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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #3]
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i am sad that you think its hard to find people with parents who have not been divorced.



its sad to me man.

marriage is a holy thing.


if you go into marriage thinking about divorce stats and the likelyhood of getting divorced then you are a bitch faggot that doesnt deserve respect from anyone.

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #8]
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WTF is your problem with me though?

All I did was state a fact.

I have been married for almost 19 years man.
I got nothing against marriage

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #3 said:
WTF is your problem with me though?

All I did was state a fact.

I have been married for almost 19 years man.
I got nothing against marriage


It is actually 40%-50% of all marriages end in divorce.

The common knowledge answer is 50% of all marriages end in divorce, but it's been proven it is actually a lot less than that.

So, you stated a fact? Did you make it up?

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #3 said:
WTF is your problem with me though?

All I did was state a fact.

I have been married for almost 19 years man.
I got nothing against marriage



my problem is that on the one hand you say you have nothing against marriage, but you advertise a bleak outlook. 

and its not a fact that its hard to find parents who have not been divorced before.

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #8]
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Of all the people I know, only a small percentage of them have parents that haven't divorced.

Maybe it is different over there where you live. :shrug:

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Anonymous #3 said:
Of all the people I know, only a small percentage of them have parents that haven't divorced.

Maybe it is different over there where you live. :shrug:



im guessing you live in CALI?

ever since i have moved here i am seriously wondering why the fuck all these people even get married to begin with...

fuckin liars

"through thick and thin"

"always"

:flowstone:

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #3]
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21 years old and my parents are still together. They have a great relationship and I can tell for sure that its real love. How common this is I don't know, but I do know that it has inspired me to avoid bullshit relationships. After seeing how well it could go I can't let myself have anything less.

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #3]
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im 20 and my parents have been married for 25 years i think, i think the only reason they stayed together when they got married really young is they waited until they had a house had been through college and had steady jobs

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #16]
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My parents are still married after 25 or so years.  They rarely talk, fight, or do anything together.  It's pretty weird to be honest.  They've gotten a lot better though since us kids started moving out, they're almost forced to talk/deal with each other.

For awhile in my early teens, right before they decided to separate for a while, they couldn't EVER be found in the same room, let alone talk to each other.  If that's not awkward, I don't know what is.

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #1]
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My parents are still together.

The only times I see them they are yelling and fighting with each other.

If one thing can be said about religion, it does do a fantastic job of keeping unhappy people together, for fear of Hell.

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #18]
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my nuts are still together, Sometimes they fight but they always make up.

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #3]
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My parents are together.

They just make it a point to not fuck things up.  They don't set themselves up for it.
A lot of things people do set themselves up to ruin their relationships, and rightly so, since that an unconcious way of ending them.
Basically, don't marry someone unless you truly love them and really want to spend the rest of your life with them, even if things don't end up perfect.  And they waited until they were in their mid-20s to have children, after they got their shit together.

That taught me to stay out of bad relationships (be VERY conservative with who I date) and also wrap my shit up when I go to stick it in a girl.  (don't want to knock them up and end up in a miserable relationship)

True love is a rare thing.  Many people never get to experience it, it's a very rare thing.
The "love" that the media drills into us is just lust, not actual love.  KNOW THE DIFFERENCE, DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKE.

I also want to add that many who get married do so because they feel they "ought" to do so, even though they don't really want to.
Society has a way of coercing people into doing things that they don't want to, marriage included and when our subconcious finally bubbles up we ruin the whole thing on purpose without realizing it.  that's where a lot of drama comes from.

Edited by Anonymous (06/03/09 08:45 PM)

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Re: To people who's parents aren't divorced [Re: Anonymous #3]
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Same thing as the OP, parents got divorced when I was ~2 and fight tooth and nail till this day (17 years later). Mom moved, literally, to the other side of the world when I was ~6 and left me with an abusive alcoholic father. Oh well. That's just life, you get dealt the hand you get dealt. The only thing that I worry about is repeating the same mistake.

Honestly that's my only fear, don't turn out like my dad (whom I don't hate, just don't desire to resemble) and don't be like my mother and never get into a relationship like them. Problem is that I've never learned how to be in a relationship, especially one that is healthy.

I think what the OP really asked (maybe this is just what I read into it) is how the fuck do you avoid a marriage that ultimately breaks up.

To those of you who have had the privilege of seeing functional families, what is the thing that strikes you the most as being absolutely critical? Rather, what is it that's most important?

The only gauge I have are old TV shows and it seems that you have to get a wife that's a little bit dumber than you but loyal and make sure your children are well-taught, manners and all.

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