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Re: Good people [Re: Mufungo]
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I'm not sure but I think that's what one strives towards in Buddhism which I suppose goes hand in hand with enlightenment.

The thought of doing a good deed should never enter your mind and if it does,your not there yet.

You should be living good,it should never be a conscious thought. Something along that train of thought anyway.


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Re: Good people [Re: LobsterSauce]
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Impossible. If Buddhism was based on this then it would become pure religion IMO. I don't think the Buddha ever said anything like that.


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"Don't believe everything you think". -Anom.

" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
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Re: Good people [Re: Mufungo]
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Mufungo said:
So what time have you spent trying to understand why and how Droz came to his conclusions before making your judgments here?



Judgments about what? Did I comment on the personal nature of Droz, calling him good or bad? What exactly is your question? :strokebeard:


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Re: Good people [Re: LobsterSauce]
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Jimtown said:
You should be living good,it should never be a conscious thought. Something along that train of thought anyway.



How can one know what one should do, since the thought exists only in the unconscious? Knowing happens in the presence of consciousness.


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Re: Good people [Re: Icelander]
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Icelander said:
Perhaps this sort of behaviour could be based on a conditioned response that had been earlier shaped by positive reinforcement (i.e. good emotions), but does that really matter or reduce the selflessness of the deed at the time they're risking their life with no guarantee they'll pull through?

It does reduce the selflessness. To give ones life for another one must feel that it is a "good" or "right" act and therefore be in accord with ones ethics. Following ones personal ethics gives one a feeling of rightness, goodness and personal satisfaction for one reason or another.

Again there is no selfless act. We always act in our own best interests first and formost whether it benefits others or not. This is our nature.



Do you mean reduce the selfishness? ...to give one's life for another.

Why do you think one must feel that it is a "good" or "right" act to give their life for another?

Is it conceivable for someone in such a situation not to have that feeling before acting or is it presupposed that people feel (on some level) that what they are doing is a "good" or "right" act (at least to them)?


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Re: Good people [Re: MushroomTrip]
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MushroomTrip said:
Jimtown said:
You should be living good,it should never be a conscious thought. Something along that train of thought anyway.



How can one know what one should do, since the thought exists only in the unconscious? Knowing happens in the presence of consciousness.



Through meditation and enlightenment? :shrug:

I'm in way over my head here but I read that somewhere. I'm positive about that, at least.

It's possible that I read Buddha said you could never do a completely selfless deed. Like there was always some shred of your existence that had the thought of some benefit coming your way from a good deed,be it emotional or otherwise.

Maybe that's it alike what I think Icelander said...


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Re: Good people [Re: MushroomTrip]
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MushroomTrip said:
Mufungo said:
So what time have you spent trying to understand why and how Droz came to his conclusions before making your judgments here?



Judgments about what? Did I comment on the personal nature of Droz, calling him good or bad? What exactly is your question? :strokebeard:



You quoted Droz and then said "It's funny that some people think it's so easy. Maybe if they would spend more time trying to understand why and how some things happen, they won't rush into judging so superficially."

The two observations a) that some people think it's so easy; and b) that they have rushed into making a superficial judgment due to not spending enough time trying to understand why and how things happen, both seem like judgments you had made, were they not? 

What made it seem like your words were in reference to Droz was that you said them after quoting Droz directly. If your words were not in reference to Droz, then why else did you quote him?

So my question was simply to ask how much time you spent in order to arrive at your judgments (as stated above), because it seemed that you were not spending enough time trying to understand why and how Droz said what he said before rushing in to judge so superficially..


If my understanding of your post was not correct, then how did you intend for your post to be understood? :strokebeard:


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Re: Good people [Re: Mufungo]
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I'm a good person. In fact I'm not too far off from Jesus himself.


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Re: Good people [Re: LobsterSauce]
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Jimtown said:
Through meditation and enlightenment? :shrug:

I'm in way over my head here but I read that somewhere. I'm positive about that, at least.

It's possible that I read Buddha said you could never do a completely selfless deed. Like there was always some shred of your existence that had the thought of some benefit coming your way from a good deed,be it emotional or otherwise.

Maybe that's it alike what I think Icelander said...



Yes,but when you speak about something, it means that you're aware of it, so saying that wanting t do a good deed should never enter your mind doesn't apply anymore.


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And never known your face
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And searched this human race
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Re: Good people [Re: Mufungo]
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So my question was simply to ask how much time you spent in order to arrive at your judgments (as stated above), because it seemed that you were not spending enough time trying to understand why and how Droz said what he said before rushing in to judge so superficially..



What made you think that I didn't take enough time to think about the meaning of Droz's post?

The reason why I said that it isn't that simple is because everything has a deeper explanation, and the reasons why lies and hate exist are very complex. Hate for example is merely a defense mechanism, people that hate do it because they think this hate will somehow protect them from dangers. It is a reaction based in fear and lack of understanding that there are more efficient and healthy ways in which one can protect themselves against the things that threaten their physical of mental integrity. Taking this to consideration, would you say that lack of understanding is bad? If yes, then I'd only have to assume that you might think that mentally retarded people are pure evil because they can't comprehend even a larger part of reality.
I am also curious if Droz (and you too if you share his opinions) thinks that labeling someone as being bad because they hate actually helps the situation or produces a change within the persons who hate.
Another thing I am curious about is how many people who share Droz's beliefs would lie about their drug usage, and if they would have the idea they've done something bad.

All of these and much more is making me think that Droz didn't take enough time to think before jumping to conclusions.

Now regarding me making judgments about Droz's personal nature, you couldn't be more wrong. Just because I have the ability to form an opinion about his actions and ideas, it doesn't mean that I am making an appreciation regarding his personality, since these two things hardly have anything to do with each other. If I were to judge his character as a result of his posts, I'd do the same logic fallacy that he did in his post. :grin:


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:bunny::bunnyhug:
All this time I've loved you
And never known your face
All this time I've missed you
And searched this human race
Here is true peace
Here my heart knows calm
Safe in your soul
Bathed in your sighs

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Re: Good people [Re: MushroomTrip]
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MushroomTrip said:
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So my question was simply to ask how much time you spent in order to arrive at your judgments (as stated above), because it seemed that you were not spending enough time trying to understand why and how Droz said what he said before rushing in to judge so superficially..



What made you think that I didn't take enough time to think about the meaning of Droz's post?




Well I didn't straight off, hence why I asked you how long you spent in order to get to your judgments. As it seemed like you were using 'length of time' of 'trying to understand why and how' as a criteria to judge whether someone was jumping to conclusions or not. I wondered whether you were applying the same criteria to your own actions, because you didn't ask Droz to clarify what he meant, what his deeper explanation was, and nor did you try to find out how long he spent or even the depth to which he went to arrive at what he said. So, I could only think that you too didn't spend much time or go to much depth in trying to understand where he was coming from before you said what you said. But now it has been since clarified..

MushroomTrip said:
The reason why I said that it isn't that simple is because everything has a deeper explanation, and the reasons why lies and hate exist are very complex. Hate for example is merely a defense mechanism, people that hate do it because they think this hate will somehow protect them from dangers. It is a reaction based in fear and lack of understanding that there are more efficient and healthy ways in which one can protect themselves against the things that threaten their physical of mental integrity. Taking this to consideration, would you say that lack of understanding is bad? If yes, then I'd only have to assume that you might think that mentally retarded people are pure evil because they can't comprehend even a larger part of reality.
I am also curious if Droz (and you too if you share his opinions) thinks that labeling someone as being bad because they hate actually helps the situation or produces a change within the persons who hate.
Another thing I am curious about is how many people who share Droz's beliefs would lie about their drug usage, and if they would have the idea they've done something bad.

All of these and much more is making me think that Droz didn't take enough time to think before jumping to conclusions.




With regard to "bad" qualities of people or "bad" people, I purposefully tried to avoid this topic except with regard to what people said in their posts. I think it's a false dichotomy, "good" vs. "bad", but it is interesting that many people seem to often think that way. Semantically the two concepts may be very close to one another I guess. But the reason why I think it's a false dichotomy is because I don't see it as quite so black and white... it's all grey from where I'm sitting. That said, I do believe in good and bad, but am also aware of my fallibility in making those judgments when I make them.. my 'truth' criteria while making them is largely based on pragmatics, the raw emotion I felt at the time and then loosely supported by rationale which I have a tendency to think twice about and change my mind about the whole thing later. Not exactly cognitively efficient ...but now I'm going on a bit too much...

MushroomTrip said:
Now regarding me making judgments about Droz's personal nature, you couldn't be more wrong. Just because I have the ability to form an opinion about his actions and ideas, it doesn't mean that I am making an appreciation regarding his personality, since these two things hardly have anything to do with each other. If I were to judge his character as a result of his posts, I'd do the same logic fallacy that he did in his post. :grin:



I agree that what you said wasn't directed at Droz's personal nature. I was only ever refering to what you said about his conclusions or what he said. So if you interpreted me saying that you were having a go at him personally, I'm sorry, that wasn't my intention.


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Re: Good people [Re: Mufungo]
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or is it presupposed that people feel (on some level) that what they are doing is a "good" or "right" act (at least to them)?

This is correct and what I have been saying to you. No one threatens their survival for no reason and any reason must feel right to the person.


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" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
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Re: Good people [Re: Mufungo]
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Yah, I think that case is not so difficult all in all.
The more the range of compassion widens, the more 'good' a person could be called. Indeed, everyone thinks that he does good for oneself in the first place, and that's where this notion and definition of 'good' stems from. Experienced personal well being.
Those, who harm ones well-being, are called 'bad'.
Now, the range of compassion first widened to the family, and then towards societies of different kinds.
At the time, everyone would care about the whole planet, then we could call humans as 'good' at least.
Maybe this was a little bit compressed, but hopefully understandable :smile:


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Re: Good people [Re: ArcanePerception]
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"I say no because I do not believe in good or bad at all. "

This

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Re: Good people [Re: Icelander]
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For what our world is...Good and Evil.
Man is brought into the world without true guidance. We fail everyday to be as good a person we can be. If everyone gave into love and compassion and made the effort to change for the better we could at least be moving forward and progress more dramatically.

No one is perfect though, it's impossible with our reality but we are capable of being both by the choices we make.

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Re: Good people [Re: Icelander]
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Relatively yes. Good people IMO, are basically less neurotic then the average. They know and admit to their imperfections and limitations and choose not to blame others for them. They are open about being afraid yet have the courage to challenge those fears when possible. They look to love and good will as a benchmark knowing they will never be perfect and accepting that. They seek inner joy rather than material wealth or control knowing full well they are temporary and cannot stave off impermanence with power over others or the environment. They are basically rational hedonists and like to love and cuddle and have lots of good passionate relationships and passionate non guilt ridden sex.



And they prefer the Missionary Position.


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Re: Good people [Re: Mufungo]
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A good person never takes another plant or animal life to ensure his/her survival.


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Re: Good people [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
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OrgoneConclusion said:
A good person never takes another plant or animal life to ensure his/her survival.



Good people eat roadkill.

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Re: Good people [Re: toys in the attic]
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I'm glad that someone understands. :yesnod:


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Re: Good people [Re: Mufungo]
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Mufungo said:
Icelander said:
No such person exists. We always benefit, if only emotionally from our "selfless" deeds. If you did not think these deeds were "good" and made you feel good you would never consider them.



What about people who spontaneously act to help another person without time for fore-thought but with real possibility of mortal danger to themselves? Perhaps this sort of behaviour could be based on a conditioned response that had been earlier shaped by positive reinforcement (i.e. good emotions), but does that really matter or reduce the selflessness of the deed at the time they're risking their life with no guarantee they'll pull through?



I agree with the above thoughts on this, and and would remind you of the role that fear plays as well. When heavily attached to a loved one, offspring or partner, the fear of losing them seems to play a large subconcious part in such rash actions, and might seem scarier than one's own fears of death.

Acting out of one's fears of suffering is not altruistic, their is personal benefit. This does not make these acts any less good than previously stated, though due to the nature of attachment & suffering one is also -conciously or not- protecting themself from their own loss as well as the other's.


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