what are your thoughts on this?
in my case, this isn't happening, but it's expected of me to support my older brother in the future... it's just him and me and our parents. he's married, with his first baby, and is gonna have 20 more cuz he's a religious nut. his career prospects and skills are low, so things are, will will be more so, very difficult for him. my parents are in a tight financial situation, but are ok. they just bought a house, and one for my bro. they're currently 100K in debt. i'm living with my parents and not making money. i'm 20 though, and already graduated from a top university, and if i set my mind on making a good living or business, i'll most likely succeed. if i end up making a good amount of money, my family is expecting me to support my brother. now, on one hand, i love him and would feel like a dick if i had enough money to support him and let him struggle, but at the same time, i feel strong resentment toward the idea of me supporting him.
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