i've been with some slightly chubby women and an especially chubby woman. Most of the women i've been with however tend to be on the skinny side. i suppose instinctively i'm drawn to thinner women, but i don't let my primitive desires get in the way of dating someone interesting.
insecurity about chubbiness to me is a much greater turn off than chubbiness itself. Same goes for any other physical "flaw".
i find i'm much more particular about sub-surface qualities. eventually the body only serves to represent the individual. if the individual is interesting, the body becomes interesting.
anyway, my girlfriend now only weighs about 100 pounds and she is the most incredibly gorgeous and sexy woman i've ever known. in fact, just thinking about her now gives me a painfully hard erection. she is equally the most mentally stimulating woman i've been with, very intellectual and has a great sense of humor. we are madly in love and i would be honored to be with her until the end of time (my time anyway).
so i don't think that's a coincidence by any means, the interest i have in her character is proportionate to the interest i have in her physical appearance.
In other words, it seems very limiting to be overly particular about any physical shape, whether it be skinny OR chubby.
Edited by Anonymous (10/08/09 03:54 PM)
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