveOutlook said:
"If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." Wayne Dyer




It's so simple you can trip over it :smile: :thumbup:


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: myco_mikey_mo]
    #11368242 - 11/02/09 12:46 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Boyfriends are a pain in the ass, get a girlfriend.

Are you hot? :wink:


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: myco_mikey_mo]
    #11368246 - 11/02/09 12:46 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

change is constant

things will get better hang in there!


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: livelovelaugho9]
    #11368248 - 11/02/09 12:47 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Do things that might bring you into contact with more people to increase your chances of finding some you get along with, I'm a bit of a loner, but I decided to just start doing things.  I went to the planetarium, bought a kayak and started kayaking, started making beer and cheese, and whilst doing these things I've actually managed to make some good friends.  Find something you couldn't really see yourself doing, and then go do it.


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: livelovelaugho9]
    #11368251 - 11/02/09 12:47 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Get out there and meet new people.  Pick up some new hobbies and use your time to get good at them, and you'll meet people through the hobbies.  As you get older you just aren't guaranteed as much of a social life any more, but you can still have one if you work hard at it.


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: livelovelaugho9]
    #11368252 - 11/02/09 12:47 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

how far is your commute?  too far for it to make sense befriending classmates?  meeting new people is a bit of a catch 22.  it's easiest to meet new people, through people.  so you should try to make new friends... to.. make new friends.  i mean, you don't have to, but definitely helps.

if your friends and bf are lame, spend more time around campus.  get to know classmates.  hang out at a coffee shop and strike up a conversation with a stranger.  you're in college, you should not have trouble meeting new people.


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: PreparationH]
    #11368259 - 11/02/09 12:50 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Quote:

PreparationH said:

I have no problem making friends, my problem is finding those I want to make friends with.




Me too actually I guess no one I used to talk to share the same interests with me any more. I feel like everyone is so brainwashed into society that I can not relate to them


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People say that what we're all seeking is a meaning for life. I don't
think that's what we're really seeking. I think what we're seeking is an
experience of being alive, so that our life experiences on the purely
physical plane will have resonances within our own innermost being and
reality, so we can actually feel the rapture of being alive.:flowerchild:


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: tiny_rabid_birds]
    #11368265 - 11/02/09 12:51 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

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tiny_rabid_birds said:
how far is your commute?  too far for it to make sense befriending classmates?  meeting new people is a bit of a catch 22.  it's easiest to meet new people, through people.  so you should try to make new friends... to.. make new friends.  i mean, you don't have to, but definitely helps.

if your friends and bf are lame, spend more time around campus.  get to know classmates.  hang out at a coffee shop and strike up a conversation with a stranger.  you're in college, you should not have trouble meeting new people.




It's only 20 minutes. It's a community college, so no one lives there. I have transferring next semester to a private nursing school which will help.


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People say that what we're all seeking is a meaning for life. I don't
think that's what we're really seeking. I think what we're seeking is an
experience of being alive, so that our life experiences on the purely
physical plane will have resonances within our own innermost being and
reality, so we can actually feel the rapture of being alive.:flowerchild:


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: livelovelaugho9]
    #11368270 - 11/02/09 12:52 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Quote:

livelovelaugho9 said:
Seriously, for the past 4 months I have pretty much been a loner. No one ever calls me back or asks me to do anything. I have no friends any more. My boyfriend even ditches me regularly. I don't know whats wrong with me. I'm not mean or spiteful. I really am nice to everyone unless the disrespect me in some way. I'm just so sad and feel alone.

I never had this problem before. I commute to college so I have no friends there, and all my friends from high school just don't care anymore. I don't even know what to say about my boyfriend. He has no excuse.

This is why I spend all my free time here.




Sometimes i'm in the same situation (months at a time) where no one calls me back and the only way I go out with people is if I call them first.


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: Mistress Misty]
    #11368277 - 11/02/09 12:55 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Quote:

Mistress Misty said:
Boyfriends are a pain in the ass, get a girlfriend.

Are you hot? :wink:




Haaa, I really don't roll that way. I like penetration. I would say yes I am attractive. My best friend is a lesbian.


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People say that what we're all seeking is a meaning for life. I don't
think that's what we're really seeking. I think what we're seeking is an
experience of being alive, so that our life experiences on the purely
physical plane will have resonances within our own innermost being and
reality, so we can actually feel the rapture of being alive.:flowerchild:


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: livelovelaugho9]
    #11368281 - 11/02/09 12:55 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

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livelovelaugho9 said:
Quote:

PreparationH said:

I have no problem making friends, my problem is finding those I want to make friends with.




Me too actually I guess no one I used to talk to share the same interests with me any more. I feel like everyone is so brainwashed into society that I can not relate to them



I commute to my college also, and it is easy to meet people, but like I said, I meet them one day, then avoid them the next for the most part.


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: livelovelaugho9]
    #11368293 - 11/02/09 12:56 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

If you think everyone hates you, you'll subconsciously organize all perceived signals to confirm that suspicion.  So definitely try to change the way you think, first and foremost.  Maybe try to make new friends, sometimes you gotta do that and it might suck, but it pays off.  I'm kind of in a similar situation to you.  I've got a few close friends but besides them I don't really have many.  I try to take advantage of this by doing more in my free time, practicing guitar, listening to/discovering music, reading, etc.  but I definitely wish I could be more social.  Hope things get better for you.  :sunny:


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: PreparationH]
    #11368294 - 11/02/09 12:57 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Thats also true with me, there are just some people I wish not to talk to when they try so hard to be my friend. Maybe I am just too picky.


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People say that what we're all seeking is a meaning for life. I don't
think that's what we're really seeking. I think what we're seeking is an
experience of being alive, so that our life experiences on the purely
physical plane will have resonances within our own innermost being and
reality, so we can actually feel the rapture of being alive.:flowerchild:


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: PreparationH]
    #11368307 - 11/02/09 12:59 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Funny story actually, after months and months of meeting people and brushing them into the "not my type" bin.  I meet this girl I actually am attracted to, has a great personality, but can't take a fuckin joke.  After like 2 months of getting to know each other she called me a woman because I have long hair, I responded by saying: "It's cool if you call me a woman, I know you're just putting me down to make yourself feel better because you're really just empty inside."

She took that one to heart.  She can dish shit out but can't take the heat herself.  Don't like my humor then fuck you basically, why waste my time.

Sad though because 95% of girls I meet I am in no form attracted to, and she actually was attractive to me.  Win some and lose some.


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: PreparationH]
    #11368317 - 11/02/09 01:00 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

"It's cool if you call me a woman, I know you're just putting me down to make yourself feel better because you're really just empty inside."


LOL OWNED.


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Re: I think everyone hates me. [Re: livelovelaugho9]
    #11368326 - 11/02/09 01:01 PM (8 years, 21 days ago)

Quote:

livelovelaugho9 said:
Quote:

Mistress Misty said:
Boyfriends are a pain in the ass, get a girlfriend.

Are you hot? :wink:




Haaa, I really don't roll that way. I like penetration. I would say yes I am attractive. My best friend is a lesbian.




I will be your friend and I would not even request to penetrate you. :stoned:


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